Please post for me, Admin. Men cheating on their wives or doing nasty things to them have become all too common. I’m not sure whether I’m in same Ghana. Every man in my life has been really responsible. I’m not sure if it’s a coincidence. My late younger sister and her husband were childhood friends who began dating at a young age. My father, a former military man, was opposed because he believed they were too young and that they should first attend university. But, in the end, even he gave up. My brother-in-law was really kind and courteous. He was an absolute gentleman. I recall him paying us visits and assisting my mother in the kitchen, and he wasn’t even faking. Our family grew fond of him, so when he and my sister graduated from high school, they married right away. I always think that God knew what was going to happen, so he made sure they started a family before my sister died.
They had been married for eight years and had two children. My sister was diagnosed with breast cancer in the same way. It came as a surprise to all of us because she was the healthiest of us all. She went to church for the usual screening and was urged to go for more tests since the doctor suspected it after inspecting her. Only God knows what she and her spouse went through. At the time, her second kid was just two years old. I witnessed how my brother-in-law struggled to maintain the house in order, especially after my sister became extremely ill. The disease progressed throughout her body, and we were informed she had less than a year to live at one point. That’s when she became really ill, and my brother-in-law took over. I was working in Accra, but as her only sibling, I was required to come to Kumasi on weekends to assist her husband. The man performed admirably.
He took care of the children, cooked, performed housework, fed and cleaned his wife, and still managed to go to work. My father had to come over and stay with them to keep my sister company while her husband was at work and the kids were in school. Our mother had already died at the time. I often relate to this tale because I have never met a guy who loved his wife as much as my brother-in-law loved my sister. We all knew she was going to die, yet this man mourned her for a long time. He, too, refused to marry. He was completely focused on taking care of the children because they were little. I never heard him complain about anything. He did everything with love. We maintained a wonderful connection after my sister’s death, and the kids would go visit my father on weekends until Daddy died. I married later, but every now and then I would check in on my brother-in-law, even urging him to find someone and marry since I knew my sister would have wanted that.
He said he was too preoccupied with parenting the two sons my sister had abandoned, and he didn’t want any lady to come and worry him or the children. My sister passed away 15 years ago in October. Her two boys are now both in college. Her husband and his new love intend to marry in January. He met the woman at church, who is also a widow with her own children. Many people now commend him for being a nice man and parenting his children alone, among other things. However, several of us saw him at difficult times. When the kids were little, and Dad might have abandoned my ailing sister. I learned a lot from how he handled my sister, and it gave me hope that wonderful guys exist. God also blessed me with a nice man in my hubby.
I’ve read every single story on this website, and I can honestly state that bad news sells. I realize that many individuals are happy in their relationships and marriages and don’t see the need in sharing. It is reasonable that folks who have trouble bring it here. I’m also going to share some wonderful news with you so you know there is true love. There are nice men and decent women. Don’t rule out the prospect of meeting someone who will not shatter your heart because I had a decent father. My brothers have never cheated on me. My brother-in-law is a true gentleman, and my husband is also a really wonderful man, therefore I am attempting to train my children accordingly.
Start praying for your future spouse if you’re single. That stuff actually works, and I’m not joking. I know my sister is happy wherever she is. The man she left her children with did an excellent job, and he is now moving on. My brothers and I am overjoyed for him and plan to attend the wedding. I prayed for him, hoping that he would find someone who would make him happy, and God responded. I realize this isn’t your typical love story, but I feel it will have an impact on someone. This is also my way of paying tribute to my sister’s memory and hoping that others may benefit from it. Please distribute, Admin.
Source: Anonymous Confessions
May she find eternal rest❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹