My parents are from the same tribe and they said I cannot marry for any other tribe. Meanwhile the good men I get are all from other tribes. My father has sacked two good men away with how he treats them and speaks to them just because they are from another tribe.
My big sis married from our tribe so she didn’t get any problems with my parents and now it looks like I am the bad child. The annoying thing too is that my sister’s husband has been beating her and my parents just want to treat the issue as a family issue. My sis wants to divorce him but she is scared of our parents.
They are so controlling. They have decided for us all this while and still want to choose the tribe we marry from. Now I have dated this guy for two years and I have hidden it from them. He wants us to start buying things for marriage because he said he wants to marry me next year. I have told him about how my parents are but he said he still wants to meet them and talk to them.
I am scared they will reject him and create problems that will lead to another break up. Please what should I do?
