Hmmm, I’ve been with my husband for seven years now and we have two kids which a third one on the way, my husband wasn’t working when we started dating, we were all in the same tertiary school but he was ahead of me with just a year, after completing we all did our service in different work places, I helped him a lot when he started searching for job.
I gave him money every morning when I’m going to work, his own blood sister refused to help him, even money to print application letter I was the one giving it to him but I never gave up, I never asked him for money because I knew he doesn’t have, we got married two years ago but I gave birth to my first child five years ago, my dad even rejected me because of that,my parents wanted me to abort the pregnancy but I refused, I went through a lot.
Well God being so good he got a job but they were not even paying him, I was also not working by then so it wasn’t easy those days, so he got a job for me but the pay wasn’t good but I accepted it to earn something to help him so that was what we were spending until he started getting money during the lock down, he used to save money with me, he used that money to buy a car and two plots of land, after he bought the car he has changed, when I ask him money is either he tells me he doesn’t have or he won’t mind me.
I lost my job after our marriage and I’m currently pregnant and taking care of a one year old kid as well so I’m home, I told him to spend money on me and the reply he gave me is that I’m not his mom for him to spend on me, I asked him if it’s his mom he’s been having s*x with and he said as for me there is nothing I can offer him apart from s*x, that statement of his pained me a lot, he doesn’t give me money so I’ve since stop asking him for money.
I sleep with an empty stomach at times if I don’t have money. I’m five months pregnant and not been to the hospital, I’m sorry for the long post all I need is words of encouragement from you people cuz I can’t even go to my family for advice, I wish I’m not married.
