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He has a timetable for everything including intimacy which makes our relationship boring
So this story may sound kinda weird, but I just want to share it to see what you guys think about it. I’m in a relationship with a good guy. He is the type many will call dbee, he comes from a well-to-do family and his parents have been very open and friendly with me since the day I started visiting him. My boyfriend is currently a Chartered Accountant and I just finished my first degree recently. He was my Teaching Assistant at school and that’s how the relationship started.
He is a very orderly person. I haven’t met anyone that orderly in my life. He arranges his things in a particular way and he gets angry when things get messy around him. This attitude of his is in every single aspect of his life even to the point where he has a timetable for the food he eats every day.
He knows what he eats on Mondays, Tuesdays and so on and he has written everything down. We spoke about this and he said that he is melancholic and that’s how he functions. He likes things to be in a particular order and if they’re not, it affects how he functions. He can get cranky just because he is 5 minutes late for a program or he wasn’t able to do his laundry at a particular time. Minor minor things like that can make him angry.
When we have a date and I take a little long in dressing up, he gets angry and it affects the rest of our date. I have tolerated this attitude for long. I know that no temperament is perfect but I also know that we should all make an effort to accommodate each other in order to be able to live peacefully in this world. It looks like I’m the only one who has been accommodating his attitude.
So a few weeks ago, I saw his ‘s*x timetable’. That is what he has named it. He has drawn it like a school timetable and he has allocated the times for s*x on it. After seeing it, I understand why he could go days without talking to me because I didn’t pass by his place on a particular day for s*x. He never told me about the timetable and I am surprised I haven’t noticed it. It’s just that we do a lot of things out of the routine that I haven’t noticed that we have s*x on certain days and don’t on others.
He is an Adventist and he has indicated on the timetable that Saturdays are Sabbath and so no s*x. We have been friends for a while, but we have dated for 5 months. I know I’m going to discover more weird things about him as time goes by.
I confronted him with the timetable thing and he says that is how he is and I should be glad he has factored in our time of intimacy into his schedule because it shows how important our relationship means to him. I honestly do not know how to take all of this.
The good side about him is that he is very thoughtful, he never forgets birthdays or anniversary dates and he gives the best gifts because he pays attention to what I like or want at a particular point in time. But in the end, he appears proud because he is so unbending. He acts like he is perfect, and when we have arguments, I always feel like I’m the one who acts like the bad person and apologises even though he is at fault.
The fact that his whole life is structured is a good thing. As a sanguine, I wish I can live like that, but he is too rigid. He doesn’t like surprises and he always plans ahead and doesn’t want anything new. It makes it appear like our relationship is already becoming boring. He has a particular favourite eatery and a particular beach he likes. He doesn’t want us to try new places and as far as he doesn’t want us to try them, I’m supposed to understand because If I don’t, I’m not being tolerant of him. This is basically how he thinks and it’s a bit annoying sometimes. Do you guys honestly think a relationship like this will work? Because at this point, I really don’t know. I’m wondering if this is how all melancholic men are.
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I slept with 300 people in a year – detractors call me ‘disgusting,’ but I feel powerful
An Australian lady who claims to have had sex with over 300 individuals in one year described the experience as “empowering.”
Annie Knight, 26, said on “The Kyle and Jackie O Show” that she even slept with five individuals in a single day during the wild, fun-filled year.
“I felt empowered afterwards,” the adoring Australian said. “Sex makes me happy. Its purpose is to make you feel wonderful.”
Knight had sex with both men and women, and she told the radio show that she met many of her sex partners using dating apps. She does, however, have a list of “regulars” on the fast dial for when she feels like getting down and dirty.
“The messier the sex, the better,” she said.
Knight, called “Australia’s most sexually active woman,” went on to state that nothing is off limits when it comes to experimenting in the bedroom, stating, “I’m down to try anything.”
However, not everyone is thrilled by Knight’s open love of sex, with one detractor calling her “disgusting.”
Knight, who maintains an OnlyFans account, was also sacked from her marketing position when her superiors discovered her lewd online behaviour.
The sex fanatic told “The Kyle and Jackie O Show” that her website has plenty of kinky stuff since she performs “pretty much everything” on video.
Knight recently made news after speaking out about being fired from a separate site.
“The last thing I wanted to do was to get fired if someone found my OnlyFans,” she said on “SBS Insight” a few weeks ago.
“There was a list of three reasons why I was fired basically,” Knight explained, adding that she was “very upset and very angry” at her employer’s decision to fire her.
“They said I falsely advised that I had a side business, didn’t ask for permission from the company to run the side business and that I had online pornographic images of myself and crude language that was against company rules,” she went on to say.
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Some unusual qualities men want in a woman
When it comes to women, what does a man want? To a significant extent, the solution is and will continue to be a mystery.
But it hasn’t prevented scientists from trying to solve the mystery of human attraction.
On the one hand, each man has his own tastes. Qualities and features that are desirable to one guy may not be appealing to another.
However, research has discovered that many men have one trait: they prefer to believe their initial impressions. And those early moments have a significant influence on their level of attraction to certain women.
Of course, some women are born with the ability to make a terrific first impression with little to no effort, while others must work a little more.
Here are five characteristics that men find particularly appealing in women, according to a study.
Natural-looking makeup, including eye makeup and lipstick
Some males remark that they prefer women who do not wear makeup because they appear more natural. However, according to a Zoosk poll, 139 of 1,200 women who applied eye makeup in their profile photo were more likely to receive responses from males. Men were also more likely to desire to meet a lady if her profile photo included lipstick.
Women who wear “darker” cosmetics, on the other hand, were less likely to be asked out. Even if men claim they prefer women who appear “natural,” this implies you may wear “natural” cosmetics and still attract guys.
Also, fellas, it’s quite OK to remark that your girl looks great with winged eyeliner and red lipstick.
The ideal waist-to-hip ratio
This choice is based on health and fertility rather than appearance.
“Evidence also shows that waist-to-hip ratio is a strong indicator of a woman’s oestrogen levels, risk of obesity, and susceptibility to major diseases such as diabetes, ovarian cancer, and heart disease,” according to the study.
Dressing in red clothes
The colour red represents passion. It’s no surprise that males find it appealing. In a research conducted by psychologists at the University of Rochester, men were given images of various women with framed borders of either red or white and were asked how attractive they thought the ladies were.
They were then given an identical photo with the ladies dressed in either red or blue and asked how much they would spend on a date with that woman. Women who were framed in red or wore red were more likely to be considered seductive and beautiful, and males were more likely to want to spend money on a date.
A kind attitude
A pleasant demeanour always goes a long way. Researchers from the Society for Personality and Social Psychology discovered that a woman’s responsiveness to men’s needs and desires boosted her attraction to males.
A higher-pitched voice
According to studies, women prefer males with deeper voices. For males, the reverse is usually true, since some feel “[higher] voices signal reproductive fitness, femininity, and smaller body size.”
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I introduced her to fraud but she scammed me and married my Canadian-based friend
I used to do fraud. Someone introduced it to my buddy, who then introduced it to me. The game has different stages. We were at the bottom of the game’s ladder, so we didn’t make much money, but the risk involved was excellent. Aside from the danger, you must labour every day in order to earn GHC500 every week.
We slept very little because our clients were all over the world, and because of the time difference, we had to stay awake in order to communicate with them. I had a major hit one day. I received GHC7,000 from a bargain and immediately purchased an iPhone for my girlfriend, Cynthia. She was aware that I was involved in fraud, yet she was uninterested. She became interested in the business when I gave her the iPhone and told her how I obtained it.
So when I had a customer who claimed to be a girl, Cynthia was the one who spoke to them. She was the one who set up the video calls. We were still struggling. We halted operations since the money was not flowing as promised.
Life was difficult for two jobless lovers. I couldn’t help her. I couldn’t help myself, so we relied on the generosity of friends who were succeeding in the game.
Ernest, a buddy of mine from Canada, came over one day, and we were all hanging around. Cynthia later informed me, “Your friend likes me.” He was licking his lips and staring at me in some way. Let’s go get some money from him. Tell him I’m not your girlfriend. Allow him to take me so we may obtain money from him.”
Ernest was formerly a player in the game. He went outdoors after getting money. I warned Cynthia Ernest that she might catch the hint, but she was so enthusiastic about collecting money that we gave it a shot. “Don’t let him sleep with you,” was the lone caution. Never.”
She brought me GHC 500 a week later. “He gave me 1,000 GHC.” “That’s your cut,” she explained.
Ernest was hiding the affair because he was afraid I would be upset if I found out he was seeing my sister. He was even concealing it from the team, but we were aware of what was going on.
He was here for a month, and we earned a lot of money.
He was still sending money after he left. Cynthia gave me my portion. I got a job and advised her not to see Ernest anymore. She didn’t give up. It escalated into a brawl, in which I threatened to let the cat out of the bag. “If you try it, you’ll go to jail,” she said. You know I’m familiar with all of your previous transactions. How much money can you offer me to get me to quit seeing Ernest?”
Cynthia is currently in Canada with Ernest, where they are having the time of their life. I tear up when I see their images. When I see these videos on Instagram, I want to kick them in the video.
Ernest finally understands reality. Cynthia, I believe, informed him in a way that she wouldn’t be held responsible, saying something like, “He gave me to you so we could get money from you, but I fell for you because you’re a good person.” That sort of thing.
I must confess, they had the final laugh. Cynthia informed me the last time I spoke with her, “If you stop being bitter, I will send you something small every month.” You don’t have to hate me since I don’t hate you.”
I bowed my head and kicked the bitterness out of my heart because money is money.
That girl is the only honest scammer there is. She maintained her promise. She occasionally sends me money. She’s gradually rebuilding the bridge between me and my old friend Ernest. She duped me, but I can’t really complain. I still have feelings for her but in a different manner. I adore her as someone who looks after me.