Relationship
After five years of dating, she left me for another man and took my 20K away
We’re both set to begin our final year of college. I’m at UCC, and you’re at UG. We’d been dating since high school and were planning to marry shortly. I even told you that with the economy as it is, two children should be sufficient for us to raise. Our main hope was that it would be one boy and one girl so that we wouldn’t have to keep trying for a specific gender. These proposals have piqued your and my interest. My mother told me the first time I brought you home that you were lovely and well-mannered, and that I should make sure I acted in a manner befitting of you. My father passed away in 2020. That was prior to the first time I took you home. I wish he had met you at the time. I was certain he would have loved you as well. My three siblings have no reservations about you. When you initially brought me home, your stern father told me I should concentrate on my studies and start following his daughter after school. He was the only one who was opposed to our love, although your mother was the polar opposite.
She greeted me cheerfully and chatted with me in a polite manner. Your only brother joked with me that if I destroy his sister’s heart, he will come after me. We were doing rather well for ourselves. We formed a joint account and agreed to donate GHc100 each month to aid us when the time came for our marriage. We were doing the susu to tie the knot. Because I am the man, I contribute more money each month than you do. It alternated between ghc500 and ghc600. I would win a sports bet and deposit the entire amount into our account. An uncle from abroad would send me money, and I would save a little portion for myself and deposit the remainder into the account. I also saw that you hadn’t added any money for several months, but I never questioned you why. It wasn’t required. I am the guy, and it was my responsibility to manage our bond funds.
When I attempted to call you at about 8:00 pm and your phone was constantly busy, I recognised the first signals of lying and adultery. Meanwhile, for the previous few years, we’ve always talked on the phone around 8 a.m. It was our time, so I began to assume you had replaced me with someone else, but I didn’t question you. It was impossible for our relationship to be flawless. Distance relationships were difficult for me, but I was determined to make them work since I genuinely loved you. My housemates and pals continued making depressing remarks here and there. “By this time, somebro dey eat your lady gidigidi,” said one of my friends, who informed me that another guy was feasting on the fruit I was cultivating. That man ought to be a prophet.
Perhaps he didn’t require prophetic eyes to see what was obvious. I was the one who was blinded by love, unable to see what was so naked. Because of you, I left the Central Region for Legon one weekend. I was about to take tests. I needed to catch up on notes and schoolwork. I understood that my education was important to my future, but so was yours. So I travelled the entire distance. I casually asked you the night before whether you wanted to go home on Saturday. It was something you did on occasion. You said you’d stay on campus. I didn’t inform you I was going to Legon that Saturday. I arrived and went to your room. On prior occasions, I was present. Despite the fact that it was the first time I had arrived without your knowledge. Your roommate instructed whoever it was to come in when I knocked. None of you had any idea it was your UCC lover. I didn’t anticipate you to be sharing a bowl with a handsome gentleman.
He had his left hand on your lap and the banku and okro you were eating were almost completed. You were laughing and conversing. When I entered your room, I noticed how shocked you were, and how you attempted to seem normal by introducing the other person as your National Service teaching Assistant who had come to help you learn certain issues. You said you were hungry after studying, so you and your friends got some food. I felt wounded and envious. I was unhappy with myself for not choosing Legon forms that would allow me to be near to you. I blamed myself for everything you did to me, despite the fact that it was obvious that I was too wonderful for you. I believed your tale. I apologised to you when you were furious with me for dropping by unexpectedly. I came back as though nothing had occurred. That vac, your mother summoned me to your home.
She began telling me how disappointed she was in me. You were present. You were fixed on me. I’d noticed you’d gained weight, but nothing else came to mind. You were pregnant, and your mother mistook me for the father. You didn’t even refute it when she came to that conclusion. You didn’t tell her that the last time we did it was more than 6 months ago, and I was using protection. That was the point at which I’d had enough. I informed your mother of the truth. I told her you were cheating on me with your school’s TA. I informed her about my conversations with your roommate and how she was having trouble sleeping at midnight since the two of you were fighting with only a blanket covering you for privacy. You sighed at the delicacy of his touch because you assumed she was fast asleep.
After that, your mother apologised to me, and I went home. I needed to safeguard my reputation. You came to my residence to find out why I would betray you in this manner. You expected me to assume apologetic responsibility for a kid I did not father? What were you expecting from me? Our breakup was hard, but I have no regrets. The only thing I regret is that I trusted you and shared five years of my life with you. I was just sixteen years old and felt I was mature enough to grasp love. Now that I’m 21, I’m not even sure what love is. I attempted to withdraw funds from our joint account and offer you half, even knowing you contributed only about 25 to 30%. I was informed that you had already withdrawn the $20,000 from the account. I will never leave you that money. It is the only recompense I have received for all of the anguish you have caused me.
You switched hostels. Your folks stated you spent your vacation with your grandparents in Ho. They urged me to wait until you got home to talk about money, and they weren’t present when we opened the account at 18. When you returned, you stated that you had spent the money. You’ve done a lot of damage to me. This is something I’m thinking about. I haven’t informed you, but I’d want to perform rituals on you. I want you to feel some remorse for bringing me misery. I’m sure you’ll read this. I know you read this website. I would have mentioned your name, but the administrators will delete it. Return my money, or you will never be happy in your life. I won’t say anything else.
Source: Anonymous Confessions
Relationship
I slept with 300 people in a year – detractors call me ‘disgusting,’ but I feel powerful
An Australian lady who claims to have had sex with over 300 individuals in one year described the experience as “empowering.”
Annie Knight, 26, said on “The Kyle and Jackie O Show” that she even slept with five individuals in a single day during the wild, fun-filled year.
“I felt empowered afterwards,” the adoring Australian said. “Sex makes me happy. Its purpose is to make you feel wonderful.”
Knight had sex with both men and women, and she told the radio show that she met many of her sex partners using dating apps. She does, however, have a list of “regulars” on the fast dial for when she feels like getting down and dirty.
“The messier the sex, the better,” she said.
Knight, called “Australia’s most sexually active woman,” went on to state that nothing is off limits when it comes to experimenting in the bedroom, stating, “I’m down to try anything.”
However, not everyone is thrilled by Knight’s open love of sex, with one detractor calling her “disgusting.”
Knight, who maintains an OnlyFans account, was also sacked from her marketing position when her superiors discovered her lewd online behaviour.
The sex fanatic told “The Kyle and Jackie O Show” that her website has plenty of kinky stuff since she performs “pretty much everything” on video.
Knight recently made news after speaking out about being fired from a separate site.
“The last thing I wanted to do was to get fired if someone found my OnlyFans,” she said on “SBS Insight” a few weeks ago.
“There was a list of three reasons why I was fired basically,” Knight explained, adding that she was “very upset and very angry” at her employer’s decision to fire her.
“They said I falsely advised that I had a side business, didn’t ask for permission from the company to run the side business and that I had online pornographic images of myself and crude language that was against company rules,” she went on to say.
When it comes to women, what does a man want? To a significant extent, the solution is and will continue to be a mystery.
But it hasn’t prevented scientists from trying to solve the mystery of human attraction.
On the one hand, each man has his own tastes. Qualities and features that are desirable to one guy may not be appealing to another.
However, research has discovered that many men have one trait: they prefer to believe their initial impressions. And those early moments have a significant influence on their level of attraction to certain women.
Of course, some women are born with the ability to make a terrific first impression with little to no effort, while others must work a little more.
Here are five characteristics that men find particularly appealing in women, according to a study.
Natural-looking makeup, including eye makeup and lipstick
Some males remark that they prefer women who do not wear makeup because they appear more natural. However, according to a Zoosk poll, 139 of 1,200 women who applied eye makeup in their profile photo were more likely to receive responses from males. Men were also more likely to desire to meet a lady if her profile photo included lipstick.
Women who wear “darker” cosmetics, on the other hand, were less likely to be asked out. Even if men claim they prefer women who appear “natural,” this implies you may wear “natural” cosmetics and still attract guys.
Also, fellas, it’s quite OK to remark that your girl looks great with winged eyeliner and red lipstick.
The ideal waist-to-hip ratio
This choice is based on health and fertility rather than appearance.
“Evidence also shows that waist-to-hip ratio is a strong indicator of a woman’s oestrogen levels, risk of obesity, and susceptibility to major diseases such as diabetes, ovarian cancer, and heart disease,” according to the study.
Dressing in red clothes
The colour red represents passion. It’s no surprise that males find it appealing. In a research conducted by psychologists at the University of Rochester, men were given images of various women with framed borders of either red or white and were asked how attractive they thought the ladies were.
They were then given an identical photo with the ladies dressed in either red or blue and asked how much they would spend on a date with that woman. Women who were framed in red or wore red were more likely to be considered seductive and beautiful, and males were more likely to want to spend money on a date.
A kind attitude
A pleasant demeanour always goes a long way. Researchers from the Society for Personality and Social Psychology discovered that a woman’s responsiveness to men’s needs and desires boosted her attraction to males.
A higher-pitched voice
According to studies, women prefer males with deeper voices. For males, the reverse is usually true, since some feel “[higher] voices signal reproductive fitness, femininity, and smaller body size.”
I used to do fraud. Someone introduced it to my buddy, who then introduced it to me. The game has different stages. We were at the bottom of the game’s ladder, so we didn’t make much money, but the risk involved was excellent. Aside from the danger, you must labour every day in order to earn GHC500 every week.
We slept very little because our clients were all over the world, and because of the time difference, we had to stay awake in order to communicate with them. I had a major hit one day. I received GHC7,000 from a bargain and immediately purchased an iPhone for my girlfriend, Cynthia. She was aware that I was involved in fraud, yet she was uninterested. She became interested in the business when I gave her the iPhone and told her how I obtained it.
So when I had a customer who claimed to be a girl, Cynthia was the one who spoke to them. She was the one who set up the video calls. We were still struggling. We halted operations since the money was not flowing as promised.
Life was difficult for two jobless lovers. I couldn’t help her. I couldn’t help myself, so we relied on the generosity of friends who were succeeding in the game.
Ernest, a buddy of mine from Canada, came over one day, and we were all hanging around. Cynthia later informed me, “Your friend likes me.” He was licking his lips and staring at me in some way. Let’s go get some money from him. Tell him I’m not your girlfriend. Allow him to take me so we may obtain money from him.”
Ernest was formerly a player in the game. He went outdoors after getting money. I warned Cynthia Ernest that she might catch the hint, but she was so enthusiastic about collecting money that we gave it a shot. “Don’t let him sleep with you,” was the lone caution. Never.”
She brought me GHC 500 a week later. “He gave me 1,000 GHC.” “That’s your cut,” she explained.
Ernest was hiding the affair because he was afraid I would be upset if I found out he was seeing my sister. He was even concealing it from the team, but we were aware of what was going on.
He was here for a month, and we earned a lot of money.
He was still sending money after he left. Cynthia gave me my portion. I got a job and advised her not to see Ernest anymore. She didn’t give up. It escalated into a brawl, in which I threatened to let the cat out of the bag. “If you try it, you’ll go to jail,” she said. You know I’m familiar with all of your previous transactions. How much money can you offer me to get me to quit seeing Ernest?”
Cynthia is currently in Canada with Ernest, where they are having the time of their life. I tear up when I see their images. When I see these videos on Instagram, I want to kick them in the video.
Ernest finally understands reality. Cynthia, I believe, informed him in a way that she wouldn’t be held responsible, saying something like, “He gave me to you so we could get money from you, but I fell for you because you’re a good person.” That sort of thing.
I must confess, they had the final laugh. Cynthia informed me the last time I spoke with her, “If you stop being bitter, I will send you something small every month.” You don’t have to hate me since I don’t hate you.”
I bowed my head and kicked the bitterness out of my heart because money is money.
That girl is the only honest scammer there is. She maintained her promise. She occasionally sends me money. She’s gradually rebuilding the bridge between me and my old friend Ernest. She duped me, but I can’t really complain. I still have feelings for her but in a different manner. I adore her as someone who looks after me.
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