Relationship
5 Ways to Make the First Move on a Girl and Get Her to Like You

You like her and want to know how to make the first move on a female. Simply follow these suggestions, and you will make her – and yourself – extremely happy.
When it comes to learning how to make the first move on a girl, you should realise that it is not as difficult as you may believe. In truth, it’s rather easy. Maintain your dignity and go for it.
But if you want additional specifics, such as if you should wait until the conclusion of the night to ask for a second date or go for it during dinner? Should you have a kiss or a full-on makeout session?
If so, keep reading for advice from a female who has made the first move and has had males make the first move both successfully and unsuccessfully.
Making the First Move on a Girl
It’s scary to make your huge first move. It would be strange if it wasn’t. So take a big breath and dive right in. The worst that may happen is that she rejects you and you move on. It’s not a huge deal.
You may make the first move, whether it’s asking for a girl’s number, kissing her, or asking her out on an old-fashioned date. Here’s how it’s done:
Pay attention to the signs
She isn’t interested if she isn’t staring you in the eyes and appears uninterested in making conversation. Go for it if she touches your arm, laughs at your jokes, and initiates eye contact.
Quit overthinking
You don’t need to run through a screenplay in your head before talking to this girl. Follow the flow of the conversation. Do whatever feels correct at the time.
Move slowly
Yes, ladies prefer brave guys who don’t just do whatever they want. As already stated, read the room. You can go in for a goodnight kiss if you had a wonderful date and sense the connection. But don’t go any further.
Avoid fighting the uneasiness
Take a step forward. Allow yourself to be awkward or bashful if that is your thing. Don’t resist it, or you’ll come out as much more frightened.
Awkwardness does not have to be a negative trait. It may really be rather adorable. So walk in and take her hand in yours. If you fail, laugh it off and try again. Awkwardness is a fantastic icebreaker.
Give her your phone number
Another technique to initiate contact with a female is to just request her phone number. A lot of males approach girls and ask for their phone numbers. And, although that is nice, it might take a female more than a few seconds to determine if she is truly interested.
Instead of asking, provide her with your phone number. The ball is now in her court. She has the option of reaching out or not. Yes, this makes it a bit more of a waiting game for you, but it allows her to accept or deny your offer on her terms. You’re still making the initial move, but she’s getting the second.
Relationship
I introduced her to fraud but she scammed me and married my Canadian-based friend

I used to do fraud. Someone introduced it to my buddy, who then introduced it to me. The game has different stages. We were at the bottom of the game’s ladder, so we didn’t make much money, but the risk involved was excellent. Aside from the danger, you must labour every day in order to earn GHC500 every week.
We slept very little because our clients were all over the world, and because of the time difference, we had to stay awake in order to communicate with them. I had a major hit one day. I received GHC7,000 from a bargain and immediately purchased an iPhone for my girlfriend, Cynthia. She was aware that I was involved in fraud, yet she was uninterested. She became interested in the business when I gave her the iPhone and told her how I obtained it.
So when I had a customer who claimed to be a girl, Cynthia was the one who spoke to them. She was the one who set up the video calls. We were still struggling. We halted operations since the money was not flowing as promised.
Life was difficult for two jobless lovers. I couldn’t help her. I couldn’t help myself, so we relied on the generosity of friends who were succeeding in the game.
Ernest, a buddy of mine from Canada, came over one day, and we were all hanging around. Cynthia later informed me, “Your friend likes me.” He was licking his lips and staring at me in some way. Let’s go get some money from him. Tell him I’m not your girlfriend. Allow him to take me so we may obtain money from him.”
Ernest was formerly a player in the game. He went outdoors after getting money. I warned Cynthia Ernest that she might catch the hint, but she was so enthusiastic about collecting money that we gave it a shot. “Don’t let him sleep with you,” was the lone caution. Never.”
She brought me GHC 500 a week later. “He gave me 1,000 GHC.” “That’s your cut,” she explained.
Ernest was hiding the affair because he was afraid I would be upset if I found out he was seeing my sister. He was even concealing it from the team, but we were aware of what was going on.
He was here for a month, and we earned a lot of money.
He was still sending money after he left. Cynthia gave me my portion. I got a job and advised her not to see Ernest anymore. She didn’t give up. It escalated into a brawl, in which I threatened to let the cat out of the bag. “If you try it, you’ll go to jail,” she said. You know I’m familiar with all of your previous transactions. How much money can you offer me to get me to quit seeing Ernest?”
Cynthia is currently in Canada with Ernest, where they are having the time of their life. I tear up when I see their images. When I see these videos on Instagram, I want to kick them in the video.
Ernest finally understands reality. Cynthia, I believe, informed him in a way that she wouldn’t be held responsible, saying something like, “He gave me to you so we could get money from you, but I fell for you because you’re a good person.” That sort of thing.
I must confess, they had the final laugh. Cynthia informed me the last time I spoke with her, “If you stop being bitter, I will send you something small every month.” You don’t have to hate me since I don’t hate you.”
I bowed my head and kicked the bitterness out of my heart because money is money.
That girl is the only honest scammer there is. She maintained her promise. She occasionally sends me money. She’s gradually rebuilding the bridge between me and my old friend Ernest. She duped me, but I can’t really complain. I still have feelings for her but in a different manner. I adore her as someone who looks after me.
Relationship
I adore my husband, but I also love my boss

My spouse is fantastic. He’s a wonderful father to our children, and I adore him.
Everything went well till I saw my Boss for the first time lately. I had just recently begun working at my new workplace, therefore, I had never met the Boss in person. He was smitten with me from the moment he saw me. He knows I’m married and is fine with it.
He treats me like a lady and pays all of my bills. He pays for stuff I don’t even realise I need. I enjoy spending time with him. He makes me feel incredibly protected, and with him, the world may disappear for all I care.
He is not married and, in his own words, is eager to “be here” for me.
We are yet to have shuperu, but he kissed me last night before we split ways, and I’ve been craving his kiss all day. Not only have I been thinking about his kiss, but also about what it would be like to lay in bed with him and yield to his wishes.
I tell him how much it pains me to do this to my husband, and he says, “Don’t worry. Everything will be well. He can’t be harmed by what he doesn’t know.”
He has a knack of getting under my skin emotionally. Only my husband has been able to reach me in the same manner that my employer has, and it makes me want to keep him—keep him and keep my husband.
My spouse just refers to him as my Boss. If he finds out, he would undoubtedly break down and break up with me, therefore I’ve learnt not to leave any evidence. I’m in a state of confusion right now. Confused because my husband needs to hurt me or treat me horribly in order for me to fall in love with someone else, but in this situation, everything is perfect between us, but I still long for someone new.
I desperately need my job, therefore I don’t want to offend my employer. This is the only job I’ve ever had that pays above and above my expectations. I simply cannot afford to lose it. Aside from that, I want my employer and I need my husband. I wish there was a way for the two to coexist.
The gravity of the situation is that, since meeting my employer, shuperu with my spouse has become a responsibility for me. I make myself available to him, but I don’t feel anything. It’s similar to the fable of the brook and the stone. What effect may the stream have on the stone? Nothing. He’s doing it, and I’m thinking about my employer. I am aware that I require assistance.
Relationship
Woman sues boyfriend for abandoning her after funding his extravagant lifestyle

A heartbroken lady has hauled her lover, Hassan Umar, to a Kano magistrates’ court for having dumped her after spending N900,000 on him.
In court, the woman’s counsel said that the defendant claimed he was in love with his client and that they had agreed to marry.
However, after spending the money on him, Umar abandoned her and stopped seeing her.
The defendant, on the other hand, pled not guilty to the accusations, explaining that it was merely a relationship that did not survive the test of time.
Following the reading of the charges, the Magistrate requested that both sides produce their witnesses for the next postponed session.
Addressing journalists after the court sitting, the woman said:
“I doubt he didn’t charm me. Whatever he asked me I did it instantly. I cooked different types of food for him, including chicken, meat, and even two rams.
“I spent over N900,000 on him. But from there, he started showing me as if he didn’t care. Later he stopped coming to me.”
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