I’ve been married for eight years now with two kids, as a woman I’ve done everything human possible to make my home peaceful. My husband cheats on me and anytime I find out, we argue and he will swear not to do it again but small time he goes back to it, recently I started having itching in my private part, which I suspected him but he denied it so just last week he left home without his phone and he was in hurry that he is meeting some people.
Immediately I heard the phone beep so I took it and oh my God started shivering, they are done and the lady is congratulating him, I cried and said nothing to him, just called my parents and his that it’s over now am no more marrying again, am 33years, I pay 85 percent of the money we use in the house, rent I pay, school fees, clothing, he only gives me 300cedis every month to run everything, I don’t nag I cook, clean, wash, a hard worker and God fearing.
I thought at first am not doing it right but after searching within me honestly, am not a bad person, now he is all over pleading, am out of love for him, I can’t be happy with him again but nobody is ready to listen to me on divorce, I want him out of the house cos I paid for the rent, his mother was saying her son does not give her money so I told her he is not giving me either even his children he doesn’t take care of them and she was surprised.
Everyone is saying I should give him last chance but I don’t know how to do it, am so heartbroken, I don’t think I can trust him anymore am so confused, I can really take care of myself and my children of which he knows very well, cos ever since I met him, he has never bought clothes or underwear for himself I do everything including cream and perfume even tooth brush, is like I have liberated him financially.
Please house help me, currently am trying to go do my masters but am very distracted and don’t have sound mind, even the school he objected against it but since am paying my own fees, I never mind him.
Is it bad to help ur husband in marriage?
What can I do so that he will feel the hurt he has been giving me?
He is not ready to leave the house and I don’t have enough money now to move out too, how do I cope with him now?
please I need mature advice. Pls notify me when posted.