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I now want to be her father after denying the pregnancy

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I need guidance on how to proceed. I had a girl when I was 17 and never accepted responsibility. My family was also unhelpful. My mother was entirely behind me, and when I informed her the girl was lying, she didn’t question me more. I recall the two families being friends before the incident, but we stopped talking to each other after that. Despite the fact that we were all living our lives, I was keeping an eye on the girl, and I used to see my daughter in the vicinity, but I was too proud to come and ask for forgiveness so that I could care for my daughter. My mom avoided me as well. They eventually departed the region, and I hadn’t seen them in years, but thank goodness for social media. I came upon my baby mama’s Facebook profile and looked through her images till I spotted my kid. I had even seen her graduation photos.

Her name was tagged, so I proceeded to look at her photos, and there were several entries with her mother. She was often talking about her mother and how she had done well and endured a lot for her. I was devastated and wrote her a note. She didn’t respond, and I’m sure she didn’t notice. Because we weren’t friends, the message didn’t get to her inbox. I added her as a friend. I’ve never talked to her before. I’m unsure what her mother told her about her father, and I’m unsure if she knew who I was. I began conversing with her after she accepted the friend request. She was kind and asked me why I was conversing with her. I didn’t offer her a satisfactory response. Then she revealed that I am her biological father. She was aware. I gave her my phone number and we began conversing on the phone. Despite the fact that I was 25 years late, I wanted to be a part of her life and be her father again. She has not been rude to me, but she has also not allowed me to grow close to her.

Her mother is married to another guy and has children with him. Apart from her, I am not married and have no children. My kid thinks her stepfather is her father rather than me. The worst part is that she is getting married, and her stepfather will lead her down the aisle. I committed a mistake as a youngster that I now regret, and I’ve informed her about it multiple times. We got together to speak. I’ve also met their mother. They both stated that they had forgiven me and moved on, but they are not allowing me to get to know them well. Particularly my daughter. Even for her wedding, she gave me a standard invitation, so I’ll be there as a guest. I realize I made a mistake, but I was young and ignorant at the time. How can I acquire my daughter’s confidence? My prospective son-in-law has yet to be presented to me. My daughter is writing her stepfather’s name, indicating that he is completely assuming the role of her father. I told her I’d like her to write mine, but she said it wasn’t necessary because she used to write her mother’s maiden name until her mother married her stepfather and she had to change her name to her stepfather’s, so she doesn’t want to change her surname again and she was fine writing her stepfather’s name. She had used the same name throughout her education and did not want to go through the procedure of changing her name again.

She also stated that because she is getting married, her name would change again, eliminating the need for me to add my surname. I have nothing against the stepfather, but he is not my daughter’s actual father, and he also has children with my baby’s mom, so he should at least give me a shot with my daughter. My friends say I’ve been boring, and another man has taken over the fatherly position from me, and I simply chuckle about it as if it’s nothing, but it actually bothers me. What can I do to become closer to my daughter? I know I never contributed to her development, but it’s not too late for me to be a part of her life. I’m sorry I turned her down. Please don’t make the same mistake I did as a parent who abandoned his child. My daughter isn’t even aware of everything I’m trying to get closer to her. I’m at a loss for what to do.

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I introduced her to fraud but she scammed me and married my Canadian-based friend

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I introduced her to fraud but she scammed me and married my Canadian-based friend

I used to do fraud. Someone introduced it to my buddy, who then introduced it to me. The game has different stages. We were at the bottom of the game’s ladder, so we didn’t make much money, but the risk involved was excellent. Aside from the danger, you must labour every day in order to earn GHC500 every week.

We slept very little because our clients were all over the world, and because of the time difference, we had to stay awake in order to communicate with them. I had a major hit one day. I received GHC7,000 from a bargain and immediately purchased an iPhone for my girlfriend, Cynthia. She was aware that I was involved in fraud, yet she was uninterested. She became interested in the business when I gave her the iPhone and told her how I obtained it.

So when I had a customer who claimed to be a girl, Cynthia was the one who spoke to them. She was the one who set up the video calls. We were still struggling. We halted operations since the money was not flowing as promised.

Life was difficult for two jobless lovers. I couldn’t help her. I couldn’t help myself, so we relied on the generosity of friends who were succeeding in the game.

Ernest, a buddy of mine from Canada, came over one day, and we were all hanging around. Cynthia later informed me, “Your friend likes me.” He was licking his lips and staring at me in some way. Let’s go get some money from him. Tell him I’m not your girlfriend. Allow him to take me so we may obtain money from him.”

Ernest was formerly a player in the game. He went outdoors after getting money. I warned Cynthia Ernest that she might catch the hint, but she was so enthusiastic about collecting money that we gave it a shot. “Don’t let him sleep with you,” was the lone caution. Never.”

She brought me GHC 500 a week later. “He gave me 1,000 GHC.” “That’s your cut,” she explained.

Ernest was hiding the affair because he was afraid I would be upset if I found out he was seeing my sister. He was even concealing it from the team, but we were aware of what was going on.

He was here for a month, and we earned a lot of money.

He was still sending money after he left. Cynthia gave me my portion. I got a job and advised her not to see Ernest anymore. She didn’t give up. It escalated into a brawl, in which I threatened to let the cat out of the bag. “If you try it, you’ll go to jail,” she said. You know I’m familiar with all of your previous transactions. How much money can you offer me to get me to quit seeing Ernest?”

Cynthia is currently in Canada with Ernest, where they are having the time of their life. I tear up when I see their images. When I see these videos on Instagram, I want to kick them in the video.

Ernest finally understands reality. Cynthia, I believe, informed him in a way that she wouldn’t be held responsible, saying something like, “He gave me to you so we could get money from you, but I fell for you because you’re a good person.” That sort of thing.

I must confess, they had the final laugh. Cynthia informed me the last time I spoke with her, “If you stop being bitter, I will send you something small every month.” You don’t have to hate me since I don’t hate you.”

I bowed my head and kicked the bitterness out of my heart because money is money.

That girl is the only honest scammer there is. She maintained her promise. She occasionally sends me money. She’s gradually rebuilding the bridge between me and my old friend Ernest. She duped me, but I can’t really complain. I still have feelings for her but in a different manner. I adore her as someone who looks after me.

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I adore my husband, but I also love my boss

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I adore my husband, but I also love my boss

My spouse is fantastic. He’s a wonderful father to our children, and I adore him.

Everything went well till I saw my Boss for the first time lately. I had just recently begun working at my new workplace, therefore, I had never met the Boss in person. He was smitten with me from the moment he saw me. He knows I’m married and is fine with it.

He treats me like a lady and pays all of my bills. He pays for stuff I don’t even realise I need. I enjoy spending time with him. He makes me feel incredibly protected, and with him, the world may disappear for all I care.

He is not married and, in his own words, is eager to “be here” for me.

We are yet to have shuperu, but he kissed me last night before we split ways, and I’ve been craving his kiss all day. Not only have I been thinking about his kiss, but also about what it would be like to lay in bed with him and yield to his wishes.

I tell him how much it pains me to do this to my husband, and he says, “Don’t worry. Everything will be well. He can’t be harmed by what he doesn’t know.”

He has a knack of getting under my skin emotionally. Only my husband has been able to reach me in the same manner that my employer has, and it makes me want to keep him—keep him and keep my husband.

My spouse just refers to him as my Boss. If he finds out, he would undoubtedly break down and break up with me, therefore I’ve learnt not to leave any evidence. I’m in a state of confusion right now. Confused because my husband needs to hurt me or treat me horribly in order for me to fall in love with someone else, but in this situation, everything is perfect between us, but I still long for someone new.

I desperately need my job, therefore I don’t want to offend my employer. This is the only job I’ve ever had that pays above and above my expectations. I simply cannot afford to lose it. Aside from that, I want my employer and I need my husband. I wish there was a way for the two to coexist.

The gravity of the situation is that, since meeting my employer, shuperu with my spouse has become a responsibility for me. I make myself available to him, but I don’t feel anything. It’s similar to the fable of the brook and the stone. What effect may the stream have on the stone? Nothing. He’s doing it, and I’m thinking about my employer. I am aware that I require assistance.

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Woman sues boyfriend for abandoning her after funding his extravagant lifestyle

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Woman sues boyfriend for abandoning her after funding his extravagant lifestyle

A heartbroken lady has hauled her lover, Hassan Umar, to a Kano magistrates’ court for having dumped her after spending N900,000 on him.

In court, the woman’s counsel said that the defendant claimed he was in love with his client and that they had agreed to marry.

However, after spending the money on him, Umar abandoned her and stopped seeing her.

The defendant, on the other hand, pled not guilty to the accusations, explaining that it was merely a relationship that did not survive the test of time.

Following the reading of the charges, the Magistrate requested that both sides produce their witnesses for the next postponed session.

Addressing journalists after the court sitting, the woman said:

“I doubt he didn’t charm me. Whatever he asked me I did it instantly. I cooked different types of food for him, including chicken, meat, and even two rams.

“I spent over N900,000 on him. But from there, he started showing me as if he didn’t care. Later he stopped coming to me.”

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