I am a lady of 23 years old and I am dating two guys, not that I intentionally date them but I was asked to study and marry one of them.
One of them is a Nigerian and I really love him very much but the problem is I feel insecure with him and also I don’t feel free when I am around him, so we sat and talked about it and he said it’s because I don’t know him well and that he is very loving and fun to be with.
So I am beginning to know how fun he could be. But my problem about him is that I feel I am not the only person he is dating because of how he behaves when I am around and not around, first of all he does not answer his calls when I am with him and his excuse is he doesn’t answer calls late at night and when I am not with him he calls me when he is on his way home after work, I sometimes time him to know the time he is at home and will call but he would not answer.
This second guy is a Ghanaian and someone I have known from childhood we are from the same hometown and in fact we live in the same place in our hometown, he is someone I have seen as a brother since childhood till date but accepted to date him recently, he really cares for me, he never lets me lack anything, I feel free whenever I am with him, we play have fun and do stupid things as if we are still children but here lies the case I don’t love him.
Hmmm I feel very sad that I can’t love him and besides he disgusts me a lot whenever he kisses me or even try to have s*x with me and sorry to say he does not even last one minute in bed if he enters at that moment he releases and I can stay with him for a month and he will touch me for two days in that one month.
Now my case is I don’t want to hurt his feelings by quitting with him considering what he has been doing for me , and the other guy too I think if I get married to him I wouldn’t be happy but I love him very much. Please I need your advice.
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