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My roommate’s girlfriend says she loves me and wants to break up with him and date me
I and one other guy got jobs in this area. We met for the first time at the interview with other people, and we later found out we were the only two who got in. The place is far from my house, but I am very happy that I’ve gotten a stable job to do after four years of searching. The guy was also perching with a friend, so when I told him about my idea of renting around the workplace, he said we should split the cost and rent together.
The first year, we got a spacious single room s/c and we were cool. Along the line, I got a girl, and I needed privacy with her. She was visiting but there was no privacy because my guy is an indoor person and he wasn’t stepping out.
I spoke to the agent who helped us get the single room and that if he gets two bedrooms self-contained in the area, he should let me know. It was around the time our one-year rent was coming to an end. The agent got a place for us and the price was just a little higher. I spoke to my roomie and he agreed so we paid and moved there.
Within a few months, the guy started bringing different women into his room. It was even funny for me cos this guy is not that type but the moment he got his own room, he started showing his true colours. We now had our own rooms side by side and the truth is sometimes, I could hear his intimacy with the girls in the next room. My girl was coming around for fun, but she wasn’t sleeping over. Her parents are the strict type and they ask questions so she couldn’t sleep over my side.
Then this particular girl started coming around. Roomie said he was serious about her and he wasn’t going to play around with her. True to his word, she became the only girl I was seeing around. I will wake up in the morning and she will be in the kitchen cooking something for all of us to eat. The kitchen is shared, but we both have washrooms inside our rooms. She was really a nice girl. Seeing her early in the morning in her short nightgown was a bit hard for me.
I told my roommate about it and he said he’ll tell her to wear something to cover herself before stepping out of his room but honestly she didn’t change. This girl stopped going home and she was staying with us full-time. I asked my roomie about her family and work and all that. Looks like she doesn’t have anything better to do. She was selling women’s dresses online but nothing better was coming out of it so she has stopped and now my roomie takes care of her.
Her family is also not in Accra so she is alone here. Along the line, my girlfriend started doing long and we broke up. She couldn’t come over, she was making excuses all the time and billing me too so chale I just ended things with her. My roomie and his girl were also doing the thing all the time. The tatata sound was too much. The girl too moans and I started m*sturbating to them having s*x in the night. Especially the way the girl will be moaning. I saw that I started having feelings for her and the revealing things she wears in the house were driving me crazy.
I’m a morning person. I even wake up early on Saturdays when there’s no work to do. But roomie is the opposite of that. When we got the job, I was the one waking up to call him for work. These days, his girl does it. She also wakes up early like me.
Chale one Saturday, I woke up early as usual, around 5am and I met her in the hallway. It looked like we both have been fighting our feelings. We got close and almost kissed. Later I texted her and begged her to try and keep a little distance. My roomie and I have become like brothers and I don’t want to create any problems. I think texting her was the wrong thing to do.
We have our contacts but we barely text on WhatsApp cos we always see each other. But after I whatsapped her about what we almost did, she will be in her boyfriend’s room and be texting me. We started s*xting and exchanging nudes. This went on for months. As I said roomie doesn’t step out a lot so even though I was burning to knack the girl, he was always around so we couldn’t do anything except text.
But the chance came. His mum got sick and he got permission from work to leave for a few days. His mum was in the Assin area and he left Accra. The plan was to return within a week. He left the girl some money and we went to see him off. The spirit is willing to fight this temptation, but the flesh is weak. Since that day, we have been having s*x like animals. We know it’s wrong but we can’t stop it. She has a very high s*x drive and to find a girl like that is just a good feeling. My roomie will return tomorrow. He called today to inform me that his mum is better and it was nothing serious. The girl says she loves me and she wants to break up with him and date me.
I cannot live with that. He was away for 5 days and I had her many times but relationship is different and I don’t think I want to be in a relationship with her. If the girl leaves him and comes to me, it will destroy the great friendship we have built for almost two years. I’m not the type who has a friend I can call a brother. I don’t have a biological brother and this guy has become like my brother.
He has been nothing but good to me. I regret knacking his girl and I just don’t want him to find out. He trusted me so much that even when I told him about his girl wearing a nightie around, he didn’t expect that I will eat her because of it. I have done wrong and I just don’t want him to know. How should I handle this girl and make her keep quiet?
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I slept with 300 people in a year – detractors call me ‘disgusting,’ but I feel powerful
An Australian lady who claims to have had sex with over 300 individuals in one year described the experience as “empowering.”
Annie Knight, 26, said on “The Kyle and Jackie O Show” that she even slept with five individuals in a single day during the wild, fun-filled year.
“I felt empowered afterwards,” the adoring Australian said. “Sex makes me happy. Its purpose is to make you feel wonderful.”
Knight had sex with both men and women, and she told the radio show that she met many of her sex partners using dating apps. She does, however, have a list of “regulars” on the fast dial for when she feels like getting down and dirty.
“The messier the sex, the better,” she said.
Knight, called “Australia’s most sexually active woman,” went on to state that nothing is off limits when it comes to experimenting in the bedroom, stating, “I’m down to try anything.”
However, not everyone is thrilled by Knight’s open love of sex, with one detractor calling her “disgusting.”
Knight, who maintains an OnlyFans account, was also sacked from her marketing position when her superiors discovered her lewd online behaviour.
The sex fanatic told “The Kyle and Jackie O Show” that her website has plenty of kinky stuff since she performs “pretty much everything” on video.
Knight recently made news after speaking out about being fired from a separate site.
“The last thing I wanted to do was to get fired if someone found my OnlyFans,” she said on “SBS Insight” a few weeks ago.
“There was a list of three reasons why I was fired basically,” Knight explained, adding that she was “very upset and very angry” at her employer’s decision to fire her.
“They said I falsely advised that I had a side business, didn’t ask for permission from the company to run the side business and that I had online pornographic images of myself and crude language that was against company rules,” she went on to say.
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Some unusual qualities men want in a woman
When it comes to women, what does a man want? To a significant extent, the solution is and will continue to be a mystery.
But it hasn’t prevented scientists from trying to solve the mystery of human attraction.
On the one hand, each man has his own tastes. Qualities and features that are desirable to one guy may not be appealing to another.
However, research has discovered that many men have one trait: they prefer to believe their initial impressions. And those early moments have a significant influence on their level of attraction to certain women.
Of course, some women are born with the ability to make a terrific first impression with little to no effort, while others must work a little more.
Here are five characteristics that men find particularly appealing in women, according to a study.
Natural-looking makeup, including eye makeup and lipstick
Some males remark that they prefer women who do not wear makeup because they appear more natural. However, according to a Zoosk poll, 139 of 1,200 women who applied eye makeup in their profile photo were more likely to receive responses from males. Men were also more likely to desire to meet a lady if her profile photo included lipstick.
Women who wear “darker” cosmetics, on the other hand, were less likely to be asked out. Even if men claim they prefer women who appear “natural,” this implies you may wear “natural” cosmetics and still attract guys.
Also, fellas, it’s quite OK to remark that your girl looks great with winged eyeliner and red lipstick.
The ideal waist-to-hip ratio
This choice is based on health and fertility rather than appearance.
“Evidence also shows that waist-to-hip ratio is a strong indicator of a woman’s oestrogen levels, risk of obesity, and susceptibility to major diseases such as diabetes, ovarian cancer, and heart disease,” according to the study.
Dressing in red clothes
The colour red represents passion. It’s no surprise that males find it appealing. In a research conducted by psychologists at the University of Rochester, men were given images of various women with framed borders of either red or white and were asked how attractive they thought the ladies were.
They were then given an identical photo with the ladies dressed in either red or blue and asked how much they would spend on a date with that woman. Women who were framed in red or wore red were more likely to be considered seductive and beautiful, and males were more likely to want to spend money on a date.
A kind attitude
A pleasant demeanour always goes a long way. Researchers from the Society for Personality and Social Psychology discovered that a woman’s responsiveness to men’s needs and desires boosted her attraction to males.
A higher-pitched voice
According to studies, women prefer males with deeper voices. For males, the reverse is usually true, since some feel “[higher] voices signal reproductive fitness, femininity, and smaller body size.”
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I introduced her to fraud but she scammed me and married my Canadian-based friend
I used to do fraud. Someone introduced it to my buddy, who then introduced it to me. The game has different stages. We were at the bottom of the game’s ladder, so we didn’t make much money, but the risk involved was excellent. Aside from the danger, you must labour every day in order to earn GHC500 every week.
We slept very little because our clients were all over the world, and because of the time difference, we had to stay awake in order to communicate with them. I had a major hit one day. I received GHC7,000 from a bargain and immediately purchased an iPhone for my girlfriend, Cynthia. She was aware that I was involved in fraud, yet she was uninterested. She became interested in the business when I gave her the iPhone and told her how I obtained it.
So when I had a customer who claimed to be a girl, Cynthia was the one who spoke to them. She was the one who set up the video calls. We were still struggling. We halted operations since the money was not flowing as promised.
Life was difficult for two jobless lovers. I couldn’t help her. I couldn’t help myself, so we relied on the generosity of friends who were succeeding in the game.
Ernest, a buddy of mine from Canada, came over one day, and we were all hanging around. Cynthia later informed me, “Your friend likes me.” He was licking his lips and staring at me in some way. Let’s go get some money from him. Tell him I’m not your girlfriend. Allow him to take me so we may obtain money from him.”
Ernest was formerly a player in the game. He went outdoors after getting money. I warned Cynthia Ernest that she might catch the hint, but she was so enthusiastic about collecting money that we gave it a shot. “Don’t let him sleep with you,” was the lone caution. Never.”
She brought me GHC 500 a week later. “He gave me 1,000 GHC.” “That’s your cut,” she explained.
Ernest was hiding the affair because he was afraid I would be upset if I found out he was seeing my sister. He was even concealing it from the team, but we were aware of what was going on.
He was here for a month, and we earned a lot of money.
He was still sending money after he left. Cynthia gave me my portion. I got a job and advised her not to see Ernest anymore. She didn’t give up. It escalated into a brawl, in which I threatened to let the cat out of the bag. “If you try it, you’ll go to jail,” she said. You know I’m familiar with all of your previous transactions. How much money can you offer me to get me to quit seeing Ernest?”
Cynthia is currently in Canada with Ernest, where they are having the time of their life. I tear up when I see their images. When I see these videos on Instagram, I want to kick them in the video.
Ernest finally understands reality. Cynthia, I believe, informed him in a way that she wouldn’t be held responsible, saying something like, “He gave me to you so we could get money from you, but I fell for you because you’re a good person.” That sort of thing.
I must confess, they had the final laugh. Cynthia informed me the last time I spoke with her, “If you stop being bitter, I will send you something small every month.” You don’t have to hate me since I don’t hate you.”
I bowed my head and kicked the bitterness out of my heart because money is money.
That girl is the only honest scammer there is. She maintained her promise. She occasionally sends me money. She’s gradually rebuilding the bridge between me and my old friend Ernest. She duped me, but I can’t really complain. I still have feelings for her but in a different manner. I adore her as someone who looks after me.