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My brother-in-law is the most honest and kind person I’ve ever met

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Please post for me, Admin. Men cheating on their wives or doing nasty things to them have become all too common. I’m not sure whether I’m in same Ghana. Every man in my life has been really responsible. I’m not sure if it’s a coincidence. My late younger sister and her husband were childhood friends who began dating at a young age. My father, a former military man, was opposed because he believed they were too young and that they should first attend university. But, in the end, even he gave up. My brother-in-law was really kind and courteous. He was an absolute gentleman. I recall him paying us visits and assisting my mother in the kitchen, and he wasn’t even faking. Our family grew fond of him, so when he and my sister graduated from high school, they married right away. I always think that God knew what was going to happen, so he made sure they started a family before my sister died.

They had been married for eight years and had two children. My sister was diagnosed with breast cancer in the same way. It came as a surprise to all of us because she was the healthiest of us all. She went to church for the usual screening and was urged to go for more tests since the doctor suspected it after inspecting her. Only God knows what she and her spouse went through. At the time, her second kid was just two years old. I witnessed how my brother-in-law struggled to maintain the house in order, especially after my sister became extremely ill. The disease progressed throughout her body, and we were informed she had less than a year to live at one point. That’s when she became really ill, and my brother-in-law took over. I was working in Accra, but as her only sibling, I was required to come to Kumasi on weekends to assist her husband. The man performed admirably.

He took care of the children, cooked, performed housework, fed and cleaned his wife, and still managed to go to work. My father had to come over and stay with them to keep my sister company while her husband was at work and the kids were in school. Our mother had already died at the time. I often relate to this tale because I have never met a guy who loved his wife as much as my brother-in-law loved my sister. We all knew she was going to die, yet this man mourned her for a long time. He, too, refused to marry. He was completely focused on taking care of the children because they were little. I never heard him complain about anything. He did everything with love. We maintained a wonderful connection after my sister’s death, and the kids would go visit my father on weekends until Daddy died. I married later, but every now and then I would check in on my brother-in-law, even urging him to find someone and marry since I knew my sister would have wanted that.

He said he was too preoccupied with parenting the two sons my sister had abandoned, and he didn’t want any lady to come and worry him or the children. My sister passed away 15 years ago in October. Her two boys are now both in college. Her husband and his new love intend to marry in January. He met the woman at church, who is also a widow with her own children. Many people now commend him for being a nice man and parenting his children alone, among other things. However, several of us saw him at difficult times. When the kids were little, and Dad might have abandoned my ailing sister. I learned a lot from how he handled my sister, and it gave me hope that wonderful guys exist. God also blessed me with a nice man in my hubby.

I’ve read every single story on this website, and I can honestly state that bad news sells. I realize that many individuals are happy in their relationships and marriages and don’t see the need in sharing. It is reasonable that folks who have trouble bring it here. I’m also going to share some wonderful news with you so you know there is true love. There are nice men and decent women. Don’t rule out the prospect of meeting someone who will not shatter your heart because I had a decent father. My brothers have never cheated on me. My brother-in-law is a true gentleman, and my husband is also a really wonderful man, therefore I am attempting to train my children accordingly.

Start praying for your future spouse if you’re single. That stuff actually works, and I’m not joking. I know my sister is happy wherever she is. The man she left her children with did an excellent job, and he is now moving on. My brothers and I am overjoyed for him and plan to attend the wedding. I prayed for him, hoping that he would find someone who would make him happy, and God responded. I realize this isn’t your typical love story, but I feel it will have an impact on someone. This is also my way of paying tribute to my sister’s memory and hoping that others may benefit from it. Please distribute, Admin.

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I introduced her to fraud but she scammed me and married my Canadian-based friend

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I introduced her to fraud but she scammed me and married my Canadian-based friend

I used to do fraud. Someone introduced it to my buddy, who then introduced it to me. The game has different stages. We were at the bottom of the game’s ladder, so we didn’t make much money, but the risk involved was excellent. Aside from the danger, you must labour every day in order to earn GHC500 every week.

We slept very little because our clients were all over the world, and because of the time difference, we had to stay awake in order to communicate with them. I had a major hit one day. I received GHC7,000 from a bargain and immediately purchased an iPhone for my girlfriend, Cynthia. She was aware that I was involved in fraud, yet she was uninterested. She became interested in the business when I gave her the iPhone and told her how I obtained it.

So when I had a customer who claimed to be a girl, Cynthia was the one who spoke to them. She was the one who set up the video calls. We were still struggling. We halted operations since the money was not flowing as promised.

Life was difficult for two jobless lovers. I couldn’t help her. I couldn’t help myself, so we relied on the generosity of friends who were succeeding in the game.

Ernest, a buddy of mine from Canada, came over one day, and we were all hanging around. Cynthia later informed me, “Your friend likes me.” He was licking his lips and staring at me in some way. Let’s go get some money from him. Tell him I’m not your girlfriend. Allow him to take me so we may obtain money from him.”

Ernest was formerly a player in the game. He went outdoors after getting money. I warned Cynthia Ernest that she might catch the hint, but she was so enthusiastic about collecting money that we gave it a shot. “Don’t let him sleep with you,” was the lone caution. Never.”

She brought me GHC 500 a week later. “He gave me 1,000 GHC.” “That’s your cut,” she explained.

Ernest was hiding the affair because he was afraid I would be upset if I found out he was seeing my sister. He was even concealing it from the team, but we were aware of what was going on.

He was here for a month, and we earned a lot of money.

He was still sending money after he left. Cynthia gave me my portion. I got a job and advised her not to see Ernest anymore. She didn’t give up. It escalated into a brawl, in which I threatened to let the cat out of the bag. “If you try it, you’ll go to jail,” she said. You know I’m familiar with all of your previous transactions. How much money can you offer me to get me to quit seeing Ernest?”

Cynthia is currently in Canada with Ernest, where they are having the time of their life. I tear up when I see their images. When I see these videos on Instagram, I want to kick them in the video.

Ernest finally understands reality. Cynthia, I believe, informed him in a way that she wouldn’t be held responsible, saying something like, “He gave me to you so we could get money from you, but I fell for you because you’re a good person.” That sort of thing.

I must confess, they had the final laugh. Cynthia informed me the last time I spoke with her, “If you stop being bitter, I will send you something small every month.” You don’t have to hate me since I don’t hate you.”

I bowed my head and kicked the bitterness out of my heart because money is money.

That girl is the only honest scammer there is. She maintained her promise. She occasionally sends me money. She’s gradually rebuilding the bridge between me and my old friend Ernest. She duped me, but I can’t really complain. I still have feelings for her but in a different manner. I adore her as someone who looks after me.

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I adore my husband, but I also love my boss

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I adore my husband, but I also love my boss

My spouse is fantastic. He’s a wonderful father to our children, and I adore him.

Everything went well till I saw my Boss for the first time lately. I had just recently begun working at my new workplace, therefore, I had never met the Boss in person. He was smitten with me from the moment he saw me. He knows I’m married and is fine with it.

He treats me like a lady and pays all of my bills. He pays for stuff I don’t even realise I need. I enjoy spending time with him. He makes me feel incredibly protected, and with him, the world may disappear for all I care.

He is not married and, in his own words, is eager to “be here” for me.

We are yet to have shuperu, but he kissed me last night before we split ways, and I’ve been craving his kiss all day. Not only have I been thinking about his kiss, but also about what it would be like to lay in bed with him and yield to his wishes.

I tell him how much it pains me to do this to my husband, and he says, “Don’t worry. Everything will be well. He can’t be harmed by what he doesn’t know.”

He has a knack of getting under my skin emotionally. Only my husband has been able to reach me in the same manner that my employer has, and it makes me want to keep him—keep him and keep my husband.

My spouse just refers to him as my Boss. If he finds out, he would undoubtedly break down and break up with me, therefore I’ve learnt not to leave any evidence. I’m in a state of confusion right now. Confused because my husband needs to hurt me or treat me horribly in order for me to fall in love with someone else, but in this situation, everything is perfect between us, but I still long for someone new.

I desperately need my job, therefore I don’t want to offend my employer. This is the only job I’ve ever had that pays above and above my expectations. I simply cannot afford to lose it. Aside from that, I want my employer and I need my husband. I wish there was a way for the two to coexist.

The gravity of the situation is that, since meeting my employer, shuperu with my spouse has become a responsibility for me. I make myself available to him, but I don’t feel anything. It’s similar to the fable of the brook and the stone. What effect may the stream have on the stone? Nothing. He’s doing it, and I’m thinking about my employer. I am aware that I require assistance.

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Woman sues boyfriend for abandoning her after funding his extravagant lifestyle

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Woman sues boyfriend for abandoning her after funding his extravagant lifestyle

A heartbroken lady has hauled her lover, Hassan Umar, to a Kano magistrates’ court for having dumped her after spending N900,000 on him.

In court, the woman’s counsel said that the defendant claimed he was in love with his client and that they had agreed to marry.

However, after spending the money on him, Umar abandoned her and stopped seeing her.

The defendant, on the other hand, pled not guilty to the accusations, explaining that it was merely a relationship that did not survive the test of time.

Following the reading of the charges, the Magistrate requested that both sides produce their witnesses for the next postponed session.

Addressing journalists after the court sitting, the woman said:

“I doubt he didn’t charm me. Whatever he asked me I did it instantly. I cooked different types of food for him, including chicken, meat, and even two rams.

“I spent over N900,000 on him. But from there, he started showing me as if he didn’t care. Later he stopped coming to me.”

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