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Should I report my boss for having an extramarital affair with a rude lady in my office?



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We both work in a popular insurance company in Ghana. Mentioning the name will give too much away. She joined the company about 5 years before I did, but she started from the same position I was working at. There were already rumours that she had used the ‘backdoor’ to get to my position because she came in with a first degree whereas I had a Masters degree but had to start from a lower rank before working my way up to where I am.

I have tried to focus on my job the best I can and to avoid company gossip and politics, but some things are so clear that it is very difficult to overlook. It didn’t take this lady a few months in the company for my co-workers to notice her closeness to our immediate boss. It was just too obvious.

Now, let’s call a spade a spade. The lady is very pretty. Fair coloured with a beautiful body and all of that. I know guys run for girls like that. But I at least expect that if there’s something going on, it should be hidden from co-workers. We all have skeletons in our cupboards and no one is perfect. This lady’s attitude in the office is brooding jealousy amongst my other co-workers.

First of all, she has surpassed others who have higher certificates than her. The HR who is a good friend of mine told me she didn’t even submit a letter of application and that it was after she got the job that she submitted one with a previous date indicated to be kept in the records just in case it will be needed in the future. Then when it came to her interview, she wasn’t part of the open interviews conducted for the vacancy she was applying to fill.

There was a particularly resourceful National Service Personnel who had proven he was competent and many of us were vying for him to get the post, but he never did. This lady came out of nowhere and her interview was held separately.

Now, in less than a year of working with us, she has already started shouting orders at workers who are below her. She speaks to the janitors anyhow and carries herself like she is the madam of the place. She has even threatened to sack a co-worker even though she doesn’t have the power to do that. Thankfully for me, we are both in the same rank and she hasn’t been rude to me. But it’s a bit sad to see some of my friends complaining bitterly about how the boss has allowed the newbie to speak to them and treat them

A particular friend of mine has been trying to get promoted for years and there always seemed to be one issue after another. Personally, the work environment has become toxic for me. My boss clearly is not being faithful to his wife and I have been trying to find another job for a couple of months now. But we all know the situation in the country currently and jobs are very scarce.

So in all this, I have been trying to see the bright side. I have a job that pays and I’m okay. My suspicions about the boss and the new lady were confirmed recently. I saw them at a particular pub. I was out with my boyfriend when I spotted them. Her outfit and their closeness was just glaring and I took pictures of them quickly. I know my boss’ wife, and I know work colleagues who can use the pictures to report our branch manager to the district manager. He can be sacked because of that.

Thankfully, apart from my boyfriend who knows about the pictures I have, no one else does. It’s been exactly three weeks since I saw them at the pub and the lady’s attitude towards our other coworkers has become even worse. She speaks to them harshly for not being able to meet deadlines and anytime she does that, I am convinced to just drop the images in our work WhatsApp group and see the events unfold afterwards.

I want readers to know that I don’t hate this lady. Far from that. Her attitude just stinks and it creates a lot of tension in the office. Some coworkers have reported her to the branch manager, the same man I saw her with and as was expected, nothing came out of it. I have the contacts of bosses who are higher in rank than my immediate boss and I don’t know if reporting to them will be too far. Will I be crossing a line?

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I slept with 300 people in a year – detractors call me ‘disgusting,’ but I feel powerful




Knight had sex with both men and women, and she told the radio show that she met many of her sex partners using dating apps. She does, however, have a list of "regulars" on fast dial for when she feels like getting down and dirty.

An Australian lady who claims to have had sex with over 300 individuals in one year described the experience as “empowering.”

Annie Knight, 26, said on “The Kyle and Jackie O Show” that she even slept with five individuals in a single day during the wild, fun-filled year.

“I felt empowered afterwards,” the adoring Australian said. “Sex makes me happy. Its purpose is to make you feel wonderful.”

Knight had sex with both men and women, and she told the radio show that she met many of her sex partners using dating apps. She does, however, have a list of “regulars” on the fast dial for when she feels like getting down and dirty.

“The messier the sex, the better,” she said.

Knight, called “Australia’s most sexually active woman,” went on to state that nothing is off limits when it comes to experimenting in the bedroom, stating, “I’m down to try anything.”

However, not everyone is thrilled by Knight’s open love of sex, with one detractor calling her “disgusting.”

Knight, who maintains an OnlyFans account, was also sacked from her marketing position when her superiors discovered her lewd online behaviour.

The sex fanatic told “The Kyle and Jackie O Show” that her website has plenty of kinky stuff since she performs “pretty much everything” on video.

Knight recently made news after speaking out about being fired from a separate site.

“I feel empowered afterwards,” the adoring Australian stated. “Sex makes me happy. Its purpose is to make you feel wonderful.”Annie Knight via Instagram

“The last thing I wanted to do was to get fired if someone found my OnlyFans,” she said on “SBS Insight” a few weeks ago.

“There was a list of three reasons why I was fired basically,” Knight explained, adding that she was “very upset and very angry” at her employer’s decision to fire her.

“They said I falsely advised that I had a side business, didn’t ask for permission from the company to run the side business and that I had online pornographic images of myself and crude language that was against company rules,” she went on to say.

Knight, called “Australia’s most sexually active woman,” went on to state that nothing is off limits when it comes to experimenting in the bedroom, stating, “I’m down to try anything.”Annie Knight via Instagram
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Some unusual qualities men want in a woman




Of course, some women are born with the ability to make a terrific first impression with little to no effort, while others must work a little more.

When it comes to women, what does a man want? To a significant extent, the solution is and will continue to be a mystery.

But it hasn’t prevented scientists from trying to solve the mystery of human attraction.

On the one hand, each man has his own tastes. Qualities and features that are desirable to one guy may not be appealing to another.

However, research has discovered that many men have one trait: they prefer to believe their initial impressions. And those early moments have a significant influence on their level of attraction to certain women.

Of course, some women are born with the ability to make a terrific first impression with little to no effort, while others must work a little more.

Here are five characteristics that men find particularly appealing in women, according to a study.

Natural-looking makeup, including eye makeup and lipstick

Some males remark that they prefer women who do not wear makeup because they appear more natural. However, according to a Zoosk poll, 139 of 1,200 women who applied eye makeup in their profile photo were more likely to receive responses from males. Men were also more likely to desire to meet a lady if her profile photo included lipstick.

Women who wear “darker” cosmetics, on the other hand, were less likely to be asked out. Even if men claim they prefer women who appear “natural,” this implies you may wear “natural” cosmetics and still attract guys.

Also, fellas, it’s quite OK to remark that your girl looks great with winged eyeliner and red lipstick.

The ideal waist-to-hip ratio

This choice is based on health and fertility rather than appearance.

“Evidence also shows that waist-to-hip ratio is a strong indicator of a woman’s oestrogen levels, risk of obesity, and susceptibility to major diseases such as diabetes, ovarian cancer, and heart disease,” according to the study.

Dressing in red clothes

The colour red represents passion. It’s no surprise that males find it appealing. In a research conducted by psychologists at the University of Rochester, men were given images of various women with framed borders of either red or white and were asked how attractive they thought the ladies were.

They were then given an identical photo with the ladies dressed in either red or blue and asked how much they would spend on a date with that woman. Women who were framed in red or wore red were more likely to be considered seductive and beautiful, and males were more likely to want to spend money on a date.

A kind attitude

A pleasant demeanour always goes a long way. Researchers from the Society for Personality and Social Psychology discovered that a woman’s responsiveness to men’s needs and desires boosted her attraction to males.

A higher-pitched voice

According to studies, women prefer males with deeper voices. For males, the reverse is usually true, since some feel “[higher] voices signal reproductive fitness, femininity, and smaller body size.”

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I introduced her to fraud but she scammed me and married my Canadian-based friend




I introduced her to fraud but she scammed me and married my Canadian-based friend

I used to do fraud. Someone introduced it to my buddy, who then introduced it to me. The game has different stages. We were at the bottom of the game’s ladder, so we didn’t make much money, but the risk involved was excellent. Aside from the danger, you must labour every day in order to earn GHC500 every week.

We slept very little because our clients were all over the world, and because of the time difference, we had to stay awake in order to communicate with them. I had a major hit one day. I received GHC7,000 from a bargain and immediately purchased an iPhone for my girlfriend, Cynthia. She was aware that I was involved in fraud, yet she was uninterested. She became interested in the business when I gave her the iPhone and told her how I obtained it.

So when I had a customer who claimed to be a girl, Cynthia was the one who spoke to them. She was the one who set up the video calls. We were still struggling. We halted operations since the money was not flowing as promised.

Life was difficult for two jobless lovers. I couldn’t help her. I couldn’t help myself, so we relied on the generosity of friends who were succeeding in the game.

Ernest, a buddy of mine from Canada, came over one day, and we were all hanging around. Cynthia later informed me, “Your friend likes me.” He was licking his lips and staring at me in some way. Let’s go get some money from him. Tell him I’m not your girlfriend. Allow him to take me so we may obtain money from him.”

Ernest was formerly a player in the game. He went outdoors after getting money. I warned Cynthia Ernest that she might catch the hint, but she was so enthusiastic about collecting money that we gave it a shot. “Don’t let him sleep with you,” was the lone caution. Never.”

She brought me GHC 500 a week later. “He gave me 1,000 GHC.” “That’s your cut,” she explained.

Ernest was hiding the affair because he was afraid I would be upset if I found out he was seeing my sister. He was even concealing it from the team, but we were aware of what was going on.

He was here for a month, and we earned a lot of money.

He was still sending money after he left. Cynthia gave me my portion. I got a job and advised her not to see Ernest anymore. She didn’t give up. It escalated into a brawl, in which I threatened to let the cat out of the bag. “If you try it, you’ll go to jail,” she said. You know I’m familiar with all of your previous transactions. How much money can you offer me to get me to quit seeing Ernest?”

Cynthia is currently in Canada with Ernest, where they are having the time of their life. I tear up when I see their images. When I see these videos on Instagram, I want to kick them in the video.

Ernest finally understands reality. Cynthia, I believe, informed him in a way that she wouldn’t be held responsible, saying something like, “He gave me to you so we could get money from you, but I fell for you because you’re a good person.” That sort of thing.

I must confess, they had the final laugh. Cynthia informed me the last time I spoke with her, “If you stop being bitter, I will send you something small every month.” You don’t have to hate me since I don’t hate you.”

I bowed my head and kicked the bitterness out of my heart because money is money.

That girl is the only honest scammer there is. She maintained her promise. She occasionally sends me money. She’s gradually rebuilding the bridge between me and my old friend Ernest. She duped me, but I can’t really complain. I still have feelings for her but in a different manner. I adore her as someone who looks after me.

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