Relationship
At 29, I’ve never enjoyed the real thing or even a kiss before

I’m not sure what I haven’t done to assist me to fix this problem, but it persists. Small things used to annoy me a lot as a youngster, and I’d dream about something I observed. My younger sister puked after school one day, and I couldn’t get the image out of my brain. I had a dream that I was compelled to swallow her puke. Sorry for going into such depth. When I see the perspiration on someone’s body, I’m so repulsed that I won’t let them touch me. Even if the individual is a family member I care about, I will avoid them.
I was sitting in trotro one day when a sweaty man pressed his flesh against mine. I felt queasy and unclean right away and wanted to run home to take a bath. Because of this issue, I stopped using Trotro when I started working until I had my own automobile. I can’t handle terrible odours; if I smell them for too long, I puke. I am unable to utilise a public restroom. Even with the one at home, I have to cover the seat with Kleenex every time I use it. My mother assumed it was a spiritual issue. She took me to a prayer camp to be delivered, but nothing happened.
I am constantly on the lookout for diamonds or nasty stuff around me. I can’t help myself because the two men I’ve dated both left me due of this same issue. He invited me to the first guy’s house. He was clean and smelt nice. It was one of the things that drew me to him. I was OK when I entered his room. Despite the fact that a few things were out of order, I was attempting to keep my cool. I pulled away and fled the minute he tried to kiss me. He didn’t have awful breath or anything, but even though I adored him, I couldn’t envision another person’s saliva entering my mouth. We tried again after that. He suggested we could do it without kissing, but as soon as our bodies met and I felt perspiration on him, I had to quit and go home to bathe. I attempted to keep him, but after my weird behaviour, he became bored of me and ended our relationship.
My next boyfriend was with me for three years. Early in our relationship, I told him about my condition. He offered to assist me and even put me in touch with an old schoolmate who is a psychologist. I had two sessions with him and had had enough. There had been no progress. I felt really uncomfortable sitting in front of someone and telling them my entire story. I came to a halt since it was so strange. My partner then encouraged me to continue, but I couldn’t. Because he couldn’t do anything truly intimate with me, I sent him recordings of myself in my underwear while he was playing with his joystick. But he was sick of it. He wanted to be personal with me again, but I stopped him. He has a lot of hair. When I felt his hands on me, I lost interest and came to a halt. It’s not that I’m not interested in males. I am really direct. I dislike ladies.
But I’m not excited when I see two individuals having it in bed. I just notice how filthy it looks with everyone touching and salivating. It disgusts me greatly. But I have a device that I use to entertain myself, and when I use it, I generally envision a person I like. After I finish, I have to spend more than 30 minutes washing the toy with detergent and water, because else I won’t believe the gems are gone. This is something I can’t discuss with anyone since the few individuals I’ve told have looked at me strangely. It’s not that I’m arrogant or that I despise people. I’m not sure why the distaste is so intense.
I couldn’t use the same cup as my siblings or drink from their bottle when I was a kid. I needed to obtain my own. It has been there since my youth and has become worse. I’m 29 years old and still a virgin since this condition prevents me from even kissing a man, let alone experiencing other things. I desperately need assistance. I can get out of bed and feel irritated by my own perspiration. I need to take a bath before I can relax. Someone shakes my hand, so I rush to the restroom to wash my hands with soap.
When I touch a doorknob to open it, I am constantly reminded that my hands are filthy. The sensation will not go away till I wash my hands. I’ve stopped buying food outside because I constantly see something that irritates me. A housefly, a gutter, or anything on the seller’s body, such as a soiled gown. When I go to the market, I wash my ingredients in soap and water, then rinse the soap off. I prefer a mall than a market. Otherwise, my sister would go shopping for me. Some friends believe it is OCD, while others believe it is a gem phobia. I just need a solution, whatever it is. Thanks.
Relationship
I introduced her to fraud but she scammed me and married my Canadian-based friend

I used to do fraud. Someone introduced it to my buddy, who then introduced it to me. The game has different stages. We were at the bottom of the game’s ladder, so we didn’t make much money, but the risk involved was excellent. Aside from the danger, you must labour every day in order to earn GHC500 every week.
We slept very little because our clients were all over the world, and because of the time difference, we had to stay awake in order to communicate with them. I had a major hit one day. I received GHC7,000 from a bargain and immediately purchased an iPhone for my girlfriend, Cynthia. She was aware that I was involved in fraud, yet she was uninterested. She became interested in the business when I gave her the iPhone and told her how I obtained it.
So when I had a customer who claimed to be a girl, Cynthia was the one who spoke to them. She was the one who set up the video calls. We were still struggling. We halted operations since the money was not flowing as promised.
Life was difficult for two jobless lovers. I couldn’t help her. I couldn’t help myself, so we relied on the generosity of friends who were succeeding in the game.
Ernest, a buddy of mine from Canada, came over one day, and we were all hanging around. Cynthia later informed me, “Your friend likes me.” He was licking his lips and staring at me in some way. Let’s go get some money from him. Tell him I’m not your girlfriend. Allow him to take me so we may obtain money from him.”
Ernest was formerly a player in the game. He went outdoors after getting money. I warned Cynthia Ernest that she might catch the hint, but she was so enthusiastic about collecting money that we gave it a shot. “Don’t let him sleep with you,” was the lone caution. Never.”
She brought me GHC 500 a week later. “He gave me 1,000 GHC.” “That’s your cut,” she explained.
Ernest was hiding the affair because he was afraid I would be upset if I found out he was seeing my sister. He was even concealing it from the team, but we were aware of what was going on.
He was here for a month, and we earned a lot of money.
He was still sending money after he left. Cynthia gave me my portion. I got a job and advised her not to see Ernest anymore. She didn’t give up. It escalated into a brawl, in which I threatened to let the cat out of the bag. “If you try it, you’ll go to jail,” she said. You know I’m familiar with all of your previous transactions. How much money can you offer me to get me to quit seeing Ernest?”
Cynthia is currently in Canada with Ernest, where they are having the time of their life. I tear up when I see their images. When I see these videos on Instagram, I want to kick them in the video.
Ernest finally understands reality. Cynthia, I believe, informed him in a way that she wouldn’t be held responsible, saying something like, “He gave me to you so we could get money from you, but I fell for you because you’re a good person.” That sort of thing.
I must confess, they had the final laugh. Cynthia informed me the last time I spoke with her, “If you stop being bitter, I will send you something small every month.” You don’t have to hate me since I don’t hate you.”
I bowed my head and kicked the bitterness out of my heart because money is money.
That girl is the only honest scammer there is. She maintained her promise. She occasionally sends me money. She’s gradually rebuilding the bridge between me and my old friend Ernest. She duped me, but I can’t really complain. I still have feelings for her but in a different manner. I adore her as someone who looks after me.
Relationship
I adore my husband, but I also love my boss

My spouse is fantastic. He’s a wonderful father to our children, and I adore him.
Everything went well till I saw my Boss for the first time lately. I had just recently begun working at my new workplace, therefore, I had never met the Boss in person. He was smitten with me from the moment he saw me. He knows I’m married and is fine with it.
He treats me like a lady and pays all of my bills. He pays for stuff I don’t even realise I need. I enjoy spending time with him. He makes me feel incredibly protected, and with him, the world may disappear for all I care.
He is not married and, in his own words, is eager to “be here” for me.
We are yet to have shuperu, but he kissed me last night before we split ways, and I’ve been craving his kiss all day. Not only have I been thinking about his kiss, but also about what it would be like to lay in bed with him and yield to his wishes.
I tell him how much it pains me to do this to my husband, and he says, “Don’t worry. Everything will be well. He can’t be harmed by what he doesn’t know.”
He has a knack of getting under my skin emotionally. Only my husband has been able to reach me in the same manner that my employer has, and it makes me want to keep him—keep him and keep my husband.
My spouse just refers to him as my Boss. If he finds out, he would undoubtedly break down and break up with me, therefore I’ve learnt not to leave any evidence. I’m in a state of confusion right now. Confused because my husband needs to hurt me or treat me horribly in order for me to fall in love with someone else, but in this situation, everything is perfect between us, but I still long for someone new.
I desperately need my job, therefore I don’t want to offend my employer. This is the only job I’ve ever had that pays above and above my expectations. I simply cannot afford to lose it. Aside from that, I want my employer and I need my husband. I wish there was a way for the two to coexist.
The gravity of the situation is that, since meeting my employer, shuperu with my spouse has become a responsibility for me. I make myself available to him, but I don’t feel anything. It’s similar to the fable of the brook and the stone. What effect may the stream have on the stone? Nothing. He’s doing it, and I’m thinking about my employer. I am aware that I require assistance.
Relationship
Woman sues boyfriend for abandoning her after funding his extravagant lifestyle

A heartbroken lady has hauled her lover, Hassan Umar, to a Kano magistrates’ court for having dumped her after spending N900,000 on him.
In court, the woman’s counsel said that the defendant claimed he was in love with his client and that they had agreed to marry.
However, after spending the money on him, Umar abandoned her and stopped seeing her.
The defendant, on the other hand, pled not guilty to the accusations, explaining that it was merely a relationship that did not survive the test of time.
Following the reading of the charges, the Magistrate requested that both sides produce their witnesses for the next postponed session.
Addressing journalists after the court sitting, the woman said:
“I doubt he didn’t charm me. Whatever he asked me I did it instantly. I cooked different types of food for him, including chicken, meat, and even two rams.
“I spent over N900,000 on him. But from there, he started showing me as if he didn’t care. Later he stopped coming to me.”
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