Relationship
I beat her once and she left me for a rich guy, after all, I’ve done for her

I adore this young lady with all my heart. She was living with me and taking a part-time HND in Accounting, which I was paying for. She was an orphan living with her auntie when I met her. The wife used to abuse her severely, and those of us in the neighbourhood were well aware of it. As for me, I was staying with my brother just down the street, and it was terrible how she was always weeping because her auntie was abusing her. My brother used to go and plead for her, but he became tired of it and simply disregarded it when it happened. I truly cared for her, so whenever she was transferred and I saw her outside, I would phone her and we would talk. She was 15 at the time, and I was 24. I may say she grew quickly since the body she had at that age was that of a mature lady.
It began as worry and sympathy, but I developed an affection for this girl and she was constantly on my mind. We grew quite close, and after she completed work at her location, she would come over to my side and talk. I was tempted several times, but I refrained from touching her because she was a juvenile. My brother spotted signs as well, and he informed me that if I impregnated her, he would simply evict me from his room since I was perching. The girl thereafter went to a boarding house. I got her a yam phone, and she started phoning me from school. Around that time, my brother went knocking on doors for his lover, and she arrived to stay in his single room self-containment with us, so I received the word and began seeking another place to stay. I started at a kiosk and worked my way up to a two-bedroom apartment through a small spare parts business.
So I was interested in her during her time at SHS. I told her before she left, and she claimed she was afraid of me and would think about it. However, she eventually agreed to my proposition. Her auntie never paid her any visits at school. I was the one who went there, and the school officials mistook me for her brother. I purchased her gifts, and she was overjoyed. I once went to a funeral near her school and informed her about it. She left class and crossed the street to meet me where I was. That’s when I broke her virginity. She was seventeen years old. She screamed so hard because she was frightened I would abandon her, and all of her friends had suffered the same fate from the males who shattered them. I told her that I would not abandon her and that my feelings for her were sincere. She was worried that the 9-year age difference would cause problems, and she had trust concerns because she thought she was simply a schoolgirl I was playing with.
She completed SHS when the time came. She achieved well in the WASSCE, but her auntie refused to assist her to pursue her studies. That’s when I went out and got her HND paperwork. Her auntie had also abandoned her. She didn’t fire her, but if she cooked and my girl wasn’t there, she didn’t leave any food for her. She and her children will be the only ones to eat. My child was continuously whining that the woman was trying to get rid of her but she couldn’t. I told her to come and stay with me because of the way she was moaning, and she did. She contacted her auntie and informed her that she had found a place. Her auntie picked up on the fact that she was seeing a man and told her that if she became pregnant, she would not be able to support her.
We had the pregnancy warning from both sides, so we were cautious. I’m not the sort that is constantly seeking ways to stretch her legs or do things with her. It happened, although not on a daily basis. My intention was to educate her so that she might become a better person. Fortunately, she completed the HND with honours. This girl clung to me as if I were her saviour, and she even thought of me as her father. Last year, I turned thirty. She celebrated her 21st birthday. I told her at the time that I wanted us to conduct a little engagement and then sign. My girl stated that she was not ready for marriage and that she didn’t know how she felt about me but couldn’t tell me because I had done so much for her. We had an altercation that night, and I hit her for the first time. She screamed till she fell asleep, and I felt terrible but didn’t know what to do. I awoke the next morning to find her not sleeping next to me on the bed.
I wanted to apologise to her and make amends. I sought everywhere for this girl. I returned to her auntie to inquire, but she was not present. I even reported her as missing. She didn’t use social media, and her phone was turned off. This tale concerning her disappearance took place a year ago. I was browsing Facebook a few weeks back when I came across her in the people you may know section. It was a new Facebook account she’d set up. I added her as a friend, but she never accepted it. Later, I double-checked and saw that she had blocked me. I made a new Facebook account with photos of a deceased buddy and sent her a friend request, which she accepted. We’ve been talking, and I’m in a lot of pain. My girl has met a wealthy man who looks after her and finds her a decent job. I tried to propose to her using that account, but she boldly stated that she is happy with her guy and is not interested. I was so upset that I dialled her number and showed her my face. She blocked me again when she realised it was me. How should I proceed? I think I’m going insane. Something bad will happen if I don’t marry this girl.
How do I reclaim her? She has changed drastically. She was always modest and caring to me. She was the one who was scared I would abandon her, yet look what has happened today. How do I hunt her down and locate her? I’m unable to sleep or work. I can’t stop thinking about her. Please assist me. Is there any way I can find her?
Source: Anonymous Confessions
Relationship
I introduced her to fraud but she scammed me and married my Canadian-based friend

I used to do fraud. Someone introduced it to my buddy, who then introduced it to me. The game has different stages. We were at the bottom of the game’s ladder, so we didn’t make much money, but the risk involved was excellent. Aside from the danger, you must labour every day in order to earn GHC500 every week.
We slept very little because our clients were all over the world, and because of the time difference, we had to stay awake in order to communicate with them. I had a major hit one day. I received GHC7,000 from a bargain and immediately purchased an iPhone for my girlfriend, Cynthia. She was aware that I was involved in fraud, yet she was uninterested. She became interested in the business when I gave her the iPhone and told her how I obtained it.
So when I had a customer who claimed to be a girl, Cynthia was the one who spoke to them. She was the one who set up the video calls. We were still struggling. We halted operations since the money was not flowing as promised.
Life was difficult for two jobless lovers. I couldn’t help her. I couldn’t help myself, so we relied on the generosity of friends who were succeeding in the game.
Ernest, a buddy of mine from Canada, came over one day, and we were all hanging around. Cynthia later informed me, “Your friend likes me.” He was licking his lips and staring at me in some way. Let’s go get some money from him. Tell him I’m not your girlfriend. Allow him to take me so we may obtain money from him.”
Ernest was formerly a player in the game. He went outdoors after getting money. I warned Cynthia Ernest that she might catch the hint, but she was so enthusiastic about collecting money that we gave it a shot. “Don’t let him sleep with you,” was the lone caution. Never.”
She brought me GHC 500 a week later. “He gave me 1,000 GHC.” “That’s your cut,” she explained.
Ernest was hiding the affair because he was afraid I would be upset if I found out he was seeing my sister. He was even concealing it from the team, but we were aware of what was going on.
He was here for a month, and we earned a lot of money.
He was still sending money after he left. Cynthia gave me my portion. I got a job and advised her not to see Ernest anymore. She didn’t give up. It escalated into a brawl, in which I threatened to let the cat out of the bag. “If you try it, you’ll go to jail,” she said. You know I’m familiar with all of your previous transactions. How much money can you offer me to get me to quit seeing Ernest?”
Cynthia is currently in Canada with Ernest, where they are having the time of their life. I tear up when I see their images. When I see these videos on Instagram, I want to kick them in the video.
Ernest finally understands reality. Cynthia, I believe, informed him in a way that she wouldn’t be held responsible, saying something like, “He gave me to you so we could get money from you, but I fell for you because you’re a good person.” That sort of thing.
I must confess, they had the final laugh. Cynthia informed me the last time I spoke with her, “If you stop being bitter, I will send you something small every month.” You don’t have to hate me since I don’t hate you.”
I bowed my head and kicked the bitterness out of my heart because money is money.
That girl is the only honest scammer there is. She maintained her promise. She occasionally sends me money. She’s gradually rebuilding the bridge between me and my old friend Ernest. She duped me, but I can’t really complain. I still have feelings for her but in a different manner. I adore her as someone who looks after me.
Relationship
I adore my husband, but I also love my boss

My spouse is fantastic. He’s a wonderful father to our children, and I adore him.
Everything went well till I saw my Boss for the first time lately. I had just recently begun working at my new workplace, therefore, I had never met the Boss in person. He was smitten with me from the moment he saw me. He knows I’m married and is fine with it.
He treats me like a lady and pays all of my bills. He pays for stuff I don’t even realise I need. I enjoy spending time with him. He makes me feel incredibly protected, and with him, the world may disappear for all I care.
He is not married and, in his own words, is eager to “be here” for me.
We are yet to have shuperu, but he kissed me last night before we split ways, and I’ve been craving his kiss all day. Not only have I been thinking about his kiss, but also about what it would be like to lay in bed with him and yield to his wishes.
I tell him how much it pains me to do this to my husband, and he says, “Don’t worry. Everything will be well. He can’t be harmed by what he doesn’t know.”
He has a knack of getting under my skin emotionally. Only my husband has been able to reach me in the same manner that my employer has, and it makes me want to keep him—keep him and keep my husband.
My spouse just refers to him as my Boss. If he finds out, he would undoubtedly break down and break up with me, therefore I’ve learnt not to leave any evidence. I’m in a state of confusion right now. Confused because my husband needs to hurt me or treat me horribly in order for me to fall in love with someone else, but in this situation, everything is perfect between us, but I still long for someone new.
I desperately need my job, therefore I don’t want to offend my employer. This is the only job I’ve ever had that pays above and above my expectations. I simply cannot afford to lose it. Aside from that, I want my employer and I need my husband. I wish there was a way for the two to coexist.
The gravity of the situation is that, since meeting my employer, shuperu with my spouse has become a responsibility for me. I make myself available to him, but I don’t feel anything. It’s similar to the fable of the brook and the stone. What effect may the stream have on the stone? Nothing. He’s doing it, and I’m thinking about my employer. I am aware that I require assistance.
Relationship
Woman sues boyfriend for abandoning her after funding his extravagant lifestyle

A heartbroken lady has hauled her lover, Hassan Umar, to a Kano magistrates’ court for having dumped her after spending N900,000 on him.
In court, the woman’s counsel said that the defendant claimed he was in love with his client and that they had agreed to marry.
However, after spending the money on him, Umar abandoned her and stopped seeing her.
The defendant, on the other hand, pled not guilty to the accusations, explaining that it was merely a relationship that did not survive the test of time.
Following the reading of the charges, the Magistrate requested that both sides produce their witnesses for the next postponed session.
Addressing journalists after the court sitting, the woman said:
“I doubt he didn’t charm me. Whatever he asked me I did it instantly. I cooked different types of food for him, including chicken, meat, and even two rams.
“I spent over N900,000 on him. But from there, he started showing me as if he didn’t care. Later he stopped coming to me.”
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