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How I Ended Up With A Prostitute In A Kiosk At Madina



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I’m a 22 year old reserved guy and the good part about my personality is that it has made me an excellent student at school and I’m really proud of that. I’m usually the lonely type. I didn’t really have people I could call friends growing up, I only had classmates I spoke to in school.

My parents were very overprotective and I was always restricted from going out, so I got drawn to reading and playing video games, so that has been my life even until now. When I entered UG, I was always in my room.

My roomies will go for parties, clubs, entertainment shows and all those things and I’ll be in my room reading something or chatting on my phone. Around my second year, I made a friend who could not believe I lived like I did.

He thought my life was boring and he wanted me to have fun. I was comfortable the way I was but he will always come to my room and force me to go out. He started taking me to places and I was cool and then he introduced me to weed.

I didn’t like it the first time, but after a while, I was hooked. He started selling the weed-infused brownies in school and he was just giving them to me for free. I remember they used to relax me after a tiring exam and I liked them so much.

Then one time we were talking about girls and I told him I have never dated or kissed a girl before or even talk about having s*x with a girl. He was surprised, but he saw that I wasn’t lying. He told me we can fix a match with a woocup girl for me and I agreed.

Later I just changed my mind. The whole arrangement was weird for me so I told him to forget it. If I will have s*x for the first time, it must be with my girlfriend. He started sending me contacts of girls to be chatting with. Truth is, I was too nerdy to even keep the conversations going.

I found small talk very boring and I couldn’t maintain the daily chats because I just wasn’t used to it. So that wasn’t working and the ladies all ghosted me after some time. Then I told my friend to get me a woocup girl and we arranged for the fun to happen at his end.

He was renting his own place and I didn’t want any trouble with my parents. He got two girls for each of us, but when it was time for the action, I got so nervous that my Jack couldn’t even get up. The whole situation was too weird for me and the girls didn’t want us to touch them or do foreplay or anything. They wanted us to go straight and enter.

Well my friend didn’t waste time and in the end, I was so ashamed I went to the bathroom whiles he knacked both of the girls. Later the whole situation became awkward and he stopped rolling with me. He started saying I was gay and I didn’t like girls.

The whole thing affected me and because of that the urge to sleep with a girl to prove I wasn’t gay became very strong. During one vac in third year, I went on tinder, found one of the girls and fixed another match. This time, it was just me and her.

My parents were not home and my friend and I were not rolling anymore. But despite the fact that I had all day to prove I can sleep with her, I just couldn’t. My heart will beat so fast and anxiety will just take over and I couldn’t do anything. It was very embarrassing. I paid her and just let her go.

When I returned to school for a new sem, I heard about Madina Ritz junction on Jodel and many of the guys commented under the posts about how the ‘ashawo’ girls were cheaper and they allowed you to play with their br*asts and all that if you pay a little extra so I called my friend and told him we should go to ritz and I will pay everything.

We met at the main entrance of the school and boarded a car to the place. It was like a slum with a lot of kiosks packed together. My friend is tall and he drew their attention more so he got one and left me standing awkwardly there.

Every ashawo girl had her own small kiosk with a bed inside. I was about to leave because I was scared the anxiety will take hold of me. But this young Nigerian girl approached me and led me to her kiosk. When we got inside, she stripped and I realized I still wasn’t getting hard. She even saw I was very nervous and asked if it was my first time. I told her yes.

She layed me on the bed and told me to watch porn on my phone and relax. She just layed by me and started playing with my jack and that worked instantly. When I got hard, she gave me protection to wear and just hopped on me and started riding. It was a crazy feeling and we went for a couple of minutes before I reached climax.

After that encounter, I have become her usual client because she somehow knows how to make me feel good. I don’t know if I regret losing my virginity this way or not, I just felt like sharing this confession anonymously. I’ve met some of my schoolmates at the same corner and everyone acts like they don’t know you and that’s cool.

Now I live a double life, my family thinks I’m a saint and only my close friend knows that I smoke weed and knack ashawo girls at ritz junction. I just wish my parents weren’t very overprotective and hard on me. I would have known how to balance my life and socialize better


How to start a new relationship: 6 tips to make it work this year



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Starting a new relationship can be quite tricky yet exciting at the same time.

You will be excited at the prospect of someone loving you and caring for you, taking time for you.

The start of a relationship might probably be the best time of your life as you are starting a new relationship. However, as excited as you might be, it is crucial to know what to do in a new relationship and what not to do in a new relationship.

How to make it work

If you understand the dos and don’ts of new relationships, it will be easier for you to move forward and form a healthy relationship with your partner.

It would help if you respected each other’s independence and choices. Although it is alright to keep in touch, be aware of each other’s whereabouts, and communicate, continuously pinging each other can also suffocate at times.

It is just that how to start a relationship can be quite complicated and tricky and requires lots of effort. Once you get used to it and know about your partner, it is easier to form a healthy relationship.

Dos and don’ts for a new relationship can help you stop second-guessing yourself. It gives you a vague blueprint about what needs to be done, and it can enhance your bond further.

  • Have realistic expectations

For a relationship to work, it is essential to be emotionally and mentally strong. You also have to be compromising and understanding. It’s not necessary that what you want in a relationship is the same as what your partner wants. So, be realistic about situations.

You can both have different thoughts and opinions, like how often you should text in a new relationship. While one person could enjoy the attention, the other appreciates space. So, it is crucial to find a middle ground.

  • Show love and affection to your partner

You might have made a new boyfriend. And now you must be thinking about starting a new relationship with a man you’ve just developed feelings for. 

You must first remember to show love and affection to your partner to strengthen the bond between you both. You must give attention and time to your partner and make eye contact with him.

  • Don’t start talking about the future prematurely

When you start a new relationship, bombarding your partner with questions and plans for the future is not how relationships work. There is a big chance that you can put your partner off.

Every relationship requires time, and you cannot imagine your boyfriend being head over heels from day one. 

You should remember that you are new to this and just starting a relationship. It is okay to be on cloud nine. However, if the question, “How to have a good relationship?” lingers in your mind, you must know that it’s all about taking things slow, one thing at a time. 

  • Don’t mention fears prematurely

At the beginning of a relationship, you and your partner are still getting comfortable with each other. Therefore, one of the crucial new relationship dos and don’ts include not mentioning your fears prematurely. 

Allow your partner the chance to discover your fears and limitations gradually. Mentioning things at the get-go can make them feel intimidated and overwhelmed. 

You can mention your fears when they become relevant to the equation you share with them. 

  • Enjoy moments

One of the big dos and don’ts in a new relationship is enjoying the present moment. 

Don’t let your past experiences and concerns about the future take away the sheen of the exciting present you are sharing with your partner. 

The best part of a new relationship is often the excitement and fun that you can have with someone. The chemistry between you two should be your focus, not the stress and anxiety about the past and present. 

  • Communicate effectively

Entering a new relationship can seem daunting as it often involves opening up to someone and sharing your life with them. However, this can be a cakewalk if you let clear communication guide you through this process. 

Treat effective communication as one of the most important dos and don’ts in a new relationship. It can make or break a relationship depending on whether you do it honestly, respectfully and openly.

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5 healthy boundaries every relationship needs this season



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Every relationship needs healthy boundaries.

Topics such as the boundaries you wish to have can save you from heartbreak down the road.

These are simple dos and donts that you expect your partner to abide by. They could be as simple as how you expect them to communicate to whether or not your relationship is exclusive.

Setting boundaries can determine the success or failure of your relationship.

Even as you enjoy the butterflies that materialize in your stomach at the sight of your new partner, consider talking about the following:

  • Communication style

This is very important information to give your partner. Tell them whether you like them to call or text, how often you need to hear from them, which pet names you like and which you don’t, etc. This will ensure that nobody gets offended when their communication preferences aren’t met.

In the same vein, talk about if and how you will address your relationship on social media. Some people are comfortable bearing it all online while others would like to keep it off social media.

  • What to do during conflict

Disagreements are inevitable and so, you need to know whether your partner needs time alone when they’re angry or they prefer to hash out your disagreement there and then. Communicate this clearly, preferably before you have your first fight, so that you know what is expected of you.

  • The type of commitment you want

To avoid any misunderstandings, clearly state what you expect as far as your relationship is concerned. Will you be exclusive or would you like an open relationship?

As you talk about commitment remember that you can’t change your partner. Even if you’ve clicked and you want different things from the relationship, it won’t end well. Be strong enough to let go if your expectations as far as commitment is concerned.

  • Intimacy

It’s very important to set sexual boundaries. Tell your partner what you like and don’t like in the bedroom, how often you’re comfortable having sex, what level of intimacy you like on a first date or in public and when you’re alone, etc. Do you mind holding hands while you’re out and about? Are you a chronic hugger?

A partner who won’t respect these boundaries or tries to coerce you to break them even when you try to remain adamant risks becoming abusive. This is a relationship red flag and you need to run.

  • Personal space

Tell your partner when you need personal space and what you require from them during this time. Do you need a few minutes alone when you wake up in the morning or do you like some quiet time when you come in from work?

Here’s just one of the examples on boundaries you should set early on in your relationship. Don’t be afraid to speak up if you feel your partner is crossing your boundaries and making you uncomfortable. And remember, some boundaries can be negotiated such that you’re both happy and on the same page.

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4 best tips to avoid getting pregnant during s*x



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There are many ways to avoid pregnancy if you are having active sex.

Sperm can live inside your uterus for up to 5 days after having sex, and pregnancy can only occur if there is sperm in your uterus or fallopian tubes when you ovulate.

You have many tools to prevent pregnancy. Birth control options are plentiful, but some work better than others. The key is to make sure you’re using them the right way.

Here’s what you can do:

  • You’re on birth control

Hormonal birth control methods such as the pill, patch, ring, implant, shot, or IUD significantly decrease your chances of getting pregnant, but they don’t eliminate your chances.

These experts say methods work in various ways. For example, IUDs block sperm from reaching the egg, while the pill, ring, and patch prevent ovulation.

  • You’re on your period

While it’s not impossible to get pregnant while on your period, your chances are pretty slim. 

Your lowest chance of getting pregnant while on your period is during the first day of bleeding. But the chances increase with each passing day as you get closer to your ovulation window. If your typical menstrual cycle is close to the average 28- to 30-day cycle, then the likelihood of getting pregnant while on your period is low. But if your cycle is shorter, your chances of getting pregnant while on your period go up.

  • You use the ‘pull-out’ method

The pull-out method may be the world’s oldest form of birth control.

The pull-out method, also known as withdrawal, involves pulling the penis out of the vagina before ejaculation.

While some studies have found that withdrawal can be as high as 96% effective with perfect use, it isn’t easy to maintain perfect use with this method. 

  • You use a condom

When using a condom to avoid pregnancy (or sexually transmitted infections, for that matter), it’s vital to use it correctly. Correct usage means the condom is rolled onto the penis (or inserted into the vagina in the case of internal or female condoms) before there’s any contact between genitals and skin. 

According to research, the chance of getting pregnant with male condoms is about 18%, and with female condoms, it’s 21%. With perfect condom use every single time, those odds decrease to 2%.

Some nursing parents use the lactational amenorrhea method (LAM) or “breastfeeding method” to prevent pregnancy after giving birth. LAM as a form of birth control relies on the temporary pause in ovulation that often accompanies breastfeeding in the first several months postpartum.

While breastfeeding, the hormone estrogen, which is responsible for getting your period each month, is suppressed experts say, hence, preventing pregnancy.

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