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I’ve done two abortions for my auntie’s husband and pregnant again for him but my boyfriend thinks he’s responsible
I have a confession to make and I hope I feel a little bit better after making this confession. So I am a 21-year-old girl. I turned 21 this past June and after SHS, I haven’t furthered my education nor do I have any plans of doing so.
My mum sells fruits in front of our house and I was helping her but it wasn’t something I enjoyed doing. One day, my auntie, that’s my mum’s younger sister came to visit us. She was in her thirtees around that time and newly married with a baby on the way. She spoke with my mum for long and she needed someone to come and stay with her to help her when she gives birth and also help with cleaning the house.
My mum told her it was my choice if I wanted to join her or not. I was 16 years and I was in SHS at that time.
My auntie spoke to me and told me she will take good care of me if I come and stay with her. She said if I comport myself well, she will let me learn a trade or dressmaking after SHS so I agreed.
That’s how I started staying with them. At this point I feel very bad. My auntie’s husband is a serious womaniser who likes young girls. Within a few weeks of staying with them he started touching me in very strange ways.
When I am in the kitchen cooking, he will come and stand behind me and rub his thing on my butt in a way that I will feel it. His wife may be breastfeeding the baby or doing something in the hall. I know many people will say I am a bad girl for also keeping quiet but the truth is that I was scared no one will believe me.
All I have been doing is to tell him to stop and my heart will also be beating because I didn’t want any trouble. But the man continued doing that. Then he will be touching my breasts at the least chance.
He can just meet me in the room when his wife is not around and he will press my breasts and touch my butt without saying anything, then he will just pass with a smile. Sometimes he will look at me and say girls today develop too early and I shouldn’t blame him for touching me the way he does.
When the baby started growing, my auntie was leaving her for me and going to work. I was mostly the only one at home because they will all go to work and leave me and I was used to it. One day her husband came home early. Around 2pm.
I had just fed the baby and placed her down to sleep and I myself was dozing of a bit when he came. He started touching touching me. I was around 17 years then. Sometimes I blame myself because I feel like maybe if I had resisted him more he would have stopped. I just told him to stop but he was whispering that it will just be a few minutes and it will be over. That day, he broke my virginity and I cried after it was all over, but he walked out as if it was nothing. It became normal for him now and he will intentionally be late for work so that his wife will leave early, then he will have s*x with me.
The first time I told him I was pregnant, he looked at me and told me it wasn’t a problem at all and we will sought it out. His wife went to work and he took me to clinic and we aborted the baby. I did another abortion the following year and at this point I was ready to tell my auntie. I didn’t care if she will not believe me anymore or not. But somewhere last year, I got a boyfriend in the area. The guy loves me so much and I don’t even know why. He has been treating me well. At first my auntie didn’t like it. But when she saw how respectful my boyfriend is, she accepted him and he was even visiting me at home a lot. I got pregnant again. This is my third pregnancy and my auntie’s husband is the father. I have s*x with my boyfriend during my safe period, but my auntie’s husband does not care about safe period. He eats me anytime he feels like it so I know it’s his child. Even the timing shows that it’s his child.
If I tell him I was carrying his baby again, he will make me abort it, so this time I told my boyfriend that I was pregnant. It was difficult for him, but he did the right thing by informing his parents who also came to tell my auntie and my mother. Now they are waiting for me to give birth so they do a small marriage for my boyfriend and me. The big problem is that my auntie’s husband has gone to impregnate another girl who is about 18 or 19. She came to inform my auntie with her family. This man denied it even to the point of cursing himself and my auntie foolishly believed him. Now I don’t know if I should tell me auntie what the man has been doing to me so that it will help her believe that what the girl is saying is true. Her husband is a devil yet she doesn’t see it.
Her husband is in his 40s, yet he likes teenagers. I want to expose him. He has to pay for using me and possibly other young girls. If I tell my auntie about the abortions I have done for her husband and the fact that the baby I’m now carrying is not my boyfriend’s but her husband’s, it will spoil all my chances with my boyfriend. He will leave me and not marry me so I am tempted to keep quiet. Please can you guys tell me what to do? Keeping this secret is really worrying me.
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I slept with 300 people in a year – detractors call me ‘disgusting,’ but I feel powerful
An Australian lady who claims to have had sex with over 300 individuals in one year described the experience as “empowering.”
Annie Knight, 26, said on “The Kyle and Jackie O Show” that she even slept with five individuals in a single day during the wild, fun-filled year.
“I felt empowered afterwards,” the adoring Australian said. “Sex makes me happy. Its purpose is to make you feel wonderful.”
Knight had sex with both men and women, and she told the radio show that she met many of her sex partners using dating apps. She does, however, have a list of “regulars” on the fast dial for when she feels like getting down and dirty.
“The messier the sex, the better,” she said.
Knight, called “Australia’s most sexually active woman,” went on to state that nothing is off limits when it comes to experimenting in the bedroom, stating, “I’m down to try anything.”
However, not everyone is thrilled by Knight’s open love of sex, with one detractor calling her “disgusting.”
Knight, who maintains an OnlyFans account, was also sacked from her marketing position when her superiors discovered her lewd online behaviour.
The sex fanatic told “The Kyle and Jackie O Show” that her website has plenty of kinky stuff since she performs “pretty much everything” on video.
Knight recently made news after speaking out about being fired from a separate site.
“The last thing I wanted to do was to get fired if someone found my OnlyFans,” she said on “SBS Insight” a few weeks ago.
“There was a list of three reasons why I was fired basically,” Knight explained, adding that she was “very upset and very angry” at her employer’s decision to fire her.
“They said I falsely advised that I had a side business, didn’t ask for permission from the company to run the side business and that I had online pornographic images of myself and crude language that was against company rules,” she went on to say.
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Some unusual qualities men want in a woman
When it comes to women, what does a man want? To a significant extent, the solution is and will continue to be a mystery.
But it hasn’t prevented scientists from trying to solve the mystery of human attraction.
On the one hand, each man has his own tastes. Qualities and features that are desirable to one guy may not be appealing to another.
However, research has discovered that many men have one trait: they prefer to believe their initial impressions. And those early moments have a significant influence on their level of attraction to certain women.
Of course, some women are born with the ability to make a terrific first impression with little to no effort, while others must work a little more.
Here are five characteristics that men find particularly appealing in women, according to a study.
Natural-looking makeup, including eye makeup and lipstick
Some males remark that they prefer women who do not wear makeup because they appear more natural. However, according to a Zoosk poll, 139 of 1,200 women who applied eye makeup in their profile photo were more likely to receive responses from males. Men were also more likely to desire to meet a lady if her profile photo included lipstick.
Women who wear “darker” cosmetics, on the other hand, were less likely to be asked out. Even if men claim they prefer women who appear “natural,” this implies you may wear “natural” cosmetics and still attract guys.
Also, fellas, it’s quite OK to remark that your girl looks great with winged eyeliner and red lipstick.
The ideal waist-to-hip ratio
This choice is based on health and fertility rather than appearance.
“Evidence also shows that waist-to-hip ratio is a strong indicator of a woman’s oestrogen levels, risk of obesity, and susceptibility to major diseases such as diabetes, ovarian cancer, and heart disease,” according to the study.
Dressing in red clothes
The colour red represents passion. It’s no surprise that males find it appealing. In a research conducted by psychologists at the University of Rochester, men were given images of various women with framed borders of either red or white and were asked how attractive they thought the ladies were.
They were then given an identical photo with the ladies dressed in either red or blue and asked how much they would spend on a date with that woman. Women who were framed in red or wore red were more likely to be considered seductive and beautiful, and males were more likely to want to spend money on a date.
A kind attitude
A pleasant demeanour always goes a long way. Researchers from the Society for Personality and Social Psychology discovered that a woman’s responsiveness to men’s needs and desires boosted her attraction to males.
A higher-pitched voice
According to studies, women prefer males with deeper voices. For males, the reverse is usually true, since some feel “[higher] voices signal reproductive fitness, femininity, and smaller body size.”
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I introduced her to fraud but she scammed me and married my Canadian-based friend
I used to do fraud. Someone introduced it to my buddy, who then introduced it to me. The game has different stages. We were at the bottom of the game’s ladder, so we didn’t make much money, but the risk involved was excellent. Aside from the danger, you must labour every day in order to earn GHC500 every week.
We slept very little because our clients were all over the world, and because of the time difference, we had to stay awake in order to communicate with them. I had a major hit one day. I received GHC7,000 from a bargain and immediately purchased an iPhone for my girlfriend, Cynthia. She was aware that I was involved in fraud, yet she was uninterested. She became interested in the business when I gave her the iPhone and told her how I obtained it.
So when I had a customer who claimed to be a girl, Cynthia was the one who spoke to them. She was the one who set up the video calls. We were still struggling. We halted operations since the money was not flowing as promised.
Life was difficult for two jobless lovers. I couldn’t help her. I couldn’t help myself, so we relied on the generosity of friends who were succeeding in the game.
Ernest, a buddy of mine from Canada, came over one day, and we were all hanging around. Cynthia later informed me, “Your friend likes me.” He was licking his lips and staring at me in some way. Let’s go get some money from him. Tell him I’m not your girlfriend. Allow him to take me so we may obtain money from him.”
Ernest was formerly a player in the game. He went outdoors after getting money. I warned Cynthia Ernest that she might catch the hint, but she was so enthusiastic about collecting money that we gave it a shot. “Don’t let him sleep with you,” was the lone caution. Never.”
She brought me GHC 500 a week later. “He gave me 1,000 GHC.” “That’s your cut,” she explained.
Ernest was hiding the affair because he was afraid I would be upset if I found out he was seeing my sister. He was even concealing it from the team, but we were aware of what was going on.
He was here for a month, and we earned a lot of money.
He was still sending money after he left. Cynthia gave me my portion. I got a job and advised her not to see Ernest anymore. She didn’t give up. It escalated into a brawl, in which I threatened to let the cat out of the bag. “If you try it, you’ll go to jail,” she said. You know I’m familiar with all of your previous transactions. How much money can you offer me to get me to quit seeing Ernest?”
Cynthia is currently in Canada with Ernest, where they are having the time of their life. I tear up when I see their images. When I see these videos on Instagram, I want to kick them in the video.
Ernest finally understands reality. Cynthia, I believe, informed him in a way that she wouldn’t be held responsible, saying something like, “He gave me to you so we could get money from you, but I fell for you because you’re a good person.” That sort of thing.
I must confess, they had the final laugh. Cynthia informed me the last time I spoke with her, “If you stop being bitter, I will send you something small every month.” You don’t have to hate me since I don’t hate you.”
I bowed my head and kicked the bitterness out of my heart because money is money.
That girl is the only honest scammer there is. She maintained her promise. She occasionally sends me money. She’s gradually rebuilding the bridge between me and my old friend Ernest. She duped me, but I can’t really complain. I still have feelings for her but in a different manner. I adore her as someone who looks after me.