A married woman has been forced to live with HIV/AIDS, the most lethal sexually transmitted disease.
The woman, who had only been married for five months, took to social media, specifically Facebook, to recount the events that led to her ordeal.
The woman revealed that she suspected her husband of cheating after noticing him hanging out with a young lady.
However, when confronted, he denied dating the lady. He explained that the lady was a family member and that he was assisting her.
He lied about the lady, it turns out. A subsequent confrontation after the lady was diagnosed with HIV/AIDS revealed that the 24-year-old lady had infected her husband, who then passed it on to her.
Read her entire story below.
“I’m in a lot of pain right now.” Last year, I married. My husband and I were both HIV-negative before marriage.
My husband began dating a young lady of about twenty-four years in December. He saved her contact as Karen, so I’m assuming that’s her name.
I warned him about the type of messages he was exchanging with the lady, but he became enraged and said, “I’m reading meanings into the whole thing.”
He explained that the girl is a distant relative he met at one of his aunts’ wedding in December, and I let it go. I suspected my husband was having an affair with the lady in early February. I was so enraged that I had to involve his mother.
He said he was letting go of the lady after a long disagreement and misunderstanding between us, which I believe he did.
I discovered I was pregnant in the middle of March and went to the hospital, where it was confirmed that I was three weeks pregnant.
Just this past Monday, I went in for some tests, and guess what? I was HIV positive.
I was sceptical of the results, so I went to another hospital, which yielded the same results. I immediately summoned my husband to come to have his test, and he did indeed have it.
That’s when I started crying and begging him to tell me the truth because we were both negative just before we married last November.
Sir, we went to check together. We were even aware that we would be negative, so we did not panic.
Sir, my husband admitted to me at the time that it could be the girl because they had an encounter on a few occasions and he didn’t use condoms but instead pulled out. He stated that she is the only woman he has been with since we married.
Anyway, the girl told him the truth, that she knew she was HIV positive, which is why she insisted he uses a condom, but he refused. I’ve left the marriage. I’m finished with him.
His family is on my case as if I did something wrong. Will returning to him undo the damage? Will it make my life better? You ruin my entire life after only five months of marriage.
“If they dare to persuade me to return, I’ll just poison him.” I’m sorry for everything.
