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My wife is now a Korean Character
I’m sharing this story because I think my wife has gone insane! We’ve been married for three years and we have a baby boy. We dated all through school so after we were done, we didn’t see the need to waste time in settling down. My siblings and I are into farming. My wife works as a receptionist in a company. We’re just a young couple trying to build our lives. Every relationship or marriage comes with some friction and misunderstanding. We know that’s normal and part of the journey. But when your wife is so obsessed with fictional characters in the series she has been following to the point of comparing those characters to you, then you know there is a problem.
The funny thing is, my wife wasn’t even following Korean series until a year ago. One of her friends started suggesting the shows to her. It was initially Mexican soap, but that one was even occasional. Last year, ‘her eyes were opened’ the Korean series and since then I have not had any peace of mind. I read about my brother whose pregnant wife was complaining that football is destroying their marriage. I was even laughing when I was reading that story because in my case, my wife has taken over the TV at home. When I come home, I can’t watch what I want to watch. It’s football season too. If I go out to a pub to watch it too, she will say I’m acting irresponsible and ‘………’ will not do that if he was her husband, thus referring to a character in a Korean series.
My wife follows them like it’s a religion and at this point, I feel like I’m competing with the perfection they portray on the screens for her to see. On Saturday mornings, I go and play football and I leave my boots and jersey on the porch for a while because of the sweat. My wife complains that I should stop playing football on Saturdays and I should sit with her so we can both watch Korean series and in her own words ‘learn from the men’. The first time she told me this, I asked her what she meant by I should ‘learn’ from them. It wasn’t even a joke anymore. I asked her if knew these things are all fake and that men are not perfect in real life. She said movies and TV shows are portrayed to help us emulate what they do so we can improve our lives. I get her point in regard to the moral lessons and all that. But I’m not going to copy a character to make her feel good.
The Saturday football became a serious argument between us to the point where she told me she hates it when I come home all sweaty. So now, when I return, I hang the jersey on the drying line far from our door and wash it myself because she has refused to wash them even when she is washing her clothes. Another thing too is that I can cook rice and some basic stews, but I can’t cook soups although I have tried. My wife has been insulting me with that when we argue. She told me I’m ‘useless’ when it comes to house chores and all I know is to go to the farm and work. One time I told her we can cook groundnut soup together and she asked me if I was now coming to learn this at my age. Sometimes I wonder if she is in love with me. When I try to touch her in bed, she’ll say African men don’t make s*x nice at all and this person (referring to a character in a Korean series) knows how to get his girl in the mood.
I have gone as far as asking her what she likes in bed so I do it for her, but she just looks at me and says nothing. We were s*xually active when we were dating and she never complained at that time, so I don’t know what she has seen in the movies that are making her behave like this. I have dated her for years. She really wasn’t like this. No one is perfect and the only issue I had with her when we were dating was that she easily gets disgusted at minor things. For example, when I’m brushing my teeth, she doesn’t come near because she hates to see the site of phlegms and saliva even though we do that in a sink. My own wife waits for me to finish brushing my teeth before she comes to bathe because it’s in the same room and she hates the sound I make when I brush. There are a lot of things that I’m now discovering about her that is so surprising that I’m wondering if we can sustain this marriage till death do us part.
I’m 28 and she’s 26. I’m trying hard to be the man and be patient with her but everyone has a limit and she’s just pushing me to mine. I’m not claiming to be perfect or anything. I have my faults, but the way she even communicates my faults to me is so painful. She once threw my boxer shorts away because she said it smelled and she didn’t want to wash it. My boxer smell is understandable because I wore it to play football in the morning when I hadn’t taken my bath yet. I removed it when I returned from the field before taking my bath. But putting it in the bin because you claim you can’t wash it is too much of an overreaction. If you can’t wash it, tell me so that I can wash my own thing. Are all women this petty and disgusted by us men? Sometimes I just wonder. How can I match up to fictional characters that are perfect? I don’t know what to do to please my wife. She has a problem with everything I do and if I say I will give more examples, I will not finish writing, so let me end here and ask for your advice.
Source: Anonymous confession
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I slept with 300 people in a year – detractors call me ‘disgusting,’ but I feel powerful
An Australian lady who claims to have had sex with over 300 individuals in one year described the experience as “empowering.”
Annie Knight, 26, said on “The Kyle and Jackie O Show” that she even slept with five individuals in a single day during the wild, fun-filled year.
“I felt empowered afterwards,” the adoring Australian said. “Sex makes me happy. Its purpose is to make you feel wonderful.”
Knight had sex with both men and women, and she told the radio show that she met many of her sex partners using dating apps. She does, however, have a list of “regulars” on the fast dial for when she feels like getting down and dirty.
“The messier the sex, the better,” she said.
Knight, called “Australia’s most sexually active woman,” went on to state that nothing is off limits when it comes to experimenting in the bedroom, stating, “I’m down to try anything.”
However, not everyone is thrilled by Knight’s open love of sex, with one detractor calling her “disgusting.”
Knight, who maintains an OnlyFans account, was also sacked from her marketing position when her superiors discovered her lewd online behaviour.
The sex fanatic told “The Kyle and Jackie O Show” that her website has plenty of kinky stuff since she performs “pretty much everything” on video.
Knight recently made news after speaking out about being fired from a separate site.
“The last thing I wanted to do was to get fired if someone found my OnlyFans,” she said on “SBS Insight” a few weeks ago.
“There was a list of three reasons why I was fired basically,” Knight explained, adding that she was “very upset and very angry” at her employer’s decision to fire her.
“They said I falsely advised that I had a side business, didn’t ask for permission from the company to run the side business and that I had online pornographic images of myself and crude language that was against company rules,” she went on to say.
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Some unusual qualities men want in a woman
When it comes to women, what does a man want? To a significant extent, the solution is and will continue to be a mystery.
But it hasn’t prevented scientists from trying to solve the mystery of human attraction.
On the one hand, each man has his own tastes. Qualities and features that are desirable to one guy may not be appealing to another.
However, research has discovered that many men have one trait: they prefer to believe their initial impressions. And those early moments have a significant influence on their level of attraction to certain women.
Of course, some women are born with the ability to make a terrific first impression with little to no effort, while others must work a little more.
Here are five characteristics that men find particularly appealing in women, according to a study.
Natural-looking makeup, including eye makeup and lipstick
Some males remark that they prefer women who do not wear makeup because they appear more natural. However, according to a Zoosk poll, 139 of 1,200 women who applied eye makeup in their profile photo were more likely to receive responses from males. Men were also more likely to desire to meet a lady if her profile photo included lipstick.
Women who wear “darker” cosmetics, on the other hand, were less likely to be asked out. Even if men claim they prefer women who appear “natural,” this implies you may wear “natural” cosmetics and still attract guys.
Also, fellas, it’s quite OK to remark that your girl looks great with winged eyeliner and red lipstick.
The ideal waist-to-hip ratio
This choice is based on health and fertility rather than appearance.
“Evidence also shows that waist-to-hip ratio is a strong indicator of a woman’s oestrogen levels, risk of obesity, and susceptibility to major diseases such as diabetes, ovarian cancer, and heart disease,” according to the study.
Dressing in red clothes
The colour red represents passion. It’s no surprise that males find it appealing. In a research conducted by psychologists at the University of Rochester, men were given images of various women with framed borders of either red or white and were asked how attractive they thought the ladies were.
They were then given an identical photo with the ladies dressed in either red or blue and asked how much they would spend on a date with that woman. Women who were framed in red or wore red were more likely to be considered seductive and beautiful, and males were more likely to want to spend money on a date.
A kind attitude
A pleasant demeanour always goes a long way. Researchers from the Society for Personality and Social Psychology discovered that a woman’s responsiveness to men’s needs and desires boosted her attraction to males.
A higher-pitched voice
According to studies, women prefer males with deeper voices. For males, the reverse is usually true, since some feel “[higher] voices signal reproductive fitness, femininity, and smaller body size.”
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I introduced her to fraud but she scammed me and married my Canadian-based friend
I used to do fraud. Someone introduced it to my buddy, who then introduced it to me. The game has different stages. We were at the bottom of the game’s ladder, so we didn’t make much money, but the risk involved was excellent. Aside from the danger, you must labour every day in order to earn GHC500 every week.
We slept very little because our clients were all over the world, and because of the time difference, we had to stay awake in order to communicate with them. I had a major hit one day. I received GHC7,000 from a bargain and immediately purchased an iPhone for my girlfriend, Cynthia. She was aware that I was involved in fraud, yet she was uninterested. She became interested in the business when I gave her the iPhone and told her how I obtained it.
So when I had a customer who claimed to be a girl, Cynthia was the one who spoke to them. She was the one who set up the video calls. We were still struggling. We halted operations since the money was not flowing as promised.
Life was difficult for two jobless lovers. I couldn’t help her. I couldn’t help myself, so we relied on the generosity of friends who were succeeding in the game.
Ernest, a buddy of mine from Canada, came over one day, and we were all hanging around. Cynthia later informed me, “Your friend likes me.” He was licking his lips and staring at me in some way. Let’s go get some money from him. Tell him I’m not your girlfriend. Allow him to take me so we may obtain money from him.”
Ernest was formerly a player in the game. He went outdoors after getting money. I warned Cynthia Ernest that she might catch the hint, but she was so enthusiastic about collecting money that we gave it a shot. “Don’t let him sleep with you,” was the lone caution. Never.”
She brought me GHC 500 a week later. “He gave me 1,000 GHC.” “That’s your cut,” she explained.
Ernest was hiding the affair because he was afraid I would be upset if I found out he was seeing my sister. He was even concealing it from the team, but we were aware of what was going on.
He was here for a month, and we earned a lot of money.
He was still sending money after he left. Cynthia gave me my portion. I got a job and advised her not to see Ernest anymore. She didn’t give up. It escalated into a brawl, in which I threatened to let the cat out of the bag. “If you try it, you’ll go to jail,” she said. You know I’m familiar with all of your previous transactions. How much money can you offer me to get me to quit seeing Ernest?”
Cynthia is currently in Canada with Ernest, where they are having the time of their life. I tear up when I see their images. When I see these videos on Instagram, I want to kick them in the video.
Ernest finally understands reality. Cynthia, I believe, informed him in a way that she wouldn’t be held responsible, saying something like, “He gave me to you so we could get money from you, but I fell for you because you’re a good person.” That sort of thing.
I must confess, they had the final laugh. Cynthia informed me the last time I spoke with her, “If you stop being bitter, I will send you something small every month.” You don’t have to hate me since I don’t hate you.”
I bowed my head and kicked the bitterness out of my heart because money is money.
That girl is the only honest scammer there is. She maintained her promise. She occasionally sends me money. She’s gradually rebuilding the bridge between me and my old friend Ernest. She duped me, but I can’t really complain. I still have feelings for her but in a different manner. I adore her as someone who looks after me.