I hope this article finds you in good health, admin. Even deciding where to begin is difficult. I married in 2011, and this is my 11th year of marriage. We’d been married for years and hadn’t had a child. So I started going from one reproductive clinic to the next, and they all stated that there was nothing wrong with me and that I could give birth. I began to try to persuade my husband to accompany me to the doctor merely to check himself. Every time I bring it up, he becomes enraged and throws a tantrum like a child, so I stopped talking about it. But I don’t like how his family has been treating me as if I am the one who is supposed to shape a baby and implant it in my belly. It became too much for me, and I couldn’t take it anymore. I wanted to quit the marriage, but my parents said it was for better for worse.
His family’s pressure eventually got to him, and his father selected a young lady for him to marry as a second wife. He was whining, telling me how much he despised the idea. He wasn’t even delighted when his family went to do the knocking. My husband was incapable of confronting his own father. Because I was the bride, they merely had a regular ceremony, and the girl came to live with us as a second wife. They wedded three years ago and have yet to appear. I once asked my spouse if the problem was his fault and he didn’t want anyone to know. He sometimes acts as if he is aware of a problem. He didn’t anticipate any of his spouses to become pregnant, and he switches who he sleeps with. I was furious at first because my spouse had brought home another woman. But it lightened my load, and the girl is now my friend.
My husband remained silent when I spoke to him. He was extremely silent. I could feel there was something he couldn’t tell me. The family has been deafeningly quiet, and I’m wondering if they’ll marry another woman for him to see if he can impregnate her. Perhaps the third time will prove that he is the problem. Now for my confession. I am a 41-year-old female. I am approaching menopause and want to have a child. My mother experienced menopause at the age of 45. My husband was not willing to go to the clinic the way things were going. If it had been the other way around, he would have forced me to leave, and they would have told me that I am the woman, and I should respect my husband. However, some males can be quite tough to live with. My hubby does not respect me at all. We were arguing about childbirth one day, and I told him angrily that his refusal to go to the hospital to check himself was forcing me into another man’s arms. He stated he didn’t care what I did, but he was angry.
I’ve attended numerous prayer gatherings and miracle services with no results. I caved into this man who had been after me for years earlier this year. He is aware that I am married, but he is unconcerned. He is also a husband. I didn’t have s*x with him out of love; I wanted a child. This man has accomplished what my spouse has been unable to do for the past 11 years. I am pregnant after only three attempts. It almost feels like a dream. I had no intention of things turning out this way. I haven’t informed my biological father or my husband. Knowing my husband, he is quite proud, and he will even ask me to abort the baby because it is not his. Meanwhile, you are likewise unable to provide me with a kid.
The man is married with children, but he is incredibly wealthy, and I’m confident he will let me retain the child. I’m not sure how his wife will respond. I also want to divorce and raise my child on my own. I’ll be happier that way since I’m not happy in this marriage with two women and no children, where your husband’s relatives spread rumours about you as if it’s your fault. I don’t even want people to assume it’s my husband’s baby, given how humiliated I’ve been as a result of his condition and how proud he is. He can’t even talk to or share his difficulties with his wife as a spouse. What would you do if you were in my situation? I haven’t told anyone about my pregnancy. Nobody, not even my family. I’m still seeing the man who impregnated me, though he’s leaving soon, so we’re communicating more online.
