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Why did he propose to me and marry me at age 40 knowing he would abandon me at the slightest provocation?

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I went above and beyond for others, and they demonstrated to me that being kind and selfless is a complete waste of time. When I met him, he was in financial difficulty. He couldn’t afford a three-square meal, and to make matters worse, he was caring for his daughter. We became friends, and I respected him for being such a good father to his daughter. When things got tough for him, his mother abandoned him. We don’t hear stories like this very often. Fathers are the most likely to forsake their children. They came to rent a room where I was staying. I never saw myself marrying someone like him. At 40, I had given up on marriage and was living my life as a single woman. The more we talked, the more I liked him. But it was his daughter who brought us together. She adored me and could spend the entire day in my room until her father came looking for her. I liked her right away, and she made me feel like a mother. My friend told me that her company needed a security guard. The salary they were offering was higher than what he was getting at the time, so I encouraged him to go, and he got the job with the help of a friend.

His daughter was with me while he worked the night shift. I was practically her mother. I got her ready for school and drove her there myself. She was five years old at the time. He proposed to me at the end of that year. He said I was a better mother to his daughter than her biological mother. He promised me that even though I was six years older than him, we could make this work. I accepted him because the marriage was convenient for both of us. After we married, he moved out of his single room and into my chamber and hall self-contained. I adored him and performed all of my wifely duties. My salary was more than double his, so I was paying for his daughter’s tuition and utilities. I used to give him daily money because his pay would be late. I cooked with my own money. This was never an issue for me. I adored him and my daughter, and they were members of my family.

We attempted to have children. I miscarried three times in the span of five years. I thought I was pregnant again when I was 45 because I stopped having menstrual periods. When I went to the hospital, I was told I had reached menopause. I was heartbroken. I wanted to have my own children, but fate had other plans. I had to learn to accept it. My husband was supportive, and I didn’t feel childless because her daughter was so close to me and loved me so much. My husband then developed a bad attitude. He was always upset with me. ..you’re always frustrating me in some way. The real issue began when my husband told me that his mother misses him and her granddaughter and that they were going to spend a few weeks with her. It was during the summer vacation. I concurred. Then it became a habit. They were staying at his mother’s house on weekends. I had been single for many years before meeting him, and I was so used to being independent that I may have sensed something was wrong with his behaviour, but I refused to accept it.

I stopped seeing his daughter around 2019. He returned from his mother’s house alone. When I inquired about her, he became agitated and stated that she would be staying with my mother-in-law from now on. I’ll call her on the phone I bought her, and she won’t answer. I later discovered she had blocked me. In the meantime, I had done nothing wrong to her. My husband began sleeping out for a week, sometimes two weeks, without telling me why. When I ask him where he’s been, he gets defensive and yells at me, saying I talk too much. This pattern continued, and my husband did not sleep at home during the lockdown in 2020. His mother died at the end of 2019, and we all went to the funeral. My husband and daughter were supposed to return home after she died. However, my husband has stated that they will remain in their family home. It made no sense to me because it was so far from his workplace and the girl’s school. I said I’d join them, and the response was a firm no.

Short story. During the lockdown, I discovered that my husband had met the mother of his daughter and that they had rekindled their love. He was actually going to see his baby mama the entire time he said he was going to see his mother. My mother-in-law always thought I was too old for her son and was never nice to me, so calling her was difficult. My husband’s baby mama had given birth to a son for him and was now pregnant again. I called my husband’s 15-year-old daughter, and she told me everything. She also told me that I was a good mother to her, but now that she has found her biological mother, she doesn’t want to see me and her mother advised her to stay away from me. My husband couldn’t possibly divorce me. He, on the other hand, packed his belongings and moved in with the mother of his children, so I did what he wanted and divorced him.

My therapist advised me to journal and write about my experience in order to relieve some of the pain. But it hasn’t helped, which is why I’m sharing it here. Every day, I wake up feeling lonely and useless. My brother is the only person I see on occasion. He is the only remaining member of my family. Even so, I don’t want his wife to start complaining about my frequent visits, so I’ve reduced my visits. What makes some people so evil? Why did he propose to me and marry me knowing he would abandon me at the slightest provocation? He duped me and made me fall for him only for him to betray me. Now that I’m 50, I feel like I’ve squandered my life. There is no husband, no child. My old age will be lonely and sad. If this is my reward for having a good heart, I’ve accepted it. I wish them all the best.

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I slept with 300 people in a year – detractors call me ‘disgusting,’ but I feel powerful

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Knight had sex with both men and women, and she told the radio show that she met many of her sex partners using dating apps. She does, however, have a list of "regulars" on fast dial for when she feels like getting down and dirty.

An Australian lady who claims to have had sex with over 300 individuals in one year described the experience as “empowering.”

Annie Knight, 26, said on “The Kyle and Jackie O Show” that she even slept with five individuals in a single day during the wild, fun-filled year.

“I felt empowered afterwards,” the adoring Australian said. “Sex makes me happy. Its purpose is to make you feel wonderful.”

Knight had sex with both men and women, and she told the radio show that she met many of her sex partners using dating apps. She does, however, have a list of “regulars” on the fast dial for when she feels like getting down and dirty.

“The messier the sex, the better,” she said.

Knight, called “Australia’s most sexually active woman,” went on to state that nothing is off limits when it comes to experimenting in the bedroom, stating, “I’m down to try anything.”

However, not everyone is thrilled by Knight’s open love of sex, with one detractor calling her “disgusting.”

Knight, who maintains an OnlyFans account, was also sacked from her marketing position when her superiors discovered her lewd online behaviour.

The sex fanatic told “The Kyle and Jackie O Show” that her website has plenty of kinky stuff since she performs “pretty much everything” on video.

Knight recently made news after speaking out about being fired from a separate site.

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“I feel empowered afterwards,” the adoring Australian stated. “Sex makes me happy. Its purpose is to make you feel wonderful.”Annie Knight via Instagram

“The last thing I wanted to do was to get fired if someone found my OnlyFans,” she said on “SBS Insight” a few weeks ago.

“There was a list of three reasons why I was fired basically,” Knight explained, adding that she was “very upset and very angry” at her employer’s decision to fire her.

“They said I falsely advised that I had a side business, didn’t ask for permission from the company to run the side business and that I had online pornographic images of myself and crude language that was against company rules,” she went on to say.

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Knight, called “Australia’s most sexually active woman,” went on to state that nothing is off limits when it comes to experimenting in the bedroom, stating, “I’m down to try anything.”Annie Knight via Instagram
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Some unusual qualities men want in a woman

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Of course, some women are born with the ability to make a terrific first impression with little to no effort, while others must work a little more.

When it comes to women, what does a man want? To a significant extent, the solution is and will continue to be a mystery.

But it hasn’t prevented scientists from trying to solve the mystery of human attraction.

On the one hand, each man has his own tastes. Qualities and features that are desirable to one guy may not be appealing to another.

However, research has discovered that many men have one trait: they prefer to believe their initial impressions. And those early moments have a significant influence on their level of attraction to certain women.

Of course, some women are born with the ability to make a terrific first impression with little to no effort, while others must work a little more.

Here are five characteristics that men find particularly appealing in women, according to a study.

Natural-looking makeup, including eye makeup and lipstick

Some males remark that they prefer women who do not wear makeup because they appear more natural. However, according to a Zoosk poll, 139 of 1,200 women who applied eye makeup in their profile photo were more likely to receive responses from males. Men were also more likely to desire to meet a lady if her profile photo included lipstick.

Women who wear “darker” cosmetics, on the other hand, were less likely to be asked out. Even if men claim they prefer women who appear “natural,” this implies you may wear “natural” cosmetics and still attract guys.

Also, fellas, it’s quite OK to remark that your girl looks great with winged eyeliner and red lipstick.

The ideal waist-to-hip ratio

This choice is based on health and fertility rather than appearance.

“Evidence also shows that waist-to-hip ratio is a strong indicator of a woman’s oestrogen levels, risk of obesity, and susceptibility to major diseases such as diabetes, ovarian cancer, and heart disease,” according to the study.

Dressing in red clothes

The colour red represents passion. It’s no surprise that males find it appealing. In a research conducted by psychologists at the University of Rochester, men were given images of various women with framed borders of either red or white and were asked how attractive they thought the ladies were.

They were then given an identical photo with the ladies dressed in either red or blue and asked how much they would spend on a date with that woman. Women who were framed in red or wore red were more likely to be considered seductive and beautiful, and males were more likely to want to spend money on a date.

A kind attitude

A pleasant demeanour always goes a long way. Researchers from the Society for Personality and Social Psychology discovered that a woman’s responsiveness to men’s needs and desires boosted her attraction to males.

A higher-pitched voice

According to studies, women prefer males with deeper voices. For males, the reverse is usually true, since some feel “[higher] voices signal reproductive fitness, femininity, and smaller body size.”

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I introduced her to fraud but she scammed me and married my Canadian-based friend

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I introduced her to fraud but she scammed me and married my Canadian-based friend

I used to do fraud. Someone introduced it to my buddy, who then introduced it to me. The game has different stages. We were at the bottom of the game’s ladder, so we didn’t make much money, but the risk involved was excellent. Aside from the danger, you must labour every day in order to earn GHC500 every week.

We slept very little because our clients were all over the world, and because of the time difference, we had to stay awake in order to communicate with them. I had a major hit one day. I received GHC7,000 from a bargain and immediately purchased an iPhone for my girlfriend, Cynthia. She was aware that I was involved in fraud, yet she was uninterested. She became interested in the business when I gave her the iPhone and told her how I obtained it.

So when I had a customer who claimed to be a girl, Cynthia was the one who spoke to them. She was the one who set up the video calls. We were still struggling. We halted operations since the money was not flowing as promised.

Life was difficult for two jobless lovers. I couldn’t help her. I couldn’t help myself, so we relied on the generosity of friends who were succeeding in the game.

Ernest, a buddy of mine from Canada, came over one day, and we were all hanging around. Cynthia later informed me, “Your friend likes me.” He was licking his lips and staring at me in some way. Let’s go get some money from him. Tell him I’m not your girlfriend. Allow him to take me so we may obtain money from him.”

Ernest was formerly a player in the game. He went outdoors after getting money. I warned Cynthia Ernest that she might catch the hint, but she was so enthusiastic about collecting money that we gave it a shot. “Don’t let him sleep with you,” was the lone caution. Never.”

She brought me GHC 500 a week later. “He gave me 1,000 GHC.” “That’s your cut,” she explained.

Ernest was hiding the affair because he was afraid I would be upset if I found out he was seeing my sister. He was even concealing it from the team, but we were aware of what was going on.

He was here for a month, and we earned a lot of money.

He was still sending money after he left. Cynthia gave me my portion. I got a job and advised her not to see Ernest anymore. She didn’t give up. It escalated into a brawl, in which I threatened to let the cat out of the bag. “If you try it, you’ll go to jail,” she said. You know I’m familiar with all of your previous transactions. How much money can you offer me to get me to quit seeing Ernest?”

Cynthia is currently in Canada with Ernest, where they are having the time of their life. I tear up when I see their images. When I see these videos on Instagram, I want to kick them in the video.

Ernest finally understands reality. Cynthia, I believe, informed him in a way that she wouldn’t be held responsible, saying something like, “He gave me to you so we could get money from you, but I fell for you because you’re a good person.” That sort of thing.

I must confess, they had the final laugh. Cynthia informed me the last time I spoke with her, “If you stop being bitter, I will send you something small every month.” You don’t have to hate me since I don’t hate you.”

I bowed my head and kicked the bitterness out of my heart because money is money.

That girl is the only honest scammer there is. She maintained her promise. She occasionally sends me money. She’s gradually rebuilding the bridge between me and my old friend Ernest. She duped me, but I can’t really complain. I still have feelings for her but in a different manner. I adore her as someone who looks after me.

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