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What Will Make A Man Hang Around You For Years And Still Not Propose To You?

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“I am telling you, NUPS-G guys are like that. They never propose to a woman they like. They will hang around you until you meet someone. That’s when they tell you how they feel.”

That’s what my friend Afia said to draw laughter from all of us. This statement is an inside joke for my circle of friends. We are all church girls, staunch Presbyterians at that. And if you are wondering what NUPS-G stands for, it means National Union of Presbyterian Students, Ghana. That’s why we know a thing or two about how these boys behave. Let me share my experience with you on the subject.

I was in the university when I met this gentleman at a church program. This guy and I hit it off the moment we met. There was nothing romantic about our initial interactions. He was just nice to talk to. I liked texting him too. Conversations with him were effortless. We talked about literally anything and I always felt at ease around him. A year into our friendship, I took a year off school, to go and pursue a one-year course. Even the distance did not slow down the fast pace of our friendship. We kept in touch the entire time I was away. When I returned to school, our friendship still thrived.

He was a great guy. He was a good Christian, a good listener, a complete gentleman, and a good conversationalist. Name something good and he is it. A year after I resumed school, I completed. A year after I completed school, he also completed school. I lived in Accra while he lived outside Accra but then again, the distance did not interfere with the growth of our friendship. We spent long hours on the phone talking about our lives, our dreams, and the mountains we need to conquer to reach those dreams. I had not met his family but I knew everything about them. I knew which of his siblings was craziest and which of his parents everyone was terrified of. He also hadn’t met my family but he knew every one of them. I’m sure he would be able to recognize them in town because of the number of times he saw their photos.

Sometimes when he came to Accra I met up with him, just to talk. One day I managed to convince him to come to my place. When he arrived my sister was home. A few minutes after she observed our interactions she called me aside, “Are you sure this guy doesn’t like you? The two of you look like a couple.” I responded “I don’t know. I like him but I don’t how he feels about me.” Then she pointed out, “Well, this is how it begins.”

When I went to see him off I asked him; “My sister said you might be interested in me. Is that true?” This guy looked at me and smiled off my question. He didn’t deny or confirm anything. I felt confused about our friendship all of a sudden. I felt that way because I was interested in him and was hoping he was interested in me too. When he didn’t say anything, I was disappointed. I thought we had a special bond, you know?

That awkward conversation did not affect our friendship. He invited me to interesting places and we always enjoyed each other’s company. We even attended weddings of our mutual friends together. Our friendship had gotten to the point where people assumed we were involved with each other. I convinced myself that we were better off as friends. I felt happy with the way we were, until one day he told me he was seeing someone. I was filled with some kind of jealousy that I didn’t know I was capable of experiencing. It didn’t also help matters that he tried to involve me in their relationship. He came to me for advice when they had problems. At some point, I realized that every piece of advice I gave him went against the lady. I didn’t know her but I was very critical of everything she did. That’s not the kind of person I am, and I hated being like that.

One day he came to me for advice again and I told him, “I think you should stop involving me in your relationship problems. I am not sure I give you good advice.” He tried to push the matter further but I wouldn’t say anything more. Eventually, he stopped consulting me for relationship advice. I also met someone and decided to give him a shot. We dated for six months but things didn’t work out. Throughout my relationship, my church boy was still lurking in the shadows. He still got in touch and tried to keep up with everything happening in my life. In the back of my mind, I thought, “Maybe one day he will tell me how he feels if I stick around a little and wait for him.”

When my relationship ended, his relationship was thriving. I didn’t mind because I believed, “If it’s yours, it will come back to you.”

Along the line, I went back to school to pursue my second degree. He called me around that time to tell me his relationship had ended. By that time, I had given up on the possibility of a relationship with him. But he still hang around me but never expressed any romantic interest in me. In my final year, I met someone who swept me off my feet. This man knew what he wanted and he went for it right from the start. He didn’t waste time expressing his interest. I liked him too so I opened up to him. He had everything I wanted in a man; God-fearing, kind, loving, and physically attractive. When I told my church boy about my newfound love, he wasn’t pleased. He tried to discourage me from pursuing a relationship with him. He said, “Are you not concerned about what he does for a living? Men in that line of work are known to be philanderers. Don’t date him, he will hurt you.”

I heard his unsolicited advice through one ear and let it out through the other ear.

I was in love and happy. I wasn’t about to let the church boy ruin it with his fears. Eighteen months into my relationship, my man proposed marriage. Of course, I said yes.

We have been married for four years now and our home is filled with love, laughter, and warmth. Occasionally I would wonder why the church boy never made his move yet tried to stop my relationship from happening. Was he genuinely concerned I would get hurt? Or he only liked the idea of me waiting around and pining after him? It wasn’t that I still nursed feelings for him. I was just curious.

Luckily, I got answers to my questions two years ago.

My husband and I went out on a date when we ran into him. He was there with a date too. We said our hellos and continued with our evening. A few days later, he called me to catch up on life. In the middle of the conversation, he said, “Do you know that I have always liked you? I never said anything because I felt you were out of my league.” I told him, “It doesn’t matter anymore but I’m surprised you thought I was above you. You and I were friends. You knew me in ways no one else did so why would you think of me this way?” He answered, “Yes, I knew you to be smart, beautiful, and God fearing. You were the complete package and it’s not easy for a man to approach you.”

I had longed for him in the past. I had held a torch for him for years, waiting for him to make a move but all that while he couldn’t say a thing because He was intimidated by me. Who does that?

He lost me but I am thankful that I did not listen to him. If I did, I would have missed my epic love with my husband. If I waited around for him, we would have still been going around each other by now. Thank God I moved on from him and met a wonderful man.bAnyway, why are NUPS-G boys like that, huh?

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Things to think about before breaking a Guinness World Record

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Breaking a Guinness World Record is a difficult but rewarding endeavour that demands thorough organisation and execution. Aspiring record-breakers may improve their chances of success and create a memorable experience for themselves and others who witness their amazing exploits by taking into account the criteria described above. Remember that breaking a record is about motivating others to push their boundaries and strive for greatness as well as attaining a personal milestone.

The desire to pursue or break records captivated many people in 2023, with some reaching viral fame while others went disregarded.

However, attempting such exploits needs considerable preparation outside of the spotlight.

Before going on a record-breaking adventure, consider the following factors:

Think About Your Health

The pursuit of a record sometimes necessitates considerable physical and mental effort. Before embarking on such endeavours, it is critical to analyse your existing health situation. Consider the toll it may have on your body, since inconsistent sleep patterns and hard exercise regimens may hurt your health.

Take into account the available resources

Record-breaking attempts have financial ramifications. Determine if you have the means or funding to support your endeavour. Consider the price of a decent automobile, gasoline, maintenance, and other necessary expenses for certain records, such as a drive-a-thon.

Think about what you’ll get out of it

Recognise the motivation behind your ambition to set or break a record. Common motives include recognition, personal fulfilment, and promotional chances for your company. If the prospective rewards coincide with your objectives, it may be a worthwhile endeavour. However, if the endeavour does not provide real rewards, you should reassess your commitment.

Take a look at the rules and regulations

Each record category frequently comes with a set of regulations and guidelines established by organisations such as Guinness World Records. Learn about these rules and restrictions. Check that you can follow the regulations, as failing to do so may result in disqualification. Wasting time and effort on a project that does not fit the requirements yields an unsatisfactory result.

Prepare for a Positive or Negative Outcome

Understand that not every attempt to break a record will result in immediate success or fame. Prepare for the consequences, whether success, failure, or a lack of attention. Consider how the experience, whether you win or lose, may help you with personal development, skill development, or other elements of your life.

Setting off on a voyage to establish or break a record is admirable, but it takes careful planning and deliberation.

You may make an informed selection and boost your chances of a successful and enjoyable record-breaking event by carefully assessing these elements.

Conclusion

Breaking a Guinness World Record is a difficult but rewarding endeavour that demands thorough organisation and execution. Aspiring record-breakers may improve their chances of success and create a memorable experience for themselves and others who witness their amazing exploits by taking into account the criteria described above. Remember that breaking a record is about motivating others to push their boundaries and strive for greatness as well as attaining a personal milestone.

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Consumers of pepper soup enjoy longer lives

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Food containing 3% chilli powder, on the other hand, reduced the longevity of male cohorts by 9%. According to a study of diet and mortality data from four big, multinational studies, ingestion of chilli peppers may lower the relative risk of cardiovascular disease mortality by 26%, according to a previous research by the American Heart Association (2020). Chilli pepper usage was related with a 25% reduction in all-cause mortality and a 23% reduction in cancer mortality when compared to persons who never or only seldom ingested chilli pepper.

Consumers of pepper soup should rejoice. A recent study by Semaniuk et al.(2022) found that eating chilli peppers regularly, whether in soup or other forms, increases life span.

Chilli pepper fruits do contain phenolic compounds that are structurally similar to those that have anti-ageing activities.

Chilli powder given to diet at doses of 0.04%-0.12% significantly increased the median longevity of fruit fly cohorts of both genders by 9% to 13%.

Food containing 3% chilli powder, on the other hand, reduced the longevity of male cohorts by 9%.

According to a study of diet and mortality data from four big, multinational studies, ingestion of chilli peppers may lower the relative risk of cardiovascular disease mortality by 26%, according to previous research by the American Heart Association (2020).

Chilli pepper usage was related to a 25% reduction in all-cause mortality and a 23% reduction in cancer mortality when compared to persons who never or only seldom ingested chilli pepper.

This research piqued my interest in Nigerian pepper soup and Ghanaian light soups with spicy spices. For example, Jiang TA(2019) discovered that frequent consumption of spicy meals was also associated with a decreased risk of mortality from cancer, ischemic heart disease, and respiratory system disorders.

However, the real effect of spices and herbs in health maintenance, especially in preventing the development of chronic, noncommunicable illnesses, is still unknown.

Nigerian pepper soup has a rush of natural flavours and spices that excite your culinary senses and put your hunger right. It is quite adaptable since it can be created using a variety of meaty meats such as turkey, chicken, fish, and even our nutrient-dense offals.

Adegoke et al. (2015) conducted a study to assess customer perceptions of the gastronomic, social, and health characteristics of pepper soup. A systematic questionnaire was utilised to determine the reasons for eating pepper soup, the chosen type of pepper soup, the social setting for pepper soup consumption, beverage accompaniment preferred with pepper soup, and food categories preferred as accompaniment with pepper soup.

It also assessed people’s perceptions of the stated health advantages of pepper soup’s ingredients. According to the poll, respondents ate pepper soup on a weekly and occasional basis for enjoyment (68.3%) and relaxation (55.8%).

90.2, 85.9, 90.2, and 92% of respondents liked catfish, goat meat, chicken, and cow tail as the meaty components in their pepper soup, respectively.

Colour, texture, and flavour preferences were light or dark brown, thick or light, and peppery and spicy. 97% of respondents chose hot pepper soup, while 65.8% preferred warm pepper soup.

Respondents (66.3 and 79%) chose beer and wine with their pepper soup, whereas 75.9 and 90.7% selected non-alcoholic beverages as accompaniments, respectively, carbonated beverages and juices or mineral water.

The majority of respondents (60.5 8.52%) strongly disagreed that pepper soup held the majority of the health advantages associated with herbs, spices, and other pepper soup elements, showing that pepper soup may not be taken for its claimed therapeutic value.

The nutritional value of pepper soup is usually dependent on the components used in its preparation. The spices and condiments utilised have shown to be useful in medicinal treatments.

Pepper soup is a nutrient-dense, nutritious food. The soup is low in calories and fat, and it’s high in protein.

Pepper soup has a lot of vitamins and minerals, including vitamin C, iron, and potassium. Pepper soup is not only nutritious, but it is also tasty and simple to prepare. You may make the soup using chicken, goat meat, or yams. Spice the pepper soup to taste.

An article in the Tribune by Eunice Olaleye(2022) stated that a scientific evaluation by Dr Heben’s team on DrHealthBenefits.com concluded that the soup does assist in managing heart rate.

It also aids in blood pressure regulation, preventing it from becoming dangerously high or low. In other terms, it aids in blood pressure stabilisation.

Because pepper soup is an antioxidant, it also drives away free radicals that might cause cancer (Nwose EU, 2009; Agbor et al., 2019).

Pepper soup might help you recover from a cold or cough. There are various therapeutic benefits that you should be aware of.

The soup is also beneficial in chilly weather, according to the author. Hot and spicy pepper soup is crucial for keeping your body warm. It’s a win-win situation. You enjoy your pepper soup while also warming up your body.

According to youmustgethealthy.com, the elements in pepper soup are what make it healthy. Pepper soup contains unripe plantain, fresh catfish, cow skin, beef, or goat meat, which not only tastes good but also contains anti-oxidants.

Consuming pepper soup is one strategy to maintain proper vitamin intake while being hydrated. Because of the spicy nature, one tends to drink a lot of water.

Key Takeaways

According to the literature, pepper soup with local spices has several health advantages. According to a review of diet and mortality data from four major, multinational studies, intake of peppers or spicy spices may lower the relative risk of cardiovascular disease death by 26%, according to the American Heart Association(2020). Chilli pepper usage was related to a 25% reduction in all-cause mortality and a 23% reduction in cancer mortality when compared to persons who never or only seldom ingested chilli pepper.

With this knowledge, fans of spicy spices may include them in their diets in any way to improve their health.

NB: Prof. Nyarkotey follows stringent source requirements and bases his articles on peer-reviewed studies, academic research institutes, and medical societies. My posts are for educational purposes only and do not constitute medical advice for treatment. My goal is to educate the public about scientific evidence-based Naturopathic Therapies.

The author is a Naturopathic Healthcare Professor, a Medical Journalist, and a scientific writer. Professor40naturopathy@gmail.com is the email address.

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Accra College of Education: History, Programs and Location

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Accra College of Education is a leader in teacher education, educating the next generation of educators who will play a critical role in shaping the minds of Ghana's children. With a commitment to quality, a long history, and a devotion to comprehensive education, the institution continues to have a significant effect on the Accra and beyond education sectors.

Accra College of Education is a notable teacher education college in Ghana, located in the Eastern or Greater Accra zone. Following the Colleges of Education Act of 2012 (Act 847), the college was upgraded to tertiary status, allowing it to issue degrees in Basic Education. The university recently welcomed 321 new students into its academic community, demonstrating the institution’s ongoing involvement in creating the next generation of educators.

The college’s dedication to practical, scientific-based education is seen in projects such as “Experiment Share,” which attempts to improve science instruction through engaging and exciting live experiments.

History and Background

Accra College of Education’s long history and commitment to educational quality have positioned it as a significant role in Ghana’s teacher training and growth. The institution’s programmes and activities, as well as its cutting-edge Teaching and Learning Resource Centre, highlight its continual efforts to improve teacher education quality and foster creative, practice-based learning.

The college’s willingness to adapt to the changing demands of the education sector, emphasis on practical teaching techniques, and excellent leadership under Dr. Samuel Awinkene Atintono, Principal, highlight its importance in the field of teacher education in Ghana.

Accra College of Education continues to play an important role in defining the country’s educational future by providing prospective teachers with the information, skills, and practical experience required to flourish in their careers.

Academic Programs

Accra College of Education is well-known for its wide range of academic programmes for prospective educators. The institution provides a Bachelor of Education (B.Ed.) programme that is aimed to provide students with the information, skills, and pedagogical strategies necessary for effective teaching. The programme frequently includes specialisations in many fields, allowing students to focus on their individual areas of interest.

Furthermore, the institution may offer diploma programmes in education, which would provide an alternate avenue for students seeking a more condensed teacher training programme.

Faculty and Staff

The quality of any educational institution’s faculty and staff is directly related to its success. Accra College of Education is proud of its staff of passionate educators and professionals who are not only specialists in their disciplines but also dedicated to building a supportive learning environment. The faculty frequently engages in research and intellectual endeavours that help to develop education in Ghana.

Campus Facilities

Accra College of Education provides a welcoming learning environment with cutting-edge technology to improve the entire student experience. These may include well-equipped classrooms, scientific and computer laboratories, a library with pertinent materials, and recreational areas where students may relax.

Campus Life

The institution emphasises a comprehensive approach to education, recognising that the college experience goes beyond the classroom. Accra College of Education has a bustling campus life that includes a variety of extracurricular activities, organisations, and events. These programmes allow kids to gain leadership skills, create long-lasting friendships, and participate in community service.

Partnerships and Collaborations

Accra College of Education frequently forms alliances and collaborations with other educational institutions, both nationally and worldwide, in order to keep informed of educational breakthroughs and global best practices. These collaborations may enable student exchange programmes, collaborative research projects, and faculty development opportunities.

Contributions to Education

Accra College of Education has made important contributions to Ghana’s education landscape by generating a cadre of trained and competent teachers who go on to serve in a variety of positions within the education sector. The college’s effect extends beyond its campus, impacting the quality of education in schools and communities across the country.

Conclusion

Accra College of Education is a leader in teacher education, educating the next generation of educators who will play a critical role in shaping the minds of Ghana’s children. With a commitment to quality, a long history, and a devotion to comprehensive education, the institution continues to have a significant effect on Accra and beyond education sectors.

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