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I love her so much but she can’t stop stealing
I adore my girlfriend and don’t want to lose her, so I’ve brought the situation here to see if I can solve her problem. She has a terrible thieving problem, and it’s so bad that I sometimes have to check on her personally lest she embarrasses herself. When we first started dating, she would pay me a visit and I would realize that money had vanished from my wallet. I didn’t want to betray her. I couldn’t believe that a sweet girl like her would take money every time she came to see me, so I created a trap for her. I placed some money on my table, and lo and behold, it vanished as soon as she arrived and went. The funny thing is that I never leave the room, yet she is so quick that she may steal from you while your focus is elsewhere. I told her I set a trap for her, and that’s when she burst into tears.
My fiancée had a habit of stealing from her parents and siblings. She claims her mother has hit her several times over it, but nothing has changed. She has been humiliated in school, yet the problem persists. Her elderly sister had given birth, and she was on her way to assist her. Do you think my girlfriend took her sister’s husband’s phone? She had a bad day that day. The man began to whine about not being able to find his phone. My girlfriend had also not left the house, and her sister was aware that she was a thief. They examined her purse and found the phone, and they cautioned her not to come back. I haven’t told anyone about her condition. To be honest, I’ve thought of leaving her several times. But I can tell that she has a serious problem, and I want to assist her.
We’ve been dating for three years, and I can sense when she’s lying to me. She just purchased me some lovely boxer shorts for my birthday. There are six of them. I’m not sure why, but I have a feeling she took the boxers. Here’s the deal. I essentially look after her. She is not working or doing anything to earn money, and the boxers she purchased were those international pricey briefs. I sat down with her and asked her to tell me the truth. She initially became defensive, claiming that I no longer trusted her. But I calmly assured her that if she told me the truth, I wouldn’t be furious and that I understood that she wanted to purchase something for me just once to make me happy. That’s when she said she had stolen the boxers from a local shop. She wasn’t required to. I had intended for us to go out to celebrate my birthday. Despite what I told her, she did it.
She’s done a number of similar things, and I’m beginning to lose patience with her. On the one hand, I adore her. I’ve got plans for her. I’m saving up to rent a shop for her to help her get started. But with this dilemma, I’m confident she’ll steal her own money as well as the items in the shop, and the business will fail. Her family is adamantly opposed to her involvement. She has brought them shame. Everyone in her neighbourhood knows she’s a thief, so she left and now lives with me. If she hasn’t changed after three years of dating her and attempting to change her, I’m at a loss for what to do next. When I tell her about the situation these days, she bursts into tears, and I have to stop her because I don’t enjoy seeing her weep.
I’m not sure if this is a spiritual issue. I’m worried about her. What if she goes out one day and steals and gets caught? She may be assaulted, burned, or perhaps imprisoned. I’ve warned her multiple times that if the cops find her, her relatives would not rush to her aid. She has nothing except me, yet she would not listen. I didn’t like it when she took my boxers, so I haven’t worn them since. I can’t return them since it would appear suspicious. I’d want to see a definitive resolution to this. If she doesn’t make any attempt to change by the end of the year, I’ll have to let her leave. I don’t want to start the New Year with her problems. I’m not even paying attention to my life or the ambitions I have for myself because of her. It’s always her fault. Please find a long-term solution to her thieving problem. If not, even though I love her, I’ll have to split up with her.
Source: Anonymous Confessions
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I slept with 300 people in a year – detractors call me ‘disgusting,’ but I feel powerful
An Australian lady who claims to have had sex with over 300 individuals in one year described the experience as “empowering.”
Annie Knight, 26, said on “The Kyle and Jackie O Show” that she even slept with five individuals in a single day during the wild, fun-filled year.
“I felt empowered afterwards,” the adoring Australian said. “Sex makes me happy. Its purpose is to make you feel wonderful.”
Knight had sex with both men and women, and she told the radio show that she met many of her sex partners using dating apps. She does, however, have a list of “regulars” on the fast dial for when she feels like getting down and dirty.
“The messier the sex, the better,” she said.
Knight, called “Australia’s most sexually active woman,” went on to state that nothing is off limits when it comes to experimenting in the bedroom, stating, “I’m down to try anything.”
However, not everyone is thrilled by Knight’s open love of sex, with one detractor calling her “disgusting.”
Knight, who maintains an OnlyFans account, was also sacked from her marketing position when her superiors discovered her lewd online behaviour.
The sex fanatic told “The Kyle and Jackie O Show” that her website has plenty of kinky stuff since she performs “pretty much everything” on video.
Knight recently made news after speaking out about being fired from a separate site.
“The last thing I wanted to do was to get fired if someone found my OnlyFans,” she said on “SBS Insight” a few weeks ago.
“There was a list of three reasons why I was fired basically,” Knight explained, adding that she was “very upset and very angry” at her employer’s decision to fire her.
“They said I falsely advised that I had a side business, didn’t ask for permission from the company to run the side business and that I had online pornographic images of myself and crude language that was against company rules,” she went on to say.
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Some unusual qualities men want in a woman
When it comes to women, what does a man want? To a significant extent, the solution is and will continue to be a mystery.
But it hasn’t prevented scientists from trying to solve the mystery of human attraction.
On the one hand, each man has his own tastes. Qualities and features that are desirable to one guy may not be appealing to another.
However, research has discovered that many men have one trait: they prefer to believe their initial impressions. And those early moments have a significant influence on their level of attraction to certain women.
Of course, some women are born with the ability to make a terrific first impression with little to no effort, while others must work a little more.
Here are five characteristics that men find particularly appealing in women, according to a study.
Natural-looking makeup, including eye makeup and lipstick
Some males remark that they prefer women who do not wear makeup because they appear more natural. However, according to a Zoosk poll, 139 of 1,200 women who applied eye makeup in their profile photo were more likely to receive responses from males. Men were also more likely to desire to meet a lady if her profile photo included lipstick.
Women who wear “darker” cosmetics, on the other hand, were less likely to be asked out. Even if men claim they prefer women who appear “natural,” this implies you may wear “natural” cosmetics and still attract guys.
Also, fellas, it’s quite OK to remark that your girl looks great with winged eyeliner and red lipstick.
The ideal waist-to-hip ratio
This choice is based on health and fertility rather than appearance.
“Evidence also shows that waist-to-hip ratio is a strong indicator of a woman’s oestrogen levels, risk of obesity, and susceptibility to major diseases such as diabetes, ovarian cancer, and heart disease,” according to the study.
Dressing in red clothes
The colour red represents passion. It’s no surprise that males find it appealing. In a research conducted by psychologists at the University of Rochester, men were given images of various women with framed borders of either red or white and were asked how attractive they thought the ladies were.
They were then given an identical photo with the ladies dressed in either red or blue and asked how much they would spend on a date with that woman. Women who were framed in red or wore red were more likely to be considered seductive and beautiful, and males were more likely to want to spend money on a date.
A kind attitude
A pleasant demeanour always goes a long way. Researchers from the Society for Personality and Social Psychology discovered that a woman’s responsiveness to men’s needs and desires boosted her attraction to males.
A higher-pitched voice
According to studies, women prefer males with deeper voices. For males, the reverse is usually true, since some feel “[higher] voices signal reproductive fitness, femininity, and smaller body size.”
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I introduced her to fraud but she scammed me and married my Canadian-based friend
I used to do fraud. Someone introduced it to my buddy, who then introduced it to me. The game has different stages. We were at the bottom of the game’s ladder, so we didn’t make much money, but the risk involved was excellent. Aside from the danger, you must labour every day in order to earn GHC500 every week.
We slept very little because our clients were all over the world, and because of the time difference, we had to stay awake in order to communicate with them. I had a major hit one day. I received GHC7,000 from a bargain and immediately purchased an iPhone for my girlfriend, Cynthia. She was aware that I was involved in fraud, yet she was uninterested. She became interested in the business when I gave her the iPhone and told her how I obtained it.
So when I had a customer who claimed to be a girl, Cynthia was the one who spoke to them. She was the one who set up the video calls. We were still struggling. We halted operations since the money was not flowing as promised.
Life was difficult for two jobless lovers. I couldn’t help her. I couldn’t help myself, so we relied on the generosity of friends who were succeeding in the game.
Ernest, a buddy of mine from Canada, came over one day, and we were all hanging around. Cynthia later informed me, “Your friend likes me.” He was licking his lips and staring at me in some way. Let’s go get some money from him. Tell him I’m not your girlfriend. Allow him to take me so we may obtain money from him.”
Ernest was formerly a player in the game. He went outdoors after getting money. I warned Cynthia Ernest that she might catch the hint, but she was so enthusiastic about collecting money that we gave it a shot. “Don’t let him sleep with you,” was the lone caution. Never.”
She brought me GHC 500 a week later. “He gave me 1,000 GHC.” “That’s your cut,” she explained.
Ernest was hiding the affair because he was afraid I would be upset if I found out he was seeing my sister. He was even concealing it from the team, but we were aware of what was going on.
He was here for a month, and we earned a lot of money.
He was still sending money after he left. Cynthia gave me my portion. I got a job and advised her not to see Ernest anymore. She didn’t give up. It escalated into a brawl, in which I threatened to let the cat out of the bag. “If you try it, you’ll go to jail,” she said. You know I’m familiar with all of your previous transactions. How much money can you offer me to get me to quit seeing Ernest?”
Cynthia is currently in Canada with Ernest, where they are having the time of their life. I tear up when I see their images. When I see these videos on Instagram, I want to kick them in the video.
Ernest finally understands reality. Cynthia, I believe, informed him in a way that she wouldn’t be held responsible, saying something like, “He gave me to you so we could get money from you, but I fell for you because you’re a good person.” That sort of thing.
I must confess, they had the final laugh. Cynthia informed me the last time I spoke with her, “If you stop being bitter, I will send you something small every month.” You don’t have to hate me since I don’t hate you.”
I bowed my head and kicked the bitterness out of my heart because money is money.
That girl is the only honest scammer there is. She maintained her promise. She occasionally sends me money. She’s gradually rebuilding the bridge between me and my old friend Ernest. She duped me, but I can’t really complain. I still have feelings for her but in a different manner. I adore her as someone who looks after me.