I’ve never encountered a woman like her before. When you shift positions during intimacy, he or she becomes apprehensive and loses interest. If a year and a half of dating and being physically intimate once a week doesn’t alter her, I’m at a loss about what to do. She is solely interested in missionaries. She won’t get wet if I’m not on top of her. Not only that, but I have to be gazing at her the entire time or she won’t be wet enough for us to enjoy the deed. When we first started dating and I found out about this, I assumed she would snap out of it and try new things, but I was completely incorrect. When I urged her to roll over so I could smack her from the back, she burst into tears. She stated that it causes her uneasiness. When a man is doing it behind her and she can’t see his face or how he is reacting throughout the deed. Meanwhile, she has a very large rear and has never permitted me to strike from behind in a doggy posture.
We also can’t do it in the dark or in a poorly lit environment. She’ll lose interest and complain that she can’t see my face well, and she’ll only be turned on when she can see my face while I move up and down on top of her. She’s never changed things up. In the end, it’s always missionary. It’s becoming tedious for me. I enjoy surprises and new experiences. We should branch out. We’re not frail elderly people who can’t move. We’re both in our mid-20s, so I’m not sure why she’s acting this way. I’ve sat down with her and attempted to talk to her, but she never opens up to me. According to her, this is why her ex left her, and if I can’t accept her for who she is, I should leave her for someone who would.
To be honest, she is the ideal girl for me. She is just my type, and her cuisine is excellent. My only issue is with the bedroom. She refuses to explain why, but I assume something occurred to her in the past to cause her to act this way. I’m not sure what that is precisely, but that’s how I feel. Has anyone else have a similar experience? A lady who only wants to be eaten one way? Is it psychological? Is it a result of previous abuse or trauma? I truly need some help with this. I feel like I’m working so hard to keep the connection going.
