My wife was a classmate of this well-known Ghanaian musician. He is also attractive. I’ve been hearing stories about some of the musician’s youthful exploits ever since I met my wife. It’s as if she wants to prove to me that she went to the same high school as the man. This has caused several misunderstandings between the two of us. I got sick of hearing about him and lashed out at her one day when she was going on and on about him. I caught her on social media following him and browsing through his photos. We had another disagreement as a result of this. Her viewpoint has always been that I’m overreacting and that because the particular musician is famous, I should understand.
My wife’s fixation with the celebrity got so intense that I inquired of one of her acquaintances, who also happened to be an old schoolmate, about her connection with the man. I was curious whether they had previously dated. My wife always denies it when I ask her. Her companion also stated that the two were simply friends and that nothing like that had occurred between them. I should have expected ladies to talk a lot. My wife’s friend, to whom I had asked this inquiry, went behind my back to notify my wife that I had contacted her to ask her this question. My wife confronted me and insulted me with this object. She was pregnant at the time, so I just let her say anything she wanted. I started following the artist because of my wife, and it wasn’t shocking to see her commenting on all of his images. At one time, I felt petty, so I tried to ignore everything and focus on loving my wife and my now 2-year-old kid.
Along the way, wifey came over to tell me that one of their friends was in critical condition. He stated that the individual has been very ill for a long time and that they have been providing money for her care. They wanted to pay her a visit now. I didn’t inquire if the musician would be present. It crossed my thoughts, but I didn’t ask her to start a fight. She left and returned. That evening, I noticed photos of the alleged visit on her friend’s Facebook page. The guy was present, and he was pretty near to my wife in the images. In one of the photos, he was even gripping her waist. When I asked my wife, all hell broke loose. She has a sharp tongue and is quite protective about everything. You can’t even ask her a question. I walked inside the room and stayed there as soon as she started ranting and insulting me.
We didn’t talk about it for a while, but her classmate died. The one for whom they gave and went to see. I wanted to accompany her to the funeral, but she declined. I gave her permission to travel on her own. She was constantly making calls when she returned. She had never previously excused herself when a call came for her. I’ll tell her to excuse herself if she’s being too loud on the phone. But nowadays, when she sees a specific number, she instantly departs my company. I began intently studying her and listening to her discussions. Now here’s the deal. My wife and I are expecting our second kid in three months. Except for the calls, I don’t have strong proof that she is cheating. I once overheard her mention that she misses the person she was speaking with. Usually, the other person does all of the talking, and she laughs.
I don’t want to do anything that would harm my kid or the unborn child. I conducted a DNA test on my son without her knowing, and he is mine. I’m not sure about the unborn child. I’m not sure what she did with her famous classmate. The guy is rumoured to be a womanizer, but I know she loves him and not me. I’m attempting to use my intellect rather than my emotions because if I use my emotions, I may become aggressive with her, something I have promised myself I will never do. One of her classmates enjoys cocktail making and mixing drinks at gatherings. I lied to my wife about wanting his contact information to send to a friend who needs his services, and she gave me the information. I’d like to question him about my wife’s relationship with the person during their school days, or if he knows anything today. I believe he will be more open because he is a man like me. Am I making the correct choice?
Source: Anonymous Confessions
If you don’t trust her, then let her go. Most women like to hang around famous people especially when the person is a classmate. You are pushing her further away with your insecurities