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I Lost The Man Who Wanted To Marry Me While Waiting For The One I Truly Loved

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n 2016 I met Solo at my workplace. He got my attention with the way he dressed. The way he spoke was a reflection of his gentle sou

In 2016 I met Solo at my workplace. He got my attention with the way he dressed. The way he spoke was a reflection of his gentle soul. I liked him from that very moment. We talked from time to time but we were not people you may call friends. It was when I started studying a degree course that he became a very good friend. He was an SHS teacher and a part-time lecturer in one of the universities around. The course he was lecturing was the course I was also studying in school so that brought a special bond between us.

He offered me his time. He told me, “When you need help with any of the subjects, don’t hesitate to let me know. I will help you get through with it.” I hadn’t been in school since I got my diploma six years ago. I was dusty. I needed all the help I could get so his offer caught my heart right from the moment he said it.

Every day after class I would text him what I learned and he would call me and discuss the topic with me. Sometimes I felt lazy to text him but he would call me regardless. He didn’t let me slack. We had our lessons in classrooms, in his car, in my workplace, or in any place that was convenient to us. During exams week, he went to the extent of forfeiting his lectures just so he could prepare me for my exams. I never took his efforts for granted. I did my best to prove that I was worthy of all the investment he was making in me.

I was single but I wasn’t sure if he was. Our relationship was only the tutoring kind. We barely discussed our personal lives. But when I found myself falling in love with him, I started sharing my personal life with him. I let him know that I was single. I also started telling him about guys who were proposing to me. I wanted to see if he would do anything to show that he was interested in me. I didn’t get what I was looking for but I got something more. He started opening up to me about his own life. From there, the texture of the relationship changed. We got closer and closer by the day than we used to be. He sought my opinion when he moved into a bungalow and wanted to decorate the place. I went with him to town to buy furniture, curtains, electronics, and other home appliances. This made me feel like I was part of his plans and that my feelings for him were something he also felt. Why else would he let me decorate his house?

Every weekend when I cooked, I packaged some and sent it to him. I was hopeful that soon enough he would ask me to be his girlfriend. He spent a lot of time with me and I enjoyed the attention he gave me. What became a problem was when people started spreading rumours that we were dating. Some of my male friends started withdrawing from me because of his constant presence in my life. My colleagues at work started talking. It didn’t take long for my pastor to hear about it. A friend had gotten married when my pastor asked me, “Do you know the person who got married wanted to marry you? Why did him marry someone else?” I was surprised. I said, “I you let didn’t know he was interested in me.” My pastor said, “He believes that you are engaged to that gentleman who seems to follow you everywhere you go.” I told my pastor we were just friends. He said, “Then be careful because no one will approach you if he is always around you.”

I didn’t tell him how I felt about him and he didn’t all say anything. I made up my mind that I would cut him off as soon as my course was over. In my final year, he helped me with my project work. When everything was done, I dedicated the work to him. I graduated in 2019 and Solo was at my graduation. I told him that day, “I wouldn’t be here if it weren’t for your sacrifice and commitment to see me succeed. I want you to know that I owe you big time. If you ever need anything, let me know. If it’s in my power I’ll do it for you.”

He smiled and said, “I am proud of you. Thank you for letting me be a part of this journey.” It was an emotional moment, filled with hugs and thanks and gratitude.

He smiled and said, “I am proud of you. Thank you for letting me be a part of this journey.” It was an emotional moment, filled with hugs and thanks and gratitude.

After the graduation ceremony, I cut him off. I didn’t call and didn’t text him. He also never reached out to me. When I heard of him, I heard it through other people. They would tell me, “Solo asked of you the other day.” “Solo has been asking of you from me. Doesn’t he have your number anymore?” I listened to all this but I never called him.

Sometimes I get mad at him. If he is asking people about me then it means he cares about me. So why won’t he call me? Why didn’t he propose to me? And sometimes my anger is because of what my pastor said. How his closeness to me gave the wrong impression and discouraged other men from expressing interest in me. Sometimes too I convinced myself that he didn’t like me romantically. He just wanted to help me study and it was my fault for wanting more from him.

A year after my graduation I got close to one of his friends. The guy asked, “What happened between you and Solo? I know he liked you so how come you didn’t date him?” I replied, “I didn’t know that he liked me. He never told me how he felt.” His friend asked again, “Did you tell him anything about your past relationship?” “Yes, I did,” I answered. “I told him I had been in one relationship. We broke up because the guy tried to force himself on me but I fought him off.” He said, “Oh, that’s why he didn’t propose.”

I was confused. Solo’s friend went on, “You see, Solo is a virgin so he wants to marry a virgin. He probably thinks you slept with your ex. Did you?” It sounded really silly, “No I’m still a virgin.” His friend believes Solo would have proposed if he knew that information. That was my opportunity to contact him and ask if what his friend said was true but I didn’t.

I have convinced myself that maybe we were not meant to be. I’m currently in my mid-thirties and I still haven’t done it. I want to abstain until marriage but it’s difficult. No man wants a relationship with me after I tell them I’m a thirty-something-year-old virgin. It’s either they think I’m lying or they think that would make me difficult to be with. Right now I don’t know if I should just give in to the next man who comes along or if I should continue this path of abstinence. I feel like I might end up single forever.

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Things to think about before breaking a Guinness World Record

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Breaking a Guinness World Record is a difficult but rewarding endeavour that demands thorough organisation and execution. Aspiring record-breakers may improve their chances of success and create a memorable experience for themselves and others who witness their amazing exploits by taking into account the criteria described above. Remember that breaking a record is about motivating others to push their boundaries and strive for greatness as well as attaining a personal milestone.

The desire to pursue or break records captivated many people in 2023, with some reaching viral fame while others went disregarded.

However, attempting such exploits needs considerable preparation outside of the spotlight.

Before going on a record-breaking adventure, consider the following factors:

Think About Your Health

The pursuit of a record sometimes necessitates considerable physical and mental effort. Before embarking on such endeavours, it is critical to analyse your existing health situation. Consider the toll it may have on your body, since inconsistent sleep patterns and hard exercise regimens may hurt your health.

Take into account the available resources

Record-breaking attempts have financial ramifications. Determine if you have the means or funding to support your endeavour. Consider the price of a decent automobile, gasoline, maintenance, and other necessary expenses for certain records, such as a drive-a-thon.

Think about what you’ll get out of it

Recognise the motivation behind your ambition to set or break a record. Common motives include recognition, personal fulfilment, and promotional chances for your company. If the prospective rewards coincide with your objectives, it may be a worthwhile endeavour. However, if the endeavour does not provide real rewards, you should reassess your commitment.

Take a look at the rules and regulations

Each record category frequently comes with a set of regulations and guidelines established by organisations such as Guinness World Records. Learn about these rules and restrictions. Check that you can follow the regulations, as failing to do so may result in disqualification. Wasting time and effort on a project that does not fit the requirements yields an unsatisfactory result.

Prepare for a Positive or Negative Outcome

Understand that not every attempt to break a record will result in immediate success or fame. Prepare for the consequences, whether success, failure, or a lack of attention. Consider how the experience, whether you win or lose, may help you with personal development, skill development, or other elements of your life.

Setting off on a voyage to establish or break a record is admirable, but it takes careful planning and deliberation.

You may make an informed selection and boost your chances of a successful and enjoyable record-breaking event by carefully assessing these elements.

Conclusion

Breaking a Guinness World Record is a difficult but rewarding endeavour that demands thorough organisation and execution. Aspiring record-breakers may improve their chances of success and create a memorable experience for themselves and others who witness their amazing exploits by taking into account the criteria described above. Remember that breaking a record is about motivating others to push their boundaries and strive for greatness as well as attaining a personal milestone.

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Consumers of pepper soup enjoy longer lives

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Food containing 3% chilli powder, on the other hand, reduced the longevity of male cohorts by 9%. According to a study of diet and mortality data from four big, multinational studies, ingestion of chilli peppers may lower the relative risk of cardiovascular disease mortality by 26%, according to a previous research by the American Heart Association (2020). Chilli pepper usage was related with a 25% reduction in all-cause mortality and a 23% reduction in cancer mortality when compared to persons who never or only seldom ingested chilli pepper.

Consumers of pepper soup should rejoice. A recent study by Semaniuk et al.(2022) found that eating chilli peppers regularly, whether in soup or other forms, increases life span.

Chilli pepper fruits do contain phenolic compounds that are structurally similar to those that have anti-ageing activities.

Chilli powder given to diet at doses of 0.04%-0.12% significantly increased the median longevity of fruit fly cohorts of both genders by 9% to 13%.

Food containing 3% chilli powder, on the other hand, reduced the longevity of male cohorts by 9%.

According to a study of diet and mortality data from four big, multinational studies, ingestion of chilli peppers may lower the relative risk of cardiovascular disease mortality by 26%, according to previous research by the American Heart Association (2020).

Chilli pepper usage was related to a 25% reduction in all-cause mortality and a 23% reduction in cancer mortality when compared to persons who never or only seldom ingested chilli pepper.

This research piqued my interest in Nigerian pepper soup and Ghanaian light soups with spicy spices. For example, Jiang TA(2019) discovered that frequent consumption of spicy meals was also associated with a decreased risk of mortality from cancer, ischemic heart disease, and respiratory system disorders.

However, the real effect of spices and herbs in health maintenance, especially in preventing the development of chronic, noncommunicable illnesses, is still unknown.

Nigerian pepper soup has a rush of natural flavours and spices that excite your culinary senses and put your hunger right. It is quite adaptable since it can be created using a variety of meaty meats such as turkey, chicken, fish, and even our nutrient-dense offals.

Adegoke et al. (2015) conducted a study to assess customer perceptions of the gastronomic, social, and health characteristics of pepper soup. A systematic questionnaire was utilised to determine the reasons for eating pepper soup, the chosen type of pepper soup, the social setting for pepper soup consumption, beverage accompaniment preferred with pepper soup, and food categories preferred as accompaniment with pepper soup.

It also assessed people’s perceptions of the stated health advantages of pepper soup’s ingredients. According to the poll, respondents ate pepper soup on a weekly and occasional basis for enjoyment (68.3%) and relaxation (55.8%).

90.2, 85.9, 90.2, and 92% of respondents liked catfish, goat meat, chicken, and cow tail as the meaty components in their pepper soup, respectively.

Colour, texture, and flavour preferences were light or dark brown, thick or light, and peppery and spicy. 97% of respondents chose hot pepper soup, while 65.8% preferred warm pepper soup.

Respondents (66.3 and 79%) chose beer and wine with their pepper soup, whereas 75.9 and 90.7% selected non-alcoholic beverages as accompaniments, respectively, carbonated beverages and juices or mineral water.

The majority of respondents (60.5 8.52%) strongly disagreed that pepper soup held the majority of the health advantages associated with herbs, spices, and other pepper soup elements, showing that pepper soup may not be taken for its claimed therapeutic value.

The nutritional value of pepper soup is usually dependent on the components used in its preparation. The spices and condiments utilised have shown to be useful in medicinal treatments.

Pepper soup is a nutrient-dense, nutritious food. The soup is low in calories and fat, and it’s high in protein.

Pepper soup has a lot of vitamins and minerals, including vitamin C, iron, and potassium. Pepper soup is not only nutritious, but it is also tasty and simple to prepare. You may make the soup using chicken, goat meat, or yams. Spice the pepper soup to taste.

An article in the Tribune by Eunice Olaleye(2022) stated that a scientific evaluation by Dr Heben’s team on DrHealthBenefits.com concluded that the soup does assist in managing heart rate.

It also aids in blood pressure regulation, preventing it from becoming dangerously high or low. In other terms, it aids in blood pressure stabilisation.

Because pepper soup is an antioxidant, it also drives away free radicals that might cause cancer (Nwose EU, 2009; Agbor et al., 2019).

Pepper soup might help you recover from a cold or cough. There are various therapeutic benefits that you should be aware of.

The soup is also beneficial in chilly weather, according to the author. Hot and spicy pepper soup is crucial for keeping your body warm. It’s a win-win situation. You enjoy your pepper soup while also warming up your body.

According to youmustgethealthy.com, the elements in pepper soup are what make it healthy. Pepper soup contains unripe plantain, fresh catfish, cow skin, beef, or goat meat, which not only tastes good but also contains anti-oxidants.

Consuming pepper soup is one strategy to maintain proper vitamin intake while being hydrated. Because of the spicy nature, one tends to drink a lot of water.

Key Takeaways

According to the literature, pepper soup with local spices has several health advantages. According to a review of diet and mortality data from four major, multinational studies, intake of peppers or spicy spices may lower the relative risk of cardiovascular disease death by 26%, according to the American Heart Association(2020). Chilli pepper usage was related to a 25% reduction in all-cause mortality and a 23% reduction in cancer mortality when compared to persons who never or only seldom ingested chilli pepper.

With this knowledge, fans of spicy spices may include them in their diets in any way to improve their health.

NB: Prof. Nyarkotey follows stringent source requirements and bases his articles on peer-reviewed studies, academic research institutes, and medical societies. My posts are for educational purposes only and do not constitute medical advice for treatment. My goal is to educate the public about scientific evidence-based Naturopathic Therapies.

The author is a Naturopathic Healthcare Professor, a Medical Journalist, and a scientific writer. Professor40naturopathy@gmail.com is the email address.

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Accra College of Education: History, Programs and Location

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Accra College of Education is a leader in teacher education, educating the next generation of educators who will play a critical role in shaping the minds of Ghana's children. With a commitment to quality, a long history, and a devotion to comprehensive education, the institution continues to have a significant effect on the Accra and beyond education sectors.

Accra College of Education is a notable teacher education college in Ghana, located in the Eastern or Greater Accra zone. Following the Colleges of Education Act of 2012 (Act 847), the college was upgraded to tertiary status, allowing it to issue degrees in Basic Education. The university recently welcomed 321 new students into its academic community, demonstrating the institution’s ongoing involvement in creating the next generation of educators.

The college’s dedication to practical, scientific-based education is seen in projects such as “Experiment Share,” which attempts to improve science instruction through engaging and exciting live experiments.

History and Background

Accra College of Education’s long history and commitment to educational quality have positioned it as a significant role in Ghana’s teacher training and growth. The institution’s programmes and activities, as well as its cutting-edge Teaching and Learning Resource Centre, highlight its continual efforts to improve teacher education quality and foster creative, practice-based learning.

The college’s willingness to adapt to the changing demands of the education sector, emphasis on practical teaching techniques, and excellent leadership under Dr. Samuel Awinkene Atintono, Principal, highlight its importance in the field of teacher education in Ghana.

Accra College of Education continues to play an important role in defining the country’s educational future by providing prospective teachers with the information, skills, and practical experience required to flourish in their careers.

Academic Programs

Accra College of Education is well-known for its wide range of academic programmes for prospective educators. The institution provides a Bachelor of Education (B.Ed.) programme that is aimed to provide students with the information, skills, and pedagogical strategies necessary for effective teaching. The programme frequently includes specialisations in many fields, allowing students to focus on their individual areas of interest.

Furthermore, the institution may offer diploma programmes in education, which would provide an alternate avenue for students seeking a more condensed teacher training programme.

Faculty and Staff

The quality of any educational institution’s faculty and staff is directly related to its success. Accra College of Education is proud of its staff of passionate educators and professionals who are not only specialists in their disciplines but also dedicated to building a supportive learning environment. The faculty frequently engages in research and intellectual endeavours that help to develop education in Ghana.

Campus Facilities

Accra College of Education provides a welcoming learning environment with cutting-edge technology to improve the entire student experience. These may include well-equipped classrooms, scientific and computer laboratories, a library with pertinent materials, and recreational areas where students may relax.

Campus Life

The institution emphasises a comprehensive approach to education, recognising that the college experience goes beyond the classroom. Accra College of Education has a bustling campus life that includes a variety of extracurricular activities, organisations, and events. These programmes allow kids to gain leadership skills, create long-lasting friendships, and participate in community service.

Partnerships and Collaborations

Accra College of Education frequently forms alliances and collaborations with other educational institutions, both nationally and worldwide, in order to keep informed of educational breakthroughs and global best practices. These collaborations may enable student exchange programmes, collaborative research projects, and faculty development opportunities.

Contributions to Education

Accra College of Education has made important contributions to Ghana’s education landscape by generating a cadre of trained and competent teachers who go on to serve in a variety of positions within the education sector. The college’s effect extends beyond its campus, impacting the quality of education in schools and communities across the country.

Conclusion

Accra College of Education is a leader in teacher education, educating the next generation of educators who will play a critical role in shaping the minds of Ghana’s children. With a commitment to quality, a long history, and a devotion to comprehensive education, the institution continues to have a significant effect on Accra and beyond education sectors.

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