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The death of my wife’s best friend has ruined our marriage

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My wife and I have been married for about eight months. She is six months pregnant and this is our first baby. As a man, I am trying for us to do everything right and avoid any recklessness that will put the baby’s life in danger. My wife and I are occasional party people. We have very demanding jobs so we’re busy most of the time, so when we both get the chance to have some fun, we don’t let it go. We are not heavy on the drinking. I’m very particular about that and she knows it. She on the other hand drinks an occasional beer; nothing wrong with that. I don’t expect my wife to be acting the way she is currently acting.

Both of us are in mourning. She is feeling the weight more because her maid of honour during our wedding passed away just last month. The two of them were best friends and she was so young. I understand that a news like that can be difficult to handle especially for women who are naturally more emotional. Her death also came as a shock to me because she was also my friend. The bond she shared with my wife was so deep that they were like sisters, so I also knew her very well. One night, I woke up and realized my wife wasn’t sleeping by me on the bed. I got up and found her in the hall crying on her own. I didn’t know if I should go and confort her or leave her. I stood there for a few minutes and then decided to go and console her for sometime. When I went to her, she said she wanted to be left alone. I insisted I will stay, but she screamed that I should leave her alone, so I went back to bed.

A few days later, she did the same thing. I woke up and she was not next to me. But this time when I went to check on her, I saw her drinking a hard liquor. I went over to her and took the bottle away from her. We don’t keep alcohol in the house so she bought it just across the road. I asked her angrily if she wanted to put the life of our baby in danger. I must admit that I didn’t expect her to be drinking in her condition so I was hard on her and she just kept crying. I left her and went to pour the liquor in the sink then I went back to bed. I should have sat by her or something but I was really tired. I already don’t get enough sleep and I needed some rest before work. The next morning I realized I spoke to her very harshly the previous day so I wanted to apologize to her.

I looked all over the house and she wasn’t there. I called her and her phone was off. This was very unlike her so I started to panic. I called in sick at work and went to her family house where her mum and siblings stay to ask if she was there and nobody had seen her. We started calling her friends to ask if she had visited any of them. At this point I was very worried but thankfully she had gone to sit at the church premises acting quite disoriented. I was able to bring her back home and apologize to her for speaking harshly to her. She has become silent after that incident, but on a normal day, my wife is the talkative between the two of us. I understand that she is mourning so I have given her the space to mourn.

But she has made me more worried now. I came back from work to realize she didn’t go to work on that day. I also saw empty bottles of alcohol on the center table. My pregnant wife was drunk in the couch and she was talking to herself. After that incident, I called her younger sister to come and stay with us for a while until she gives birth. Now my wife and her sister always have arguments at home. She keeps wanting to go out of the house dressed shabbily and her sister stops her. That is the main cause of the arguments. I know my wife very well. We were friends for years before we started dating and the way she is acting is not like her. Her sister suggested we find a psychologist, so we did that. On the day of the appointment, my wife refused to go. She was literally running away from me and her sister and she refused to bath. I can easily bath her and force her into the car, but with the way she was acting, I was worried I could hurt her and the baby in the process of forcing her or she could even hurt herself because of the running. I am trying hard, but I can’t handle this and we have been married for just eight months.

I need some help and advice on how to go about all of this. I feel like I’m losing my mind. I have a lot of financial obligations to meet as a man. I’m also dealing with my own personal problems I can’t share and my wife’s problems and actions is taking a toll on me. I would appreciate some advice and words of encouragement.

source; Anonymous Confession

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I slept with 300 people in a year – detractors call me ‘disgusting,’ but I feel powerful

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Knight had sex with both men and women, and she told the radio show that she met many of her sex partners using dating apps. She does, however, have a list of "regulars" on fast dial for when she feels like getting down and dirty.

An Australian lady who claims to have had sex with over 300 individuals in one year described the experience as “empowering.”

Annie Knight, 26, said on “The Kyle and Jackie O Show” that she even slept with five individuals in a single day during the wild, fun-filled year.

“I felt empowered afterwards,” the adoring Australian said. “Sex makes me happy. Its purpose is to make you feel wonderful.”

Knight had sex with both men and women, and she told the radio show that she met many of her sex partners using dating apps. She does, however, have a list of “regulars” on the fast dial for when she feels like getting down and dirty.

“The messier the sex, the better,” she said.

Knight, called “Australia’s most sexually active woman,” went on to state that nothing is off limits when it comes to experimenting in the bedroom, stating, “I’m down to try anything.”

However, not everyone is thrilled by Knight’s open love of sex, with one detractor calling her “disgusting.”

Knight, who maintains an OnlyFans account, was also sacked from her marketing position when her superiors discovered her lewd online behaviour.

The sex fanatic told “The Kyle and Jackie O Show” that her website has plenty of kinky stuff since she performs “pretty much everything” on video.

Knight recently made news after speaking out about being fired from a separate site.

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“I feel empowered afterwards,” the adoring Australian stated. “Sex makes me happy. Its purpose is to make you feel wonderful.”Annie Knight via Instagram

“The last thing I wanted to do was to get fired if someone found my OnlyFans,” she said on “SBS Insight” a few weeks ago.

“There was a list of three reasons why I was fired basically,” Knight explained, adding that she was “very upset and very angry” at her employer’s decision to fire her.

“They said I falsely advised that I had a side business, didn’t ask for permission from the company to run the side business and that I had online pornographic images of myself and crude language that was against company rules,” she went on to say.

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Knight, called “Australia’s most sexually active woman,” went on to state that nothing is off limits when it comes to experimenting in the bedroom, stating, “I’m down to try anything.”Annie Knight via Instagram
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Some unusual qualities men want in a woman

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Of course, some women are born with the ability to make a terrific first impression with little to no effort, while others must work a little more.

When it comes to women, what does a man want? To a significant extent, the solution is and will continue to be a mystery.

But it hasn’t prevented scientists from trying to solve the mystery of human attraction.

On the one hand, each man has his own tastes. Qualities and features that are desirable to one guy may not be appealing to another.

However, research has discovered that many men have one trait: they prefer to believe their initial impressions. And those early moments have a significant influence on their level of attraction to certain women.

Of course, some women are born with the ability to make a terrific first impression with little to no effort, while others must work a little more.

Here are five characteristics that men find particularly appealing in women, according to a study.

Natural-looking makeup, including eye makeup and lipstick

Some males remark that they prefer women who do not wear makeup because they appear more natural. However, according to a Zoosk poll, 139 of 1,200 women who applied eye makeup in their profile photo were more likely to receive responses from males. Men were also more likely to desire to meet a lady if her profile photo included lipstick.

Women who wear “darker” cosmetics, on the other hand, were less likely to be asked out. Even if men claim they prefer women who appear “natural,” this implies you may wear “natural” cosmetics and still attract guys.

Also, fellas, it’s quite OK to remark that your girl looks great with winged eyeliner and red lipstick.

The ideal waist-to-hip ratio

This choice is based on health and fertility rather than appearance.

“Evidence also shows that waist-to-hip ratio is a strong indicator of a woman’s oestrogen levels, risk of obesity, and susceptibility to major diseases such as diabetes, ovarian cancer, and heart disease,” according to the study.

Dressing in red clothes

The colour red represents passion. It’s no surprise that males find it appealing. In a research conducted by psychologists at the University of Rochester, men were given images of various women with framed borders of either red or white and were asked how attractive they thought the ladies were.

They were then given an identical photo with the ladies dressed in either red or blue and asked how much they would spend on a date with that woman. Women who were framed in red or wore red were more likely to be considered seductive and beautiful, and males were more likely to want to spend money on a date.

A kind attitude

A pleasant demeanour always goes a long way. Researchers from the Society for Personality and Social Psychology discovered that a woman’s responsiveness to men’s needs and desires boosted her attraction to males.

A higher-pitched voice

According to studies, women prefer males with deeper voices. For males, the reverse is usually true, since some feel “[higher] voices signal reproductive fitness, femininity, and smaller body size.”

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I introduced her to fraud but she scammed me and married my Canadian-based friend

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I introduced her to fraud but she scammed me and married my Canadian-based friend

I used to do fraud. Someone introduced it to my buddy, who then introduced it to me. The game has different stages. We were at the bottom of the game’s ladder, so we didn’t make much money, but the risk involved was excellent. Aside from the danger, you must labour every day in order to earn GHC500 every week.

We slept very little because our clients were all over the world, and because of the time difference, we had to stay awake in order to communicate with them. I had a major hit one day. I received GHC7,000 from a bargain and immediately purchased an iPhone for my girlfriend, Cynthia. She was aware that I was involved in fraud, yet she was uninterested. She became interested in the business when I gave her the iPhone and told her how I obtained it.

So when I had a customer who claimed to be a girl, Cynthia was the one who spoke to them. She was the one who set up the video calls. We were still struggling. We halted operations since the money was not flowing as promised.

Life was difficult for two jobless lovers. I couldn’t help her. I couldn’t help myself, so we relied on the generosity of friends who were succeeding in the game.

Ernest, a buddy of mine from Canada, came over one day, and we were all hanging around. Cynthia later informed me, “Your friend likes me.” He was licking his lips and staring at me in some way. Let’s go get some money from him. Tell him I’m not your girlfriend. Allow him to take me so we may obtain money from him.”

Ernest was formerly a player in the game. He went outdoors after getting money. I warned Cynthia Ernest that she might catch the hint, but she was so enthusiastic about collecting money that we gave it a shot. “Don’t let him sleep with you,” was the lone caution. Never.”

She brought me GHC 500 a week later. “He gave me 1,000 GHC.” “That’s your cut,” she explained.

Ernest was hiding the affair because he was afraid I would be upset if I found out he was seeing my sister. He was even concealing it from the team, but we were aware of what was going on.

He was here for a month, and we earned a lot of money.

He was still sending money after he left. Cynthia gave me my portion. I got a job and advised her not to see Ernest anymore. She didn’t give up. It escalated into a brawl, in which I threatened to let the cat out of the bag. “If you try it, you’ll go to jail,” she said. You know I’m familiar with all of your previous transactions. How much money can you offer me to get me to quit seeing Ernest?”

Cynthia is currently in Canada with Ernest, where they are having the time of their life. I tear up when I see their images. When I see these videos on Instagram, I want to kick them in the video.

Ernest finally understands reality. Cynthia, I believe, informed him in a way that she wouldn’t be held responsible, saying something like, “He gave me to you so we could get money from you, but I fell for you because you’re a good person.” That sort of thing.

I must confess, they had the final laugh. Cynthia informed me the last time I spoke with her, “If you stop being bitter, I will send you something small every month.” You don’t have to hate me since I don’t hate you.”

I bowed my head and kicked the bitterness out of my heart because money is money.

That girl is the only honest scammer there is. She maintained her promise. She occasionally sends me money. She’s gradually rebuilding the bridge between me and my old friend Ernest. She duped me, but I can’t really complain. I still have feelings for her but in a different manner. I adore her as someone who looks after me.

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