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It’s either he accepts responsibility for the child or I’ll be there on his wedding day

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Hello. I’d like to thank everyone who took the time to comment and offer advice on the stories. As a result, this is also my tale. On Valentine’s Day, I committed a mistake. I went out with some buddies and ended up on the bed with a man I met there. I don’t want to go into detail about what happened since I deeply regret my conduct. But we stayed in touch after that. I expected him to date me after what we did, but he said he wasn’t interested and that both of us were simply tipsy and high, so we should chalk it up to a mistake and go on. Then I discovered I was pregnant. I was single at the time, and he was the only guy I had ever dated, so it was obvious who the father was. He denied it, saying I was a street girl who did it to anybody who crossed my path. His statements upset me deeply, and he went on to block me and shut me off from his life. I carried my pregnancy with the help and support of my friends.

My mother was pleasantly supportive, so all of my concerns about her rejecting me were alleviated. My friend knew a very close friend of my baby’s father, so he told me about it, and I spoke with the stated friend of my baby’s daddy. He stated that his friend is not like that and that he is a responsible individual who would never desert his own flesh and blood. The buddy said he’ll talk to him about doing a DNA test after I give birth so he can accept the child as his own. That didn’t bother me at all. Even after several discussions with his friend, who assured me that he will talk to me soon, my baby daddy refused to unblock me. Instead of his communicating with me, this friend acted as a go-between for the two of us. He never sent me a dollar for my prenatal or hospital visits.

I’ve just given birth. My baby daddy’s friend informed me that he had a serious relationship. They have been dating for several years and will marry in January. He expected his buddy to inform his fiance about me and the baby, and he tried to persuade him, but it didn’t work, so he decided to tell me the truth. I remained silent. I don’t want him to marry me; I simply want my son to know who his father is. I come from a shattered family. I didn’t know my father, and that had a big impact on me. This baby daddy’s buddy has been a huge help to me, and he even provided me with enough money to take care of myself and the kid. So I finally met my baby daddy a few weeks ago, and we went to the DNA test.

His friend was also present to assist. The baby is, as predicted, his. When the findings were ready, we all gathered again and went through them. My baby daddy became enraged and stated that he will not accept it since it is untrue. His buddy began chatting with him, and he told him that the friend could marry me and add me as his wife because he had been there for me all these months. My mother advised me to abandon him and let him enjoy his life, but I will not be like her. I’ll go to his wedding and ruin it if I have to. I sometimes wish his friend wasn’t married because I would have stayed with him. He has been quite helpful. I’m at a loss for what to do. I’m not in a position to care for a baby on my own. Why should he be allowed to go on with his life after we both had a good time on Valentine’s Day? Nature is not kind to us ladies. Please advise.

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I introduced her to fraud but she scammed me and married my Canadian-based friend

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I introduced her to fraud but she scammed me and married my Canadian-based friend

I used to do fraud. Someone introduced it to my buddy, who then introduced it to me. The game has different stages. We were at the bottom of the game’s ladder, so we didn’t make much money, but the risk involved was excellent. Aside from the danger, you must labour every day in order to earn GHC500 every week.

We slept very little because our clients were all over the world, and because of the time difference, we had to stay awake in order to communicate with them. I had a major hit one day. I received GHC7,000 from a bargain and immediately purchased an iPhone for my girlfriend, Cynthia. She was aware that I was involved in fraud, yet she was uninterested. She became interested in the business when I gave her the iPhone and told her how I obtained it.

So when I had a customer who claimed to be a girl, Cynthia was the one who spoke to them. She was the one who set up the video calls. We were still struggling. We halted operations since the money was not flowing as promised.

Life was difficult for two jobless lovers. I couldn’t help her. I couldn’t help myself, so we relied on the generosity of friends who were succeeding in the game.

Ernest, a buddy of mine from Canada, came over one day, and we were all hanging around. Cynthia later informed me, “Your friend likes me.” He was licking his lips and staring at me in some way. Let’s go get some money from him. Tell him I’m not your girlfriend. Allow him to take me so we may obtain money from him.”

Ernest was formerly a player in the game. He went outdoors after getting money. I warned Cynthia Ernest that she might catch the hint, but she was so enthusiastic about collecting money that we gave it a shot. “Don’t let him sleep with you,” was the lone caution. Never.”

She brought me GHC 500 a week later. “He gave me 1,000 GHC.” “That’s your cut,” she explained.

Ernest was hiding the affair because he was afraid I would be upset if I found out he was seeing my sister. He was even concealing it from the team, but we were aware of what was going on.

He was here for a month, and we earned a lot of money.

He was still sending money after he left. Cynthia gave me my portion. I got a job and advised her not to see Ernest anymore. She didn’t give up. It escalated into a brawl, in which I threatened to let the cat out of the bag. “If you try it, you’ll go to jail,” she said. You know I’m familiar with all of your previous transactions. How much money can you offer me to get me to quit seeing Ernest?”

Cynthia is currently in Canada with Ernest, where they are having the time of their life. I tear up when I see their images. When I see these videos on Instagram, I want to kick them in the video.

Ernest finally understands reality. Cynthia, I believe, informed him in a way that she wouldn’t be held responsible, saying something like, “He gave me to you so we could get money from you, but I fell for you because you’re a good person.” That sort of thing.

I must confess, they had the final laugh. Cynthia informed me the last time I spoke with her, “If you stop being bitter, I will send you something small every month.” You don’t have to hate me since I don’t hate you.”

I bowed my head and kicked the bitterness out of my heart because money is money.

That girl is the only honest scammer there is. She maintained her promise. She occasionally sends me money. She’s gradually rebuilding the bridge between me and my old friend Ernest. She duped me, but I can’t really complain. I still have feelings for her but in a different manner. I adore her as someone who looks after me.

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I adore my husband, but I also love my boss

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I adore my husband, but I also love my boss

My spouse is fantastic. He’s a wonderful father to our children, and I adore him.

Everything went well till I saw my Boss for the first time lately. I had just recently begun working at my new workplace, therefore, I had never met the Boss in person. He was smitten with me from the moment he saw me. He knows I’m married and is fine with it.

He treats me like a lady and pays all of my bills. He pays for stuff I don’t even realise I need. I enjoy spending time with him. He makes me feel incredibly protected, and with him, the world may disappear for all I care.

He is not married and, in his own words, is eager to “be here” for me.

We are yet to have shuperu, but he kissed me last night before we split ways, and I’ve been craving his kiss all day. Not only have I been thinking about his kiss, but also about what it would be like to lay in bed with him and yield to his wishes.

I tell him how much it pains me to do this to my husband, and he says, “Don’t worry. Everything will be well. He can’t be harmed by what he doesn’t know.”

He has a knack of getting under my skin emotionally. Only my husband has been able to reach me in the same manner that my employer has, and it makes me want to keep him—keep him and keep my husband.

My spouse just refers to him as my Boss. If he finds out, he would undoubtedly break down and break up with me, therefore I’ve learnt not to leave any evidence. I’m in a state of confusion right now. Confused because my husband needs to hurt me or treat me horribly in order for me to fall in love with someone else, but in this situation, everything is perfect between us, but I still long for someone new.

I desperately need my job, therefore I don’t want to offend my employer. This is the only job I’ve ever had that pays above and above my expectations. I simply cannot afford to lose it. Aside from that, I want my employer and I need my husband. I wish there was a way for the two to coexist.

The gravity of the situation is that, since meeting my employer, shuperu with my spouse has become a responsibility for me. I make myself available to him, but I don’t feel anything. It’s similar to the fable of the brook and the stone. What effect may the stream have on the stone? Nothing. He’s doing it, and I’m thinking about my employer. I am aware that I require assistance.

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Woman sues boyfriend for abandoning her after funding his extravagant lifestyle

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Woman sues boyfriend for abandoning her after funding his extravagant lifestyle

A heartbroken lady has hauled her lover, Hassan Umar, to a Kano magistrates’ court for having dumped her after spending N900,000 on him.

In court, the woman’s counsel said that the defendant claimed he was in love with his client and that they had agreed to marry.

However, after spending the money on him, Umar abandoned her and stopped seeing her.

The defendant, on the other hand, pled not guilty to the accusations, explaining that it was merely a relationship that did not survive the test of time.

Following the reading of the charges, the Magistrate requested that both sides produce their witnesses for the next postponed session.

Addressing journalists after the court sitting, the woman said:

“I doubt he didn’t charm me. Whatever he asked me I did it instantly. I cooked different types of food for him, including chicken, meat, and even two rams.

“I spent over N900,000 on him. But from there, he started showing me as if he didn’t care. Later he stopped coming to me.”

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