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I’m torn between my boss and my new boyfriend

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Mum has a second child with her stepson, whom she has raised since he was seven years old

I was a recent university graduate looking for work three years ago. I was always coming to nighttime prayer groups, hoping that God would help me find work. I would declare that I will never, ever compromise my ideals. I would never let a boss sleep with me in exchange for a job. I had no idea that age and life would transform me into a completely new person. When my father died while I was completing my NSS, I was forced to abandon all of my ambitions for myself in order to care for my three younger siblings. My mom worked as a trader and didn’t make much money. Dad did everything, and now that he’s gone, I truly miss him. We went in for his SSNIT money, and I proposed we invest it and attempt to live off the profits, even if it wasn’t enough.

My mother said no; she kept the money at home and we utilised it for day-to-day living expenses. The money was finished after I paid my siblings’ fees and did a few other things. I used to often dispute with my mother, and I understood the actual enemy was poverty. My mum wasn’t even there. It was due to a lack of funds. When my NSS was about to expire, I went to my supervisor and begged him to keep me. I informed him that I was the firstborn. After I came two brothers and a sister. My mother’s trade didn’t pay well, so I needed this employment to support my family. I promised him that I would work extremely hard and that he would be impressed. He requested that I could bring up GHc15,000 so that he might obtain a position for me in another section of the same firm. I told him I couldn’t afford that much money. He then told me that I could do other things to compensate him.

He said he liked me and that if I cave, I won’t have to travel to another branch. I could work as his personal assistant right here with him. I relented. I didn’t say anything. I barely remember shaking my head, which indicated I agreed. My boss is married, but he has been doing it with me since I started working for him. I won’t go into the specifics of our connection, but I was dating at the time I accepted him, and I concealed the truth from my boyfriend. Furthermore, he pays me more than I need, despite the fact that I am the single breadwinner in my household. My mother’s blood pressure is high, so I encouraged her to stay at home and relax. I was also saving with a mutual fund, but after the government haircut issue, I decided to remove the funds, which are currently in a savings account. I’m not sure what I’ll do with it yet, but I’m considering it.

My then-boyfriend had the opportunity to travel outside to study earlier this year. The intention had been for us to continue dating, but it wasn’t working. Because the communication was not working, I called it quits. We went to a session for all of the company’s Accra workers in July, and I met this guy. He was employed at a different branch, although in the same city of Accra. We hit it off right away. He’s a great man, and I adore him. I’m not sure whether it was divine providence, but my buddy got promoted and was sent to where I am. We’ve become close, and the big boss has noticed. He summoned me to his office one day and warned me to keep away from the person since I was his property, and he threatened to fire me and stop paying me any allowance if I continued to indulge the guy. My boyfriend has also either suspected or been informed of something since the last time he asked me whether there was anything going on between the boss and I, I denied it.

I’d like to know what I should do. Knowing the boss, his envy might easily drive him to fire me, and I’d lose all of the perks that come with him. He is a womaniser, and I know he could simply replace me with any desperate graduate searching for work. I’m also concerned about losing my guy. The friendship has been going well, and I am tempted to tell him everything to see if he can help me get another job somewhere so that I can finally leave the huge boss behind. My lover is also my supervisor at work, and he has connections. I’m confident he can find another work for me, but I’m also afraid he’ll abandon me after learning that the big boss has also been knacking me. I’m conflicted between these two bosses. Please advise me on what to do.

Source: Anonymous Confessions

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I introduced her to fraud but she scammed me and married my Canadian-based friend

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I introduced her to fraud but she scammed me and married my Canadian-based friend

I used to do fraud. Someone introduced it to my buddy, who then introduced it to me. The game has different stages. We were at the bottom of the game’s ladder, so we didn’t make much money, but the risk involved was excellent. Aside from the danger, you must labour every day in order to earn GHC500 every week.

We slept very little because our clients were all over the world, and because of the time difference, we had to stay awake in order to communicate with them. I had a major hit one day. I received GHC7,000 from a bargain and immediately purchased an iPhone for my girlfriend, Cynthia. She was aware that I was involved in fraud, yet she was uninterested. She became interested in the business when I gave her the iPhone and told her how I obtained it.

So when I had a customer who claimed to be a girl, Cynthia was the one who spoke to them. She was the one who set up the video calls. We were still struggling. We halted operations since the money was not flowing as promised.

Life was difficult for two jobless lovers. I couldn’t help her. I couldn’t help myself, so we relied on the generosity of friends who were succeeding in the game.

Ernest, a buddy of mine from Canada, came over one day, and we were all hanging around. Cynthia later informed me, “Your friend likes me.” He was licking his lips and staring at me in some way. Let’s go get some money from him. Tell him I’m not your girlfriend. Allow him to take me so we may obtain money from him.”

Ernest was formerly a player in the game. He went outdoors after getting money. I warned Cynthia Ernest that she might catch the hint, but she was so enthusiastic about collecting money that we gave it a shot. “Don’t let him sleep with you,” was the lone caution. Never.”

She brought me GHC 500 a week later. “He gave me 1,000 GHC.” “That’s your cut,” she explained.

Ernest was hiding the affair because he was afraid I would be upset if I found out he was seeing my sister. He was even concealing it from the team, but we were aware of what was going on.

He was here for a month, and we earned a lot of money.

He was still sending money after he left. Cynthia gave me my portion. I got a job and advised her not to see Ernest anymore. She didn’t give up. It escalated into a brawl, in which I threatened to let the cat out of the bag. “If you try it, you’ll go to jail,” she said. You know I’m familiar with all of your previous transactions. How much money can you offer me to get me to quit seeing Ernest?”

Cynthia is currently in Canada with Ernest, where they are having the time of their life. I tear up when I see their images. When I see these videos on Instagram, I want to kick them in the video.

Ernest finally understands reality. Cynthia, I believe, informed him in a way that she wouldn’t be held responsible, saying something like, “He gave me to you so we could get money from you, but I fell for you because you’re a good person.” That sort of thing.

I must confess, they had the final laugh. Cynthia informed me the last time I spoke with her, “If you stop being bitter, I will send you something small every month.” You don’t have to hate me since I don’t hate you.”

I bowed my head and kicked the bitterness out of my heart because money is money.

That girl is the only honest scammer there is. She maintained her promise. She occasionally sends me money. She’s gradually rebuilding the bridge between me and my old friend Ernest. She duped me, but I can’t really complain. I still have feelings for her but in a different manner. I adore her as someone who looks after me.

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I adore my husband, but I also love my boss

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I adore my husband, but I also love my boss

My spouse is fantastic. He’s a wonderful father to our children, and I adore him.

Everything went well till I saw my Boss for the first time lately. I had just recently begun working at my new workplace, therefore, I had never met the Boss in person. He was smitten with me from the moment he saw me. He knows I’m married and is fine with it.

He treats me like a lady and pays all of my bills. He pays for stuff I don’t even realise I need. I enjoy spending time with him. He makes me feel incredibly protected, and with him, the world may disappear for all I care.

He is not married and, in his own words, is eager to “be here” for me.

We are yet to have shuperu, but he kissed me last night before we split ways, and I’ve been craving his kiss all day. Not only have I been thinking about his kiss, but also about what it would be like to lay in bed with him and yield to his wishes.

I tell him how much it pains me to do this to my husband, and he says, “Don’t worry. Everything will be well. He can’t be harmed by what he doesn’t know.”

He has a knack of getting under my skin emotionally. Only my husband has been able to reach me in the same manner that my employer has, and it makes me want to keep him—keep him and keep my husband.

My spouse just refers to him as my Boss. If he finds out, he would undoubtedly break down and break up with me, therefore I’ve learnt not to leave any evidence. I’m in a state of confusion right now. Confused because my husband needs to hurt me or treat me horribly in order for me to fall in love with someone else, but in this situation, everything is perfect between us, but I still long for someone new.

I desperately need my job, therefore I don’t want to offend my employer. This is the only job I’ve ever had that pays above and above my expectations. I simply cannot afford to lose it. Aside from that, I want my employer and I need my husband. I wish there was a way for the two to coexist.

The gravity of the situation is that, since meeting my employer, shuperu with my spouse has become a responsibility for me. I make myself available to him, but I don’t feel anything. It’s similar to the fable of the brook and the stone. What effect may the stream have on the stone? Nothing. He’s doing it, and I’m thinking about my employer. I am aware that I require assistance.

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Woman sues boyfriend for abandoning her after funding his extravagant lifestyle

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Woman sues boyfriend for abandoning her after funding his extravagant lifestyle

A heartbroken lady has hauled her lover, Hassan Umar, to a Kano magistrates’ court for having dumped her after spending N900,000 on him.

In court, the woman’s counsel said that the defendant claimed he was in love with his client and that they had agreed to marry.

However, after spending the money on him, Umar abandoned her and stopped seeing her.

The defendant, on the other hand, pled not guilty to the accusations, explaining that it was merely a relationship that did not survive the test of time.

Following the reading of the charges, the Magistrate requested that both sides produce their witnesses for the next postponed session.

Addressing journalists after the court sitting, the woman said:

“I doubt he didn’t charm me. Whatever he asked me I did it instantly. I cooked different types of food for him, including chicken, meat, and even two rams.

“I spent over N900,000 on him. But from there, he started showing me as if he didn’t care. Later he stopped coming to me.”

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