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My Advice To Young Girls: Avoid Sugar Daddies At All Cost
This story is a bit hard to narrate. I don’t recognise myself anymore. In the space of about 5 years, I have become everything I vowed never to become. In 2017, I gained admission into a prestigious University (I prefer not to mention the name); in 2018, I lost both of my parents in a car accident.
They were returning from a funeral and they both lost their lives. The news was so devastating to me that for that sem, I failed two of my papers. My four siblings were shared amongst my uncles and aunties they will call me at school and cry on the phone that they were hungry, or my auntie discriminates amongst them, or an uncle hit them with a chair.
It was always one issue after the other. As the firstborn, I couldn’t even concentrate on school because I felt responsible for my younger siblings and I wanted to take them away from some of my aunties.
Our lastborn has autism and he was staying with one of my father’s sisters. It was the same place I was also staying during the vacation. My brother was always neglected and he would cry and cry without anyone attending to him. It made me miss my mother so much because she studied the condition from the moment she gave birth to him and she knew how well to handle him. When I came to stay with them and I was leaving, my brother didn’t want to let me go. He clung to me so tightly and I couldn’t hold back my tears. I begged my auntie to try and give him a little bit more attention and she said I was a very ungrateful girl for suggesting that. We were orphans and we should be grateful that we had a roof to sleep under.
When I returned to school, I started finding ways to make money to free my siblings in the future. Not all of our aunties and uncles were treating us badly. My mother’s brother was the best.
He was even calling me to ask of me at school and my sister was staying with him. The one who comes directly after me. I didn’t want to create problems for my aunties and uncles. I don’t think they’re bad people per se, but I know how difficult it is to raise your own kids and add that of your late sibling’s child as well.
I started selling clothes on campus to sustain myself because apart from my mother’s brother who was sending me some money for my upkeep at school, I wasn’t receiving it from anywhere else.
In the midst of that hardship, a friend of mine introduced me to a lecturer. What she told me was that the man was very wealthy and apart from him lecturing, he owns a huge farm and has many workers. She told me he could place me on a scholarship because I was struggling to pay my fees. I also had some outstanding resits.
I went to his office one time with my friend and I must admit he was really a good-looking man and all that. But I honestly did not think that his intentions were s*xual. I have previously tried to apply for scholarships but because I failed two papers, my GPA reduced and I didn’t make the cut off so I gave up on that. I thought this lecturer was capable of helping me get a scholarship if I narrated my story to him.
He spoke to me in a professional way when my friend was in the office with me and he told me he runs a scholarship programme for needy students like me. He gave me a different time to come and see him in his office. I went to him again on the day he gave me it.
This time, my friend had a lecture and she couldn’t escort me. When I went, the conversation was totally different. He started telling me about the number of students he pays their fees and the need to understand that life is a give and take.
He said I have something he wants and he has something I want. He gave me his personal contact and told me to call him anytime. Then he got up from his desk and started making advances toward me. He tried to lift my skirt but I had had enough and I got up and left the office. When I got to my room, my roommates were not around and I cried bitterly.
I wasn’t done paying my school fees. I also had to buy some handouts for my courses and pay for a resit. In addition to that, I wasn’t having enough money to sustain myself for the rest of that month even though I was eating once a day. I fought the urge to call the lecturer for three whole weeks.
But when I used all the money I was using to sell clothes to buy some food and the handouts I needed, I realised that I had come to the end of the rope. I felt like I was hanging. I called him with tears in my eyes on Saturday and he wasn’t in the school but he drove to the entrance and picked me up.
To clarify, he wasn’t my lecturer, he was teaching a different course. That day, he took me to an apartment beyond Kasoa and had his way with me. That place was his secret apartment. He only brought his students there.
After that one encounter, he sent a huge sum of money into my bank account. I paid all my expenses within that week and paid the debts I owed my friends. I even sent something to my siblings and I still had some money left with me. The following weekend, the cycle continued.
But this time, I boarded a vehicle from campus and met him halfway. This happened almost every week until I recently told him I was done. I have created separate mutual funds for all my siblings and myself. The returns we are getting are enough to sustain us monthly.
I also rekindled my clothes business. I have rented a shop and I have an employee who sells for me. After I completed University a year ago, I rented a two-bedroom for my siblings and me and we now stay there. I pay their school fees as well. I did all of this with the weekly amounts I was receiving from my sugar daddy. It hasn’t come easily.
The man is a pervert, he can make demands on me and place huge amounts on them. He would tell me to allow him to spit in my mouth for ghc1K. Then he would spank me with a cane for 2k. Other times he would choke me with his thing for 3k and on and on.
If I played the game well, I could leave with 15K every week. I learnt that apart from his farm and lecturing, he was on the board of big institutions and he was enjoying a lot of allowances so giving out such amounts was peanut to him.
I want to be free of him now because I have established myself. I plan on buying a second shop next to my current shop to start selling shoes. I have budgeted for that and everything. I have also bought a plot of land and I am starting a building project soon. Now he said none of his girls ever leaves him. I told him I was done with University now and I wanted my freedom.
He said any girl who leaves him after his investments in her will meet her untimely death. This has really scared me, my friend, who introduced us told me she sleeps with a friend of my lecturer. These old men are in this society.
Not a cult per se, but a friendship society and you’ll have to have s*x with them until they don’t want you anymore or else they will find a way to end your life because you know too much about them. My friend claims these men have ways and means of finding you if you ever try to run. I feel so trapped although I look happy on the outside. I want to advise all girls to never succumb to the pressure of sleeping with sugar daddies for money. It doesn’t end well.
Source: Anonymous Confessions
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I slept with 300 people in a year – detractors call me ‘disgusting,’ but I feel powerful
An Australian lady who claims to have had sex with over 300 individuals in one year described the experience as “empowering.”
Annie Knight, 26, said on “The Kyle and Jackie O Show” that she even slept with five individuals in a single day during the wild, fun-filled year.
“I felt empowered afterwards,” the adoring Australian said. “Sex makes me happy. Its purpose is to make you feel wonderful.”
Knight had sex with both men and women, and she told the radio show that she met many of her sex partners using dating apps. She does, however, have a list of “regulars” on the fast dial for when she feels like getting down and dirty.
“The messier the sex, the better,” she said.
Knight, called “Australia’s most sexually active woman,” went on to state that nothing is off limits when it comes to experimenting in the bedroom, stating, “I’m down to try anything.”
However, not everyone is thrilled by Knight’s open love of sex, with one detractor calling her “disgusting.”
Knight, who maintains an OnlyFans account, was also sacked from her marketing position when her superiors discovered her lewd online behaviour.
The sex fanatic told “The Kyle and Jackie O Show” that her website has plenty of kinky stuff since she performs “pretty much everything” on video.
Knight recently made news after speaking out about being fired from a separate site.
“The last thing I wanted to do was to get fired if someone found my OnlyFans,” she said on “SBS Insight” a few weeks ago.
“There was a list of three reasons why I was fired basically,” Knight explained, adding that she was “very upset and very angry” at her employer’s decision to fire her.
“They said I falsely advised that I had a side business, didn’t ask for permission from the company to run the side business and that I had online pornographic images of myself and crude language that was against company rules,” she went on to say.
When it comes to women, what does a man want? To a significant extent, the solution is and will continue to be a mystery.
But it hasn’t prevented scientists from trying to solve the mystery of human attraction.
On the one hand, each man has his own tastes. Qualities and features that are desirable to one guy may not be appealing to another.
However, research has discovered that many men have one trait: they prefer to believe their initial impressions. And those early moments have a significant influence on their level of attraction to certain women.
Of course, some women are born with the ability to make a terrific first impression with little to no effort, while others must work a little more.
Here are five characteristics that men find particularly appealing in women, according to a study.
Natural-looking makeup, including eye makeup and lipstick
Some males remark that they prefer women who do not wear makeup because they appear more natural. However, according to a Zoosk poll, 139 of 1,200 women who applied eye makeup in their profile photo were more likely to receive responses from males. Men were also more likely to desire to meet a lady if her profile photo included lipstick.
Women who wear “darker” cosmetics, on the other hand, were less likely to be asked out. Even if men claim they prefer women who appear “natural,” this implies you may wear “natural” cosmetics and still attract guys.
Also, fellas, it’s quite OK to remark that your girl looks great with winged eyeliner and red lipstick.
The ideal waist-to-hip ratio
This choice is based on health and fertility rather than appearance.
“Evidence also shows that waist-to-hip ratio is a strong indicator of a woman’s oestrogen levels, risk of obesity, and susceptibility to major diseases such as diabetes, ovarian cancer, and heart disease,” according to the study.
Dressing in red clothes
The colour red represents passion. It’s no surprise that males find it appealing. In a research conducted by psychologists at the University of Rochester, men were given images of various women with framed borders of either red or white and were asked how attractive they thought the ladies were.
They were then given an identical photo with the ladies dressed in either red or blue and asked how much they would spend on a date with that woman. Women who were framed in red or wore red were more likely to be considered seductive and beautiful, and males were more likely to want to spend money on a date.
A kind attitude
A pleasant demeanour always goes a long way. Researchers from the Society for Personality and Social Psychology discovered that a woman’s responsiveness to men’s needs and desires boosted her attraction to males.
A higher-pitched voice
According to studies, women prefer males with deeper voices. For males, the reverse is usually true, since some feel “[higher] voices signal reproductive fitness, femininity, and smaller body size.”
I used to do fraud. Someone introduced it to my buddy, who then introduced it to me. The game has different stages. We were at the bottom of the game’s ladder, so we didn’t make much money, but the risk involved was excellent. Aside from the danger, you must labour every day in order to earn GHC500 every week.
We slept very little because our clients were all over the world, and because of the time difference, we had to stay awake in order to communicate with them. I had a major hit one day. I received GHC7,000 from a bargain and immediately purchased an iPhone for my girlfriend, Cynthia. She was aware that I was involved in fraud, yet she was uninterested. She became interested in the business when I gave her the iPhone and told her how I obtained it.
So when I had a customer who claimed to be a girl, Cynthia was the one who spoke to them. She was the one who set up the video calls. We were still struggling. We halted operations since the money was not flowing as promised.
Life was difficult for two jobless lovers. I couldn’t help her. I couldn’t help myself, so we relied on the generosity of friends who were succeeding in the game.
Ernest, a buddy of mine from Canada, came over one day, and we were all hanging around. Cynthia later informed me, “Your friend likes me.” He was licking his lips and staring at me in some way. Let’s go get some money from him. Tell him I’m not your girlfriend. Allow him to take me so we may obtain money from him.”
Ernest was formerly a player in the game. He went outdoors after getting money. I warned Cynthia Ernest that she might catch the hint, but she was so enthusiastic about collecting money that we gave it a shot. “Don’t let him sleep with you,” was the lone caution. Never.”
She brought me GHC 500 a week later. “He gave me 1,000 GHC.” “That’s your cut,” she explained.
Ernest was hiding the affair because he was afraid I would be upset if I found out he was seeing my sister. He was even concealing it from the team, but we were aware of what was going on.
He was here for a month, and we earned a lot of money.
He was still sending money after he left. Cynthia gave me my portion. I got a job and advised her not to see Ernest anymore. She didn’t give up. It escalated into a brawl, in which I threatened to let the cat out of the bag. “If you try it, you’ll go to jail,” she said. You know I’m familiar with all of your previous transactions. How much money can you offer me to get me to quit seeing Ernest?”
Cynthia is currently in Canada with Ernest, where they are having the time of their life. I tear up when I see their images. When I see these videos on Instagram, I want to kick them in the video.
Ernest finally understands reality. Cynthia, I believe, informed him in a way that she wouldn’t be held responsible, saying something like, “He gave me to you so we could get money from you, but I fell for you because you’re a good person.” That sort of thing.
I must confess, they had the final laugh. Cynthia informed me the last time I spoke with her, “If you stop being bitter, I will send you something small every month.” You don’t have to hate me since I don’t hate you.”
I bowed my head and kicked the bitterness out of my heart because money is money.
That girl is the only honest scammer there is. She maintained her promise. She occasionally sends me money. She’s gradually rebuilding the bridge between me and my old friend Ernest. She duped me, but I can’t really complain. I still have feelings for her but in a different manner. I adore her as someone who looks after me.
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