There’s this lady I met and liked back in SHS but couldn’t tell her. We just look into each others face and smiled. So we completed and later met here on Facebook and that’s where it all started.
We confessed our love for each other and started dating. Things were cool for about 2 years till she got into her final year in one Midwifery institution in Ghana.
Initially, we even spent hours talking on the phone (even late nights) through to the next morning. But when she entered her third year I realized she’ll be busy during the daytime because of the lengthy lectures so I’d rather call around 11:00 pm and she’ll still tell me she’s going for Prep.
This happened for some time and I stopped calling, however, she didn’t bother calling back. Well, I know there are misunderstandings and little fights in relationships and whenever we got into one, we solved it and let things go.
But she once logged into her Facebook account on my phone and forgot to log out. Well, curiosity didn’t let me log out in peace but rather went on to read her first chat which was with a guy. In my quest, I noticed a guy was into my lasy and asked if she was dating and she said NO, She’s single. Well, I no take am as case
I checked the second chat and she was telling another guy that she’s not dating. Then the third guy. So I asked her about it and she said it’s not what I think. She apologized and I let it go. During these times she still wasn’t calling.
I’ll complain about how things have changed between us now and she’ll say she’s busy with her studies. I understood that because that’s her future. But not even texts from her and she would be online (WhatsApp), I’ll text her, and she’ll read without replying.
If I ask she’ll say she doesn’t have data bundle, meanwhile she’ll be posting videos on her status. She usually pays a visit and both my family and close friends know her.
But not even her friends or family know about me. She was sick in school for some time, and I couldn’t reach her number so I suggested she gives me her immediate friend’s number so that it can be an alternate way in reaching her should there be any emergency and she refused with and excuse that she doesn’t trust her.
Later she started calling but couldn’t reach me once and insisted I blocked her (something I didn’t do). So she went back to her old ways of not calling and I didn’t understand.
Not knowing she’s angry because she thinks I blocked her. Later I questioned her wanting to know what’s wrong and she said I’m complaining too much in the relationship and she thinks we should go separate ways.
She’s someone I love so much and wish to marry. We’ve always found it easy to sort out our differences but not this time. Initially, she and I hated relationships with besties alongside, so we promised to be each other’s besties. I recently saw her post another guy with the tag “THE BEST MALE BESTIE EVER”
I clearly understand she needs to pay attention to her studies but right now I don’t know if am making her feel somehow pressured with our relationship or she’s probably seeing another guy already? I’m confused right now.
It obvious she doesn’t want the relationship anymore they should try and move on period