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If I divorce her, she’ll lose her Pastoral position but I don’t care because she listens to her Pastor more than me

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My wife and her entourage regard me as if I am some kind of devil sent to prevent her from answering God’s call. We both believe in God. We have raised our children in the Lord, and without Him, we would not have lasted 11 years of marriage. We attended the same church, but in 2019, one of our dear friends felt inspired to create a church. He told us about it, and I thanked him and respectfully denied his offer to accompany him out of the church. I’m fine where I am, and I’m helping in my own right. I’m not sure what he told my wife, but she immediately fell on board with his plan. My wife and I had severe conflicts about this matter, to the point that we had to attend church counselling sessions. They all persuaded her to stay since I, the husband, was not going. But she declined. She said that God was guiding her to our friend’s newly formed church. I hesitantly agreed to let her to salvage my marriage.

So she goes to church on Sundays, Thursdays, and Saturdays. There are many aspects of the scenario that I dislike, but I just ignore them since compromise is essential in every marriage, and as a man, you must ensure your wife’s happiness. The home was serene and everything was OK as long as she was pleased. Then, earlier this year, as we were about to go to bed, she informed me she was going to be ordained as a minister the following Sunday and that I needed to be there. I knew she was a devoted follower. I could see she adored God. But to think she’ll be ordained as a preacher without even consulting me was absurd. She had signed documents and gone through pastoral training without telling me anything. I was upset and did not attend.

The marriage has soured. We are not on the same page about this. We continue to have little disagreements here and there. My wife has been ordained as a minister at a church I have never visited. My children accompany me to church as well. Here comes the actual issue. My wife plans to establish a church branch in another area. She informed me about it back in March. I’m meant to leave my church with the kids and accompany her to the new location to help her develop and manage the new branch. This is a mandatory stipulation she agreed to because of her church’s regulations. A woman cannot lead a church branch if her husband and children are not there. She agreed to everything without even informing me. The most inconvenient aspect is that the area where we are intended to reside is an underdeveloped suburb in the Volta Region.

Here in Accra, I have well-paying work. Our two children attend good schools. We’re OK here. I’ve told my wife that I’ve made enough concessions for her and her needs. But this is something I will not compromise on. For the past few months, she has used every trick in the book to get me to join her in becoming the Volta Region’s chief pastor. My response has not changed. I’m not going anyplace with the kids. She is now free to leave. Several pastors from her church have visited our home to speak with me. When that didn’t work, they began using scriptures out of context to influence me into following my wife wherever she went. It’s all been mental anguish.

My wife has been given until the end of the year to persuade me to follow her, or else the post would be handed to someone else. In this marriage, there are three of us. My wife, her pastor, and I. She even looks up to the preacher more than I do. She hasn’t prepared anything for me or the kids in the last two weeks. I’ve been experimenting with Jollof in my manner. I’ve decided to divorce her. I won’t waste her time because she and I can’t agree on anything anymore. When I told her about my decision, she burst into tears. She said I was an opponent of development and God’s calling on her life. It just so happens that one of her church’s rules is that no divorcee may become a pastor. She will lose her position as a pastor if she divorces. My wife may not lead the aforementioned branch since I declined to accompany her. She is, however, still a minister in the church. She will lose her pastoral title the instant I divorce her.

To be honest, I dislike the mentioned church and its regulations. But look at how dedicated my wife is to them. Apart from her pastor, she does not listen to any other viewpoint. We used to go to church with the same person. I attempted to contact the pastor personally, but it took me days to reach him. The discussion produced no results. He accused me of letting the devil control me and urged me to join his church to be delivered. I left his office because I could see how deluded he had become. I’m about to begin divorce proceedings. But now, even the elders in my church are telling me that if I simply follow her to where she has been called to create a church, that may be God’s will. I’ve prayed about it. It’s not just a matter of following her. It’s about some of her church’s ideas and teachings that don’t sit well with me. I’ll read the comments. What should I do in this situation? I want to divorce her, but I want to be sure I’m not acting irrationally. Please help me make a decision.

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I slept with 300 people in a year – detractors call me ‘disgusting,’ but I feel powerful

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Knight had sex with both men and women, and she told the radio show that she met many of her sex partners using dating apps. She does, however, have a list of "regulars" on fast dial for when she feels like getting down and dirty.

An Australian lady who claims to have had sex with over 300 individuals in one year described the experience as “empowering.”

Annie Knight, 26, said on “The Kyle and Jackie O Show” that she even slept with five individuals in a single day during the wild, fun-filled year.

“I felt empowered afterwards,” the adoring Australian said. “Sex makes me happy. Its purpose is to make you feel wonderful.”

Knight had sex with both men and women, and she told the radio show that she met many of her sex partners using dating apps. She does, however, have a list of “regulars” on the fast dial for when she feels like getting down and dirty.

“The messier the sex, the better,” she said.

Knight, called “Australia’s most sexually active woman,” went on to state that nothing is off limits when it comes to experimenting in the bedroom, stating, “I’m down to try anything.”

However, not everyone is thrilled by Knight’s open love of sex, with one detractor calling her “disgusting.”

Knight, who maintains an OnlyFans account, was also sacked from her marketing position when her superiors discovered her lewd online behaviour.

The sex fanatic told “The Kyle and Jackie O Show” that her website has plenty of kinky stuff since she performs “pretty much everything” on video.

Knight recently made news after speaking out about being fired from a separate site.

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“I feel empowered afterwards,” the adoring Australian stated. “Sex makes me happy. Its purpose is to make you feel wonderful.”Annie Knight via Instagram

“The last thing I wanted to do was to get fired if someone found my OnlyFans,” she said on “SBS Insight” a few weeks ago.

“There was a list of three reasons why I was fired basically,” Knight explained, adding that she was “very upset and very angry” at her employer’s decision to fire her.

“They said I falsely advised that I had a side business, didn’t ask for permission from the company to run the side business and that I had online pornographic images of myself and crude language that was against company rules,” she went on to say.

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Knight, called “Australia’s most sexually active woman,” went on to state that nothing is off limits when it comes to experimenting in the bedroom, stating, “I’m down to try anything.”Annie Knight via Instagram
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Some unusual qualities men want in a woman

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Of course, some women are born with the ability to make a terrific first impression with little to no effort, while others must work a little more.

When it comes to women, what does a man want? To a significant extent, the solution is and will continue to be a mystery.

But it hasn’t prevented scientists from trying to solve the mystery of human attraction.

On the one hand, each man has his own tastes. Qualities and features that are desirable to one guy may not be appealing to another.

However, research has discovered that many men have one trait: they prefer to believe their initial impressions. And those early moments have a significant influence on their level of attraction to certain women.

Of course, some women are born with the ability to make a terrific first impression with little to no effort, while others must work a little more.

Here are five characteristics that men find particularly appealing in women, according to a study.

Natural-looking makeup, including eye makeup and lipstick

Some males remark that they prefer women who do not wear makeup because they appear more natural. However, according to a Zoosk poll, 139 of 1,200 women who applied eye makeup in their profile photo were more likely to receive responses from males. Men were also more likely to desire to meet a lady if her profile photo included lipstick.

Women who wear “darker” cosmetics, on the other hand, were less likely to be asked out. Even if men claim they prefer women who appear “natural,” this implies you may wear “natural” cosmetics and still attract guys.

Also, fellas, it’s quite OK to remark that your girl looks great with winged eyeliner and red lipstick.

The ideal waist-to-hip ratio

This choice is based on health and fertility rather than appearance.

“Evidence also shows that waist-to-hip ratio is a strong indicator of a woman’s oestrogen levels, risk of obesity, and susceptibility to major diseases such as diabetes, ovarian cancer, and heart disease,” according to the study.

Dressing in red clothes

The colour red represents passion. It’s no surprise that males find it appealing. In a research conducted by psychologists at the University of Rochester, men were given images of various women with framed borders of either red or white and were asked how attractive they thought the ladies were.

They were then given an identical photo with the ladies dressed in either red or blue and asked how much they would spend on a date with that woman. Women who were framed in red or wore red were more likely to be considered seductive and beautiful, and males were more likely to want to spend money on a date.

A kind attitude

A pleasant demeanour always goes a long way. Researchers from the Society for Personality and Social Psychology discovered that a woman’s responsiveness to men’s needs and desires boosted her attraction to males.

A higher-pitched voice

According to studies, women prefer males with deeper voices. For males, the reverse is usually true, since some feel “[higher] voices signal reproductive fitness, femininity, and smaller body size.”

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I introduced her to fraud but she scammed me and married my Canadian-based friend

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I introduced her to fraud but she scammed me and married my Canadian-based friend

I used to do fraud. Someone introduced it to my buddy, who then introduced it to me. The game has different stages. We were at the bottom of the game’s ladder, so we didn’t make much money, but the risk involved was excellent. Aside from the danger, you must labour every day in order to earn GHC500 every week.

We slept very little because our clients were all over the world, and because of the time difference, we had to stay awake in order to communicate with them. I had a major hit one day. I received GHC7,000 from a bargain and immediately purchased an iPhone for my girlfriend, Cynthia. She was aware that I was involved in fraud, yet she was uninterested. She became interested in the business when I gave her the iPhone and told her how I obtained it.

So when I had a customer who claimed to be a girl, Cynthia was the one who spoke to them. She was the one who set up the video calls. We were still struggling. We halted operations since the money was not flowing as promised.

Life was difficult for two jobless lovers. I couldn’t help her. I couldn’t help myself, so we relied on the generosity of friends who were succeeding in the game.

Ernest, a buddy of mine from Canada, came over one day, and we were all hanging around. Cynthia later informed me, “Your friend likes me.” He was licking his lips and staring at me in some way. Let’s go get some money from him. Tell him I’m not your girlfriend. Allow him to take me so we may obtain money from him.”

Ernest was formerly a player in the game. He went outdoors after getting money. I warned Cynthia Ernest that she might catch the hint, but she was so enthusiastic about collecting money that we gave it a shot. “Don’t let him sleep with you,” was the lone caution. Never.”

She brought me GHC 500 a week later. “He gave me 1,000 GHC.” “That’s your cut,” she explained.

Ernest was hiding the affair because he was afraid I would be upset if I found out he was seeing my sister. He was even concealing it from the team, but we were aware of what was going on.

He was here for a month, and we earned a lot of money.

He was still sending money after he left. Cynthia gave me my portion. I got a job and advised her not to see Ernest anymore. She didn’t give up. It escalated into a brawl, in which I threatened to let the cat out of the bag. “If you try it, you’ll go to jail,” she said. You know I’m familiar with all of your previous transactions. How much money can you offer me to get me to quit seeing Ernest?”

Cynthia is currently in Canada with Ernest, where they are having the time of their life. I tear up when I see their images. When I see these videos on Instagram, I want to kick them in the video.

Ernest finally understands reality. Cynthia, I believe, informed him in a way that she wouldn’t be held responsible, saying something like, “He gave me to you so we could get money from you, but I fell for you because you’re a good person.” That sort of thing.

I must confess, they had the final laugh. Cynthia informed me the last time I spoke with her, “If you stop being bitter, I will send you something small every month.” You don’t have to hate me since I don’t hate you.”

I bowed my head and kicked the bitterness out of my heart because money is money.

That girl is the only honest scammer there is. She maintained her promise. She occasionally sends me money. She’s gradually rebuilding the bridge between me and my old friend Ernest. She duped me, but I can’t really complain. I still have feelings for her but in a different manner. I adore her as someone who looks after me.

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