I was born with a congenital condition known as a craniofacial defect. To be more specific, the Komfo Anokye Teaching Hospital diagnosed me with Treacher Collins Syndrome in 2017.
This medical condition has made my face and the shape of my head slightly distorted. At first glance, I look a little depressed. I may be happy internally but what people would see is a depressed face.
Because of this, I was bullied a lot when I was a child. My classmates and the kids in my neighbourhood had special nicknames for me. They laughed and pointed at me whenever I walked by them. Some of them even physically assaulted me, just because they couldn’t stand looking at me. My self-esteem was dented as a result of their mockery and bullying.
I lived in fear of being insulted or beaten by people for merely existing. The only time I felt safe was when I was by myself. I loved the silence and the peace of mind that accompanied my solitude. Alone, I could pretend that I was a normal girl.
I could daydream about the life I would have had if I wasn’t born with a deformity. So I spent a lot of time alone, away from a world that found me repulsive. And I was determined to continue living like that until I encountered Christ at the age of thirteen.
My pastors preached one message to me regularly; “There are no mistakes when it comes to God. He has a purpose for everyone and you are not an exemption. Be steadfast in your faith, and watch as God transforms you into a great woman someday.” This message was the hope that burned in my heart when things got very hard.
I am also looking for a job so that I can at least afford to eat and have a roof over my head. You can also share business ideas with me, something you think will work for my condition.
As for marriage and kids, if they ever happen, I will be happy. If they don’t happen too, I will be fine.