Please, administrator. In this scenario, I require your counsel as well as that of your readers. We tied the knot three weeks ago. Except for one item, everything went swimmingly, and we are completely in love. My wife has decided that Sundays and Thursdays are holy days, so she will not allow us to be intimate on those days. We never met to be personal when we were dating since she was usually very busy on those days, but we made sure we met on Saturdays to have fun. I woke her up with joy the Sunday after our wedding for some personal couple time together. My wife stated that she is fasting and has devoted the next two days to God. We may do it on any other day, except Sundays and Thursdays. Her reasons are that she goes to church and fasts on Sundays, and Thursday is her birthday, so she fasts on those days.
I’ve always promised myself that I’ll marry a God-fearing woman. Such ladies, I felt, were spiritual, mature, and tranquil, and would make excellent brides. I was usually cheerful and considered myself fortunate to have met one. She was always engaged with the church, and she invited me to several activities, which we both attended. We were in different churches, so we went our separate ways on Sundays. She joined my church after her marriage. I asked her whether this would be the case for the duration of our marriage. If her spouse is not allowed to touch her for two days, she stated unequivocally that yes. Meanwhile, we’ve discussed all of this, and she’s guaranteed that we won’t have any problems in the bedroom. We went to therapy for months, and the counsellor highlighted how crucial it is for us to be intimate on a regular basis, unless for very excellent reasons. Aside from this issue, I have no complaints about my wife.
But it’s difficult to get up and be in the mood when your wife won’t let you do anything till the next day. I was gloomy the entire day last Thursday as a result, and she didn’t even notice. I believe it is too soon to return to the counsellors. I also don’t want them to believe that I can’t preserve the peace at home and that I go to them at the first sign of trouble. If children enter the picture, I should be able to maintain harmony in my family. My parents wanted me to wait until I was 28 before marrying her, but we had been dating for two years, we both had jobs that are adequate to support us, and we weren’t doing badly, so I didn’t see the need to wait. Am I being overly dramatic? Is my wife justified in her actions? She seemed to have taken control of me. I am quiet and calm, and she is two years my senior. I need guidance on how to approach this situation.
Source: Anonymous Confessions
