Young women who work for older male bosses frequently play the victim. Some of my male counterparts are guilty and use the system to sleep with these young girls, but there are other guys who respect themselves and these young ladies harass them until some of them give in. I have a really dear buddy who was going through a similar situation. A young girl who came to intern at his business sought to get him in bed for a long time; eventually, my friend couldn’t contain himself after the young lady made repeated advances. She even brought out her breasts for my friend to see at his office. He was ultimately unable to resist the temptation. He slept with the girl before she finished her internship and had to pay her to keep the affair private.
He confesses it’s one of his greatest regrets in life. This is only one of many examples, so I armed myself and determined never to descend to that level again. I’ve had several opportunities to take advantage of these females. Many of them are really attractive, and it took a lot of effort to say no to a young woman who was eager to offer herself to you. However, this female lately went so far that I had to stop all communication with her. . I could have done worse, but I realised that underneath her desperation was a young girl trying to discover herself, so I didn’t despise her. I won’t go into detail about my job or what we do, but I am the manager of the branch where I work. I have a naturally gregarious and vocal attitude, and as a leader, I make it a point to get to know the individuals that work for me.
I occasionally forget people’s names, but I never forget their faces. Every year, when we get a new batch of NSS people, I make out an hour in my hectic schedule to chat with them and advise them on life skills, work ethics, CV writing, interview blunders, and a variety of other topics. This is something I do on my own, and it differs from the basic orientation we provide for them at our organisation. We had three people who finished their service in July. We generally get 5 or more, but this time there were just three. Two men and one woman So I chatted with them as normal, gave them my personal contact information, and told them they could regard me as a mentor and that my doors were always open. The men were pleasant. They brought their CVs during the term, and I assisted them in revising them for the job market. One of them has found work through me. He showed a lot of promise, so I told a buddy about him, and he got the job. I’m still in contact with the other person, and he’s still looking.
The lady is the issue. I’ve met some bold seductive gals, but she is by far the worst. I hate to say it, but the girl has no shame. Since the day I publicly introduced myself to them, she has been looking for any reason to come visit me. I’m on the fourth story of the building, and I calmly informed her that if she didn’t need to come all the way up, she shouldn’t. I noticed what she was doing right away. Wearing some really tight formal clothing that exposes a lot of cleavages. One of my coworkers approached her about her attire. I instructed my secretary to provide an excuse whenever she needed to see me. Because of this, I hadn’t seen her in weeks. This girl afterwards switched to Whatsapp. Now I want you to see how serious I am about my marriage vows and how much I adore my wife. We’ve been married for 22 years and have kept each other accountable, which has worked for us. When the female began flirting, I showed my wife the texts, and she laughed.
I didn’t even say anything. I enabled the WhatsApp Disappearing option for only her messages, and my blue tick feature was always turned off, so she couldn’t determine whether or not I was reading her messages. She began with praise. She tells me how much she wishes I was her father, how she admires my personality, and how fortunate my wife and children are to have me. She went on to say that she wanted relationship advice, that many males were after her, and that she preferred older men. She once texted me a photo of herself in our company’s restroom out of the blue.
Her cleavage was the main attraction, and she asked me how she looked. I continued to ignore it. She began sending me naked pictures. completely naked. Close-ups of her ladyplace were among them. But it was after she emailed me a 20-minute video of herself m*sturbating that I had had enough. That day, I told my wife that the girl was now sending me naked pictures. This time, she instructed me to call her and speak with her. I summoned her when I arrived at the workplace that day. I was clear and forceful. I insisted on keeping the door open and allowing my secretary to see us. I didn’t want her to do something insane to me or accuse me of rape. But I spoke to her quietly so the secretary wouldn’t hear us.
I told her she reminded me of my daughter. My first child is older than she is. I advised her to concentrate on using the correct ethics to get to the top. I told her a lot, thinking she would pay attention. She didn’t do it. She raced back to my office the next week. My secretary attempted to stop her, and I could hear a commotion outside, so I walked outside and urged the secretary to let her in. When she walked in, she began weeping and telling me about her mother’s failing health and her need for financial aid.
I handed her ghc500, for which she thanked me. I relaxed a little, and she began returning to my office. I didn’t want to be overly critical of her. So I was advising her whenever she came, exactly as a parent would, and I was hoping she took it. She came into my office one Friday, acting strangely and questioning why I was doing this to her. She’s telling me she wants me and that I should stop being shy. I got up from my desk and went to open the door for her to go. I had instructed her numerous times to leave the workplace, but she refused. When I stood up, this chick grabbed my thing and began caressing it. In my rage, I grabbed her and shoved her away. Then I left the office, down my floor, and instructed security to make sure the girl doesn’t climb back into my office. This was the kind of attention I was trying to avoid, and rumours began to circulate that I was dating her.
Many of my coworkers are familiar with me, so the rumours faded quickly. I have friends who work in the NSS secretariat, so I phoned one and requested that the girl be transferred to another location. She had been with us for almost 7 months. She was relocated to another location the next week to complete her NSS there. Her mother personally came to visit me to ask me to allow her daughter to stay in Accra, even if she refused to work with me. Her mother was not ill. Contrary to what she told me about being an illiterate in the village who is quite elderly, she was even youthful and well-mannered. When I told her what her daughter had said about her, she responded it wasn’t the first time.
I chatted with my buddy once again, and they modified her posting once more. It was in Accra, but it was far away from my workplace, so it was OK. I blocked her contact and assumed the relationship was gone. This young lady began to visit my job. At this time, everyone on the team was aware of her demeanour. I could easily have called the cops. I just felt sorry for her, so I allowed my security to prevent her from ever accessing the workplace. She began phoning me from a different phone number. She once phoned me late at night when I was with my wife. I immediately handed the phone to my wife, who calmed her down.
She kept phoning me with numerous phone numbers. I block that number whenever I respond and discover it’s her. I haven’t heard from her in months. After this encounter with this NSS girl, I doubt I’ll offer my contact information to the new ones arriving in November. This generation’s youth are unwilling to go through the procedure. They are willing to sleep with anyone in exchange for favours and shortcuts. I hope we can all learn to do what is right. The adage “you receive what you sow” still holds true. I understand that the system is partial to a fault, yet some individuals are achieving success through hard effort. It’s still a possibility.
