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No man has been able to resist me



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I want to share my story. I want the readers to know that this is not a confession. I don’t regret anything I’ve done. I’m just reflecting on the experiences life gave me. I was only eight years when my uncle sexually abused me. I used to visit them during the weekends. He was married with two sons. He was the first man who ever showed me his nakedness.

The first man to make me touch his joystick and play with it. He showed me how to give him a handj*b and a blowj*b. Before I was ten years old, he opened my eyes to the pleasures of m*sturbation. He was putting his fingers under me and telling me to moan for him. He was a pervert and hearing me moan turned him on.

When I was 11, my father’s elder brother broke my virginity. His actions will later lead to the many promiscuous things I’ve done in my life and the lack of remorse I’ve shown for my actions. I’m a big child. I took after my mother and on her side of the family, they develop early. My breasts developed very early and it made me appear older than my age. When I was around 13, the uncle who abused me had a stroke and died, but all he taught me stayed with me and his death didn’t hurt me at all. I didn’t care about him, I didn’t cry. I didn’t feel anything at all, it was just numbness. After he was buried, I started to see the side effects of what he had done to me. I was always s*xually aroused and I started living a very wild and promiscuous life.

I started creating problems between guys. I will be dating this guy and then seducing his friend and sleeping with him. There was this particular guy I met when I went to visit my female friend. He was like an area boy and he came around to talk to my friend. We exchanged glances when he saw me and then I intentionally stepped out so that I can meet him when he is going. That same day he took me to his house and gave me a good f*ck in his room. His parents were home, but he couldn’t resist me. No man has ever been able to resist me and no man ever will. This guy and I started dating. He thought we were dating, but he was the only one in the relationship because as he was with me, I was busy having fun with other guys. Some were area boys and others were schoolmates.

I was going to visit my so-called boyfriend so his parents somehow knew me. I started seeing how his dad was looking at me so I kept wearing things that will make him keep looking at me. Yes, in the end, he had his way with me and paid me to keep quiet about it. Later it didn’t work out with me and his son and we ended it, but up till now, he doesn’t know I had s*x with his dad more than twice. After SHS, I had some papers to rewrite and so my dad got a remedial school for me to enrol.

I had s*x with four of the male remedial teachers. Three out of the four of them were married and I didn’t care. I was just addicted to the thing and being able to see men, especially the older ones chase me for s*x felt really good. My father’s agemates begging me to come over for just one round and promising to give me more money than they previously did make me feel even more powerful, so I kept going.

When I was writing Novdec, there was this particular nice inviligator I was eyeing. The guy was looking at me and I was doing the same. I will intentionally call him that I needed something and I will open my thighs or lower myself for him to see my breasts well. At first, he looked serious and I thought he won’t fall for it. After the paper, I saw him again. He asked my name and asked me what I was trying to do in the exam hall. I told him nothing. He took my number and we started chatting. Some weeks later, he invited me over to his place and gave it to me well. That guy looks very innocent but he is something else in bed. He also wanted to date me, but I don’t date men. I just can’t date. I know it won’t work. I wrote novdec four times and still didn’t pass my maths so my parents got tired of paying for remedial school fees and got me into a fashion school to learn fashion design.

I stopped going to school and I got a boutique sales girl work. As for the men they were coming to me so easily. They were always hungry for it and I give it to them. I stopped that job too and now I don’t really do any serious work. The men I sleep with finance my life and I’m good. Anytime I’m broke, I just dress nicely and step out, I will meet a man to take care of me. It’s so automatic. Maybe I just want to share this for parents to protect their kids, especially the females. I know for a fact that my uncle has made me a s*x addict and I don’t need religious people to tell me about praying because I’ve done that and nothing has changed. As for me, my life is already messed up, but maybe I can warn parents out there that they shouldn’t trust any man around their children. I was only 8 when my uncle destroyed my innocence and now, I’m scarred forever.

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How to start a new relationship: 6 tips to make it work this year



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Starting a new relationship can be quite tricky yet exciting at the same time.

You will be excited at the prospect of someone loving you and caring for you, taking time for you.

The start of a relationship might probably be the best time of your life as you are starting a new relationship. However, as excited as you might be, it is crucial to know what to do in a new relationship and what not to do in a new relationship.

How to make it work

If you understand the dos and don’ts of new relationships, it will be easier for you to move forward and form a healthy relationship with your partner.

It would help if you respected each other’s independence and choices. Although it is alright to keep in touch, be aware of each other’s whereabouts, and communicate, continuously pinging each other can also suffocate at times.

It is just that how to start a relationship can be quite complicated and tricky and requires lots of effort. Once you get used to it and know about your partner, it is easier to form a healthy relationship.

Dos and don’ts for a new relationship can help you stop second-guessing yourself. It gives you a vague blueprint about what needs to be done, and it can enhance your bond further.

  • Have realistic expectations

For a relationship to work, it is essential to be emotionally and mentally strong. You also have to be compromising and understanding. It’s not necessary that what you want in a relationship is the same as what your partner wants. So, be realistic about situations.

You can both have different thoughts and opinions, like how often you should text in a new relationship. While one person could enjoy the attention, the other appreciates space. So, it is crucial to find a middle ground.

  • Show love and affection to your partner

You might have made a new boyfriend. And now you must be thinking about starting a new relationship with a man you’ve just developed feelings for. 

You must first remember to show love and affection to your partner to strengthen the bond between you both. You must give attention and time to your partner and make eye contact with him.

  • Don’t start talking about the future prematurely

When you start a new relationship, bombarding your partner with questions and plans for the future is not how relationships work. There is a big chance that you can put your partner off.

Every relationship requires time, and you cannot imagine your boyfriend being head over heels from day one. 

You should remember that you are new to this and just starting a relationship. It is okay to be on cloud nine. However, if the question, “How to have a good relationship?” lingers in your mind, you must know that it’s all about taking things slow, one thing at a time. 

  • Don’t mention fears prematurely

At the beginning of a relationship, you and your partner are still getting comfortable with each other. Therefore, one of the crucial new relationship dos and don’ts include not mentioning your fears prematurely. 

Allow your partner the chance to discover your fears and limitations gradually. Mentioning things at the get-go can make them feel intimidated and overwhelmed. 

You can mention your fears when they become relevant to the equation you share with them. 

  • Enjoy moments

One of the big dos and don’ts in a new relationship is enjoying the present moment. 

Don’t let your past experiences and concerns about the future take away the sheen of the exciting present you are sharing with your partner. 

The best part of a new relationship is often the excitement and fun that you can have with someone. The chemistry between you two should be your focus, not the stress and anxiety about the past and present. 

  • Communicate effectively

Entering a new relationship can seem daunting as it often involves opening up to someone and sharing your life with them. However, this can be a cakewalk if you let clear communication guide you through this process. 

Treat effective communication as one of the most important dos and don’ts in a new relationship. It can make or break a relationship depending on whether you do it honestly, respectfully and openly.

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5 healthy boundaries every relationship needs this season



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Every relationship needs healthy boundaries.

Topics such as the boundaries you wish to have can save you from heartbreak down the road.

These are simple dos and donts that you expect your partner to abide by. They could be as simple as how you expect them to communicate to whether or not your relationship is exclusive.

Setting boundaries can determine the success or failure of your relationship.

Even as you enjoy the butterflies that materialize in your stomach at the sight of your new partner, consider talking about the following:

  • Communication style

This is very important information to give your partner. Tell them whether you like them to call or text, how often you need to hear from them, which pet names you like and which you don’t, etc. This will ensure that nobody gets offended when their communication preferences aren’t met.

In the same vein, talk about if and how you will address your relationship on social media. Some people are comfortable bearing it all online while others would like to keep it off social media.

  • What to do during conflict

Disagreements are inevitable and so, you need to know whether your partner needs time alone when they’re angry or they prefer to hash out your disagreement there and then. Communicate this clearly, preferably before you have your first fight, so that you know what is expected of you.

  • The type of commitment you want

To avoid any misunderstandings, clearly state what you expect as far as your relationship is concerned. Will you be exclusive or would you like an open relationship?

As you talk about commitment remember that you can’t change your partner. Even if you’ve clicked and you want different things from the relationship, it won’t end well. Be strong enough to let go if your expectations as far as commitment is concerned.

  • Intimacy

It’s very important to set sexual boundaries. Tell your partner what you like and don’t like in the bedroom, how often you’re comfortable having sex, what level of intimacy you like on a first date or in public and when you’re alone, etc. Do you mind holding hands while you’re out and about? Are you a chronic hugger?

A partner who won’t respect these boundaries or tries to coerce you to break them even when you try to remain adamant risks becoming abusive. This is a relationship red flag and you need to run.

  • Personal space

Tell your partner when you need personal space and what you require from them during this time. Do you need a few minutes alone when you wake up in the morning or do you like some quiet time when you come in from work?

Here’s just one of the examples on boundaries you should set early on in your relationship. Don’t be afraid to speak up if you feel your partner is crossing your boundaries and making you uncomfortable. And remember, some boundaries can be negotiated such that you’re both happy and on the same page.

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4 best tips to avoid getting pregnant during s*x



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There are many ways to avoid pregnancy if you are having active sex.

Sperm can live inside your uterus for up to 5 days after having sex, and pregnancy can only occur if there is sperm in your uterus or fallopian tubes when you ovulate.

You have many tools to prevent pregnancy. Birth control options are plentiful, but some work better than others. The key is to make sure you’re using them the right way.

Here’s what you can do:

  • You’re on birth control

Hormonal birth control methods such as the pill, patch, ring, implant, shot, or IUD significantly decrease your chances of getting pregnant, but they don’t eliminate your chances.

These experts say methods work in various ways. For example, IUDs block sperm from reaching the egg, while the pill, ring, and patch prevent ovulation.

  • You’re on your period

While it’s not impossible to get pregnant while on your period, your chances are pretty slim. 

Your lowest chance of getting pregnant while on your period is during the first day of bleeding. But the chances increase with each passing day as you get closer to your ovulation window. If your typical menstrual cycle is close to the average 28- to 30-day cycle, then the likelihood of getting pregnant while on your period is low. But if your cycle is shorter, your chances of getting pregnant while on your period go up.

  • You use the ‘pull-out’ method

The pull-out method may be the world’s oldest form of birth control.

The pull-out method, also known as withdrawal, involves pulling the penis out of the vagina before ejaculation.

While some studies have found that withdrawal can be as high as 96% effective with perfect use, it isn’t easy to maintain perfect use with this method. 

  • You use a condom

When using a condom to avoid pregnancy (or sexually transmitted infections, for that matter), it’s vital to use it correctly. Correct usage means the condom is rolled onto the penis (or inserted into the vagina in the case of internal or female condoms) before there’s any contact between genitals and skin. 

According to research, the chance of getting pregnant with male condoms is about 18%, and with female condoms, it’s 21%. With perfect condom use every single time, those odds decrease to 2%.

Some nursing parents use the lactational amenorrhea method (LAM) or “breastfeeding method” to prevent pregnancy after giving birth. LAM as a form of birth control relies on the temporary pause in ovulation that often accompanies breastfeeding in the first several months postpartum.

While breastfeeding, the hormone estrogen, which is responsible for getting your period each month, is suppressed experts say, hence, preventing pregnancy.

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