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I tested my girlfriend and she fell for it

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My girlfriend is a fine girl. When I step out with her, I feel very insecure about the number of guys I catch staring at her. I’m a guy and I know how we look at fine girls. I know she is faithful to me but my paddies kept asking me if I’m sure she’s not seeing another guy because it’s not as if I am very rich or anything like that. She doesn’t really bill me like that because she herself she comes from a comfortable home and her dad takes care of her. She’s not dbee, but she is better than me when it comes to money.

This gf of mine is always on her phone so I can’t help but be jealous. I’ve always been wondering if she has another guy she’s with. Maybe I am the one she is playing so I decided to try something and see if she falls for it. I created a different Facebook profile and used my late friend’s picture as the profile picture. I uploaded like four more of his pics from Instagram. Then I added a couple of friends and added her. Within some months, we started chatting. At first, she wasn’t responding to my messages a lot. But I started using some format on her. I will intentionally talk about how I’m building a house and buying a new car and she suddenly became very responsive to me. I thought she was not like that but it looks like all girls are the same.

So Fast forward she started asking us to do video call, but I always created excuses. I told her I prefer to meet her in person because video calls and all that stuff is not the same as meeting in person cos I’m not photogenic. My girl fell for it, but she asked me more pics of my self and I sent her my friend’s pics. The friend I’m talking about lost his life two years ago in an accident. He was a pic guy and he has a lot of pics on Instagram. I don’t intend any harm. I’m just using his pics to test my girl and knowing him, he would have laughed about it. I’m also not scared my girl will see his Instagram profile because his account is private and only followers can view his pics.

Now here is the thing. My girl has been acting normal around me. Nothing has changed in her attitude, but she has accepted my invitation to a date this coming weekend. I mean the other me. Isn’t she cheating on me? I have been watching her closely to see if she will show any signs of cheating or chatting another guy but she is hiding it well and now I am very sure she has been sleeping with other guys without my knowledge because it looks like she can also hide that one well.

As a 24 year old guy, my plan is to marry early and settle down within next year when I’m 25. My late dad has left me a barbering shop and I have two barbers working for me. The business is booming. My girl is the same age and now that she has fallen for my trap, I have planned not to go to the date on Saturday. I will let her go and wait for the guy she has been chatting on Facebook. If she gets tired, she will go home and then I will call her and tell her it’s me and I will break up with her. I hope I’m making the right decision. I love this girl but she has proven that she is not the loyal type and I cannot marry someone who is not loyal. She will cheat on me and act normal so I don’t suspect her.

I have been chatting with one girl in her area. Although we are just friends, I’m thinking of moving to her to see because I don’t want to experience broken heart. I’m the type who moves on quickly. Hope I’m doing the right thing because cheating destroys relationship and she cheating on me has destroyed the love we share. Please I need your thoughts on this.

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The president needs to show leadership to stop ‘dumsor’ – Agyeman-Duah

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Professor Agyeman-Duah also chastised the administration for the slow speed at which it is addressing electricity concerns. He argues that given the frequency of power outages, the government should have taken a more serious approach to finding long-term solutions, but this has not been the case.

Professor Baffior Agyeman-Duah, a Governance Expert, has urged President Nana Addo Dankwa Akufo-Addo to show leadership by summoning all major players in the power sector, including the Electricity Company of Ghana (ECG), the Ghana Grid Company Limited (GRDCo), the Volta River Authority (VRA), and the Public Utilities and Regulatory Commission (PURC), and giving them marching orders to resolve the power crisis.

He believes he’ll be astonished if the president hasn’t done so already.

Speaking on the Ghana Tonight broadcast on TV3 on Monday, April 22, Prof Ageyman Duah remarked, “I will be surprised that the president has not called the leadership of the VRA, GRIDCo, ECG, and PURC, to sit them down to give them the marching order that he doesn’t like what they are doing.

“That is leadership, we need the president to be giving the marching orders. As I said, if he has done it privately I don’t know but based on the public pronouncements by these state agencies in charge of the energy sector, it seems like he hasn’t done that.”

Professor Agyeman-Duah also chastised the administration for the slow speed at which it is addressing electricity concerns.

He argues that given the frequency of power outages, the government should have taken a more serious approach to finding long-term solutions, but this has not been the case.

He went on to say “The government hasn’t been too active in seeking solutions to problems”

Prof. Baffour Agyeman-Duah also urged the state power distributor, the ECG, to produce a load-shedding schedule.

This, he believes, will help power consumers arrange their lives more effectively.

“The wise thing to do is to issue a timetable,” Professor Baffour Agyeman-Duah said.

Meanwhile, Richard Ahiagbah, Director of Communications for the New Patriotic Party (NPP), has stated that power shortages in certain areas of the country are annoying.

However, he stated that there is light at the end of the tunnel for the problem.

Mr Ahiagbah ascribed the problem to the Electricity Company of Ghana’s (ECG) maintenance work.

He told us that the job would be done quickly.

“The recent power outages have been understandably frustrating. However, there is an end in sight. The maintenance works are almost complete, and we can soon expect access to an uninterrupted power supply around the clock, as we have become accustomed to under the Akufo-Addo-Bawumia Administration.”

Regarding the criticism that members of the National Democratic Congress (NDC) have made against the administration over the outages, he stated, “The NDC is the last political organization to point fingers because Ghana has not forgotten the hurts of the ‘real dumsor,’ suffered under H.E. Mahama.

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Gomoa Akotsi: Truck collides with a police car, killing one and injuring several others

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It struck a Chinese national's car before colliding with a police vehicle stationed on the side of the road near Akotsi Junction. An eyewitness, Nai Appiah Nortey, told Citi News that several cops were in the parked police car and two more were in the trunk. The police were said to be making purchases nearby when the tragedy happened. "The vehicle was descending from Gomoa Akramah hills towards the Akotsi junction. But it suddenly lost control, crossed the main road, and collided with a police vehicle sitting on the shoulder of the road. It pulled the police vehicle and then parked in front of a business.

A collision on the road between Gomoa Akramah and Akoti Junction in the Gomoa East District, Central Region, is said to have killed one police officer and badly wounded many others.

According to sources, a KIA Rhino truck (registration number GX 4135-24) had a braking failure and went off track.

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It struck a Chinese national’s car before colliding with a police vehicle stationed on the side of the road near Akotsi Junction.

An eyewitness, Nai Appiah Nortey, told Citi News that several cops were in the parked police car and two more were in the trunk. The police were said to be making purchases nearby when the tragedy happened.

“The vehicle was descending from Gomoa Akramah hills towards the Akotsi junction. But it suddenly lost control, crossed the main road, and collided with a police vehicle sitting on the shoulder of the road. It pulled the police vehicle and then parked in front of a business.

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“There were some police officers in the trunk of the truck, and some even fell out as soon as the collision occurred. “One person has died, and the rest, including the Chinese national, have been rushed to the Trauma and Specialist Hospital in Winneba,” Nai Appiah Nortey said.

The Central East Regional Operations commander and other senior officials came on the spot to evaluate the magnitude of the damage.

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Calls for Napo’s removal as Energy minister intensifies

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“Where we have gotten to, there is no circuit and so what is the use of the minister in that space? He must be relieved, probably to concentrate on any other agenda he is bidding for. He must be relieved of his post. It is becoming too much. Is it not insulting with the statement that he made? Total disrespect to consumers. Are we asking for too much? “For God’s sake, I am a prepaid consumer. I have paid for that power that you need to supply me. In fact, you chose to put a meter in my house at a fee, that is also a contract in a form, and he chose to take my money in advance. “If I am not going to get the power, then just out of respect, at least tell me when I can have the power. But don’t look into my face and say, I should go and produce my own timetable.”

The Institute of Energy Security (IES) has urged for the urgent dismissal of Energy Minister Dr. Matthew Opoku Prempeh, citing the escalating energy situation.

According to the IES, the current status of the energy industry demands immediate action, leading to their call for the minister’s removal.

Nana Amoasi VII, Executive Director of IES, voiced concern with the minister’s apparent delay in an interview with Eyewitness News on Monday.

He emphasised the minister’s apparent separation from the realities of the energy situation, raising the question of his position in such a key location.

“Where we have gotten to, there is no circuit and so what is the use of the minister in that space? He must be relieved, probably to concentrate on any other agenda he is bidding for. He must be relieved of his post. It is becoming too much. Is it not insulting with the statement that he made? Total disrespect to consumers. Are we asking for too much?

“For God’s sake, I am a prepaid consumer. I have paid for that power that you need to supply me. In fact, you chose to put a meter in my house at a fee, that is also a contract in a form, and he chose to take my money in advance.

“If I am not going to get the power, then just out of respect, at least tell me when I can have the power. But don’t look into my face and say, I should go and produce my own timetable.”

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