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God said he’s mine. Even his wife must listen to the divine instruction
I am a female (aged 30 years), a Christian, and I take my spirituality very seriously. This is a story about how one witch is destroying God’s plan for me. I am a virgin, I don’t date and I don’t play with men. I have received a lot of prophecies that I would marry a powerful pastor and be famous. The word isn’t fulfilled, but I am acting on it by living as a true pastor’s wife. I won’t even befriend you if you are not spiritual.
Five years ago, a friend invited me to a church program. There I met this young youth pastor called Felix. Immediately, the Holy Spirit told me that he would be my husband. I started attending my friend’s church and got closer to this pastor. Honestly, he is the real deal. He took me as a spiritual daughter. You never see him without me. People started to gossip but I didn’t care.
I made sure all the ladies know that he is mine. I protected him. After a while, I was expecting him to propose but he didn’t. One day I took courage and proposed but he told me he isn’t ready for a relationship now. In the course of 3 years, I proposed 3 times but he still said he isn’t interested in relationships now and I shouldn’t consider waiting for him. He was still very good to me and I believed God will make a way, perhaps he was still single.
I visited his house often and gave his family gifts. Everyone thought we were dating but no one could ask him because he is the quiet type, calm and respected by all. One day this young lady visited the church, I am not an usher but I like to welcome all new ones as a good pastor’s wife in training. She was nice. After church, I was waiting to see Felix off so I can go home too but he told me to go first. I then saw him going home with the young lady.
The lady started visiting the church often and Felix started spending more time with her. I deliberately became her friend, I told her about my relationship with Felix so she knows her place. I made it clear we were very close. She just smiled and told me that she knew I was his daughter and it was nice to formally meet me. She asked me if I liked the book Felix gave me for my birthday because she told him I would like it. I didn’t know what to say.
I told her to call him Pastor Felix instead of Felix but she also just smiled. Things got so bad when I saw her take Felix’s phone after church, she unlocked it and started playing games. Felix doesn’t even allow me to hold his phone. I don’t even know the password. I tried to scold her that we don’t play with a pastor’s phone but again she just smiled and told me my daddy doesn’t mind.
One Sunday, three months after the lady started coming to church, it was announced in church that there is a special announcement. The head pastor announced that Pastor Felix was getting married to this new lady. The church was silent then everybody started to clap. Everyone was shocked. They came forward and we were asked to pray for them. I could not hold back tears. I fell down. People thought it was Holy Ghost but I was in pain.
I wasn’t going down that easily. I told a friend how Pastor Felix broke my heart. She accompanied me to see the pastor of my former church. He then called the head pastor of my current church to ask questions. Things got messy. A meeting was called. Pastor Felix was asked why he broke my heart but he said he didn’t because we never dated.
I told everyone that I joined the church for him, became his daughter, served him, served and gave his family gifts and acted like a wife. I told them about the prophecy. Everything I did was for him. Pastor Felix just claimed he only saw me as a daughter, treated me as such and even gave me money. He has been going out with his fiancee for 7 years, she was not in the country often but he knew from day one that she was the one.
I told him that he lied to me. He said he likes to keep his personal life private but the head pastor, his family and very close friends knew he has a serious girlfriend but he kept telling me he isn’t ready so I should move on because he wanted to let me off easily without hurting me. His fiancee said she knew me long ago and stated instances when I called when she was around or things that Felix did for me that were her idea because she saw me as her daughter too.
She said she would back out but has only one question for me, has Felix ever been inappropriate with me? I told her no. He has never even held my hands before. He is never alone with me and never allowed me to cook or clean for him. But that’s the confirmation from God that he is perfect for me. She said I was in a one-sided relationship with someone who genuinely cared for me as a daughter. She said Felix treated me the same way he treated all his children, male and female. He loved them and cared for them. I got so upset. She knew too much. The head pastor said they can’t do anything about it. Three weeks later they got married.
A month later, the lady moved back to America, and Felix followed two months later. 7 months later, which was two weeks ago, we were in church when it was announced that Pastor Felix and his wife have delivered a baby boy and girl three days prior. This was my blessing the witch stole from me. I still trust in God. I know Pastor Felix is mine and I am praying that God would let him see reason and he will return to me. The trap of the devil won’t hold him forever. I am fasting and praying. God will make a way. Please advise me on what more to do to get my man back.
Source: Anonymous Confessions
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I slept with 300 people in a year – detractors call me ‘disgusting,’ but I feel powerful
An Australian lady who claims to have had sex with over 300 individuals in one year described the experience as “empowering.”
Annie Knight, 26, said on “The Kyle and Jackie O Show” that she even slept with five individuals in a single day during the wild, fun-filled year.
“I felt empowered afterwards,” the adoring Australian said. “Sex makes me happy. Its purpose is to make you feel wonderful.”
Knight had sex with both men and women, and she told the radio show that she met many of her sex partners using dating apps. She does, however, have a list of “regulars” on the fast dial for when she feels like getting down and dirty.
“The messier the sex, the better,” she said.
Knight, called “Australia’s most sexually active woman,” went on to state that nothing is off limits when it comes to experimenting in the bedroom, stating, “I’m down to try anything.”
However, not everyone is thrilled by Knight’s open love of sex, with one detractor calling her “disgusting.”
Knight, who maintains an OnlyFans account, was also sacked from her marketing position when her superiors discovered her lewd online behaviour.
The sex fanatic told “The Kyle and Jackie O Show” that her website has plenty of kinky stuff since she performs “pretty much everything” on video.
Knight recently made news after speaking out about being fired from a separate site.
“The last thing I wanted to do was to get fired if someone found my OnlyFans,” she said on “SBS Insight” a few weeks ago.
“There was a list of three reasons why I was fired basically,” Knight explained, adding that she was “very upset and very angry” at her employer’s decision to fire her.
“They said I falsely advised that I had a side business, didn’t ask for permission from the company to run the side business and that I had online pornographic images of myself and crude language that was against company rules,” she went on to say.
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Some unusual qualities men want in a woman
When it comes to women, what does a man want? To a significant extent, the solution is and will continue to be a mystery.
But it hasn’t prevented scientists from trying to solve the mystery of human attraction.
On the one hand, each man has his own tastes. Qualities and features that are desirable to one guy may not be appealing to another.
However, research has discovered that many men have one trait: they prefer to believe their initial impressions. And those early moments have a significant influence on their level of attraction to certain women.
Of course, some women are born with the ability to make a terrific first impression with little to no effort, while others must work a little more.
Here are five characteristics that men find particularly appealing in women, according to a study.
Natural-looking makeup, including eye makeup and lipstick
Some males remark that they prefer women who do not wear makeup because they appear more natural. However, according to a Zoosk poll, 139 of 1,200 women who applied eye makeup in their profile photo were more likely to receive responses from males. Men were also more likely to desire to meet a lady if her profile photo included lipstick.
Women who wear “darker” cosmetics, on the other hand, were less likely to be asked out. Even if men claim they prefer women who appear “natural,” this implies you may wear “natural” cosmetics and still attract guys.
Also, fellas, it’s quite OK to remark that your girl looks great with winged eyeliner and red lipstick.
The ideal waist-to-hip ratio
This choice is based on health and fertility rather than appearance.
“Evidence also shows that waist-to-hip ratio is a strong indicator of a woman’s oestrogen levels, risk of obesity, and susceptibility to major diseases such as diabetes, ovarian cancer, and heart disease,” according to the study.
Dressing in red clothes
The colour red represents passion. It’s no surprise that males find it appealing. In a research conducted by psychologists at the University of Rochester, men were given images of various women with framed borders of either red or white and were asked how attractive they thought the ladies were.
They were then given an identical photo with the ladies dressed in either red or blue and asked how much they would spend on a date with that woman. Women who were framed in red or wore red were more likely to be considered seductive and beautiful, and males were more likely to want to spend money on a date.
A kind attitude
A pleasant demeanour always goes a long way. Researchers from the Society for Personality and Social Psychology discovered that a woman’s responsiveness to men’s needs and desires boosted her attraction to males.
A higher-pitched voice
According to studies, women prefer males with deeper voices. For males, the reverse is usually true, since some feel “[higher] voices signal reproductive fitness, femininity, and smaller body size.”
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I introduced her to fraud but she scammed me and married my Canadian-based friend
I used to do fraud. Someone introduced it to my buddy, who then introduced it to me. The game has different stages. We were at the bottom of the game’s ladder, so we didn’t make much money, but the risk involved was excellent. Aside from the danger, you must labour every day in order to earn GHC500 every week.
We slept very little because our clients were all over the world, and because of the time difference, we had to stay awake in order to communicate with them. I had a major hit one day. I received GHC7,000 from a bargain and immediately purchased an iPhone for my girlfriend, Cynthia. She was aware that I was involved in fraud, yet she was uninterested. She became interested in the business when I gave her the iPhone and told her how I obtained it.
So when I had a customer who claimed to be a girl, Cynthia was the one who spoke to them. She was the one who set up the video calls. We were still struggling. We halted operations since the money was not flowing as promised.
Life was difficult for two jobless lovers. I couldn’t help her. I couldn’t help myself, so we relied on the generosity of friends who were succeeding in the game.
Ernest, a buddy of mine from Canada, came over one day, and we were all hanging around. Cynthia later informed me, “Your friend likes me.” He was licking his lips and staring at me in some way. Let’s go get some money from him. Tell him I’m not your girlfriend. Allow him to take me so we may obtain money from him.”
Ernest was formerly a player in the game. He went outdoors after getting money. I warned Cynthia Ernest that she might catch the hint, but she was so enthusiastic about collecting money that we gave it a shot. “Don’t let him sleep with you,” was the lone caution. Never.”
She brought me GHC 500 a week later. “He gave me 1,000 GHC.” “That’s your cut,” she explained.
Ernest was hiding the affair because he was afraid I would be upset if I found out he was seeing my sister. He was even concealing it from the team, but we were aware of what was going on.
He was here for a month, and we earned a lot of money.
He was still sending money after he left. Cynthia gave me my portion. I got a job and advised her not to see Ernest anymore. She didn’t give up. It escalated into a brawl, in which I threatened to let the cat out of the bag. “If you try it, you’ll go to jail,” she said. You know I’m familiar with all of your previous transactions. How much money can you offer me to get me to quit seeing Ernest?”
Cynthia is currently in Canada with Ernest, where they are having the time of their life. I tear up when I see their images. When I see these videos on Instagram, I want to kick them in the video.
Ernest finally understands reality. Cynthia, I believe, informed him in a way that she wouldn’t be held responsible, saying something like, “He gave me to you so we could get money from you, but I fell for you because you’re a good person.” That sort of thing.
I must confess, they had the final laugh. Cynthia informed me the last time I spoke with her, “If you stop being bitter, I will send you something small every month.” You don’t have to hate me since I don’t hate you.”
I bowed my head and kicked the bitterness out of my heart because money is money.
That girl is the only honest scammer there is. She maintained her promise. She occasionally sends me money. She’s gradually rebuilding the bridge between me and my old friend Ernest. She duped me, but I can’t really complain. I still have feelings for her but in a different manner. I adore her as someone who looks after me.