My wife and best friend are accusing each other of… Who should I trust?

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I am a guy who has been married to a lady for the past three years, and we have a child. I have a simple but complex situation and do not know who to trust at this crucial moment. My company sent me abroad for a four-month training program about three months ago. Before I travelled, I asked my wife to go and stay with her parents until I returned.

The issue now is that my best friend called me on three occasions to tell me something. However, it was difficult for him to say what he wanted to tell me. He gathered the courage to do that. He said my wife was making sexual advances, telling him to sort her out because she needed it, but I was not around. According to her, he is the only one she can trust to do that with because he is my best friend.

When I asked my wife, she told me my friend was the one who was making the advances but did not want to destroy our friendship. That’s why she did not tell me. What is bothering me now is, who is telling me the truth? I am confused. Whom should I believe or trust on this issue because I am confused?