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I suspect my wife is cheating on me with a famous Ghanaian musician

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My wife was a classmate of this well-known Ghanaian musician. He is also attractive. I’ve been hearing stories about some of the musician’s youthful exploits ever since I met my wife. It’s as if she wants to prove to me that she went to the same high school as the man. This has caused several misunderstandings between the two of us. I got sick of hearing about him and lashed out at her one day when she was going on and on about him. I caught her on social media following him and browsing through his photos. We had another disagreement as a result of this. Her viewpoint has always been that I’m overreacting and that because the particular musician is famous, I should understand.

My wife’s fixation with the celebrity got so intense that I inquired of one of her acquaintances, who also happened to be an old schoolmate, about her connection with the man. I was curious whether they had previously dated. My wife always denies it when I ask her. Her companion also stated that the two were simply friends and that nothing like that had occurred between them. I should have expected ladies to talk a lot. My wife’s friend, to whom I had asked this inquiry, went behind my back to notify my wife that I had contacted her to ask her this question. My wife confronted me and insulted me with this object. She was pregnant at the time, so I just let her say anything she wanted. I started following the artist because of my wife, and it wasn’t shocking to see her commenting on all of his images. At one time, I felt petty, so I tried to ignore everything and focus on loving my wife and my now 2-year-old kid.

Along the way, wifey came over to tell me that one of their friends was in critical condition. He stated that the individual has been very ill for a long time and that they have been providing money for her care. They wanted to pay her a visit now. I didn’t inquire if the musician would be present. It crossed my thoughts, but I didn’t ask her to start a fight. She left and returned. That evening, I noticed photos of the alleged visit on her friend’s Facebook page. The guy was present, and he was pretty near to my wife in the images. In one of the photos, he was even gripping her waist. When I asked my wife, all hell broke loose. She has a sharp tongue and is quite protective about everything. You can’t even ask her a question. I walked inside the room and stayed there as soon as she started ranting and insulting me.

We didn’t talk about it for a while, but her classmate died. The one for whom they gave and went to see. I wanted to accompany her to the funeral, but she declined. I gave her permission to travel on her own. She was constantly making calls when she returned. She had never previously excused herself when a call came for her. I’ll tell her to excuse herself if she’s being too loud on the phone. But nowadays, when she sees a specific number, she instantly departs my company. I began intently studying her and listening to her discussions. Now here’s the deal. My wife and I are expecting our second kid in three months. Except for the calls, I don’t have strong proof that she is cheating. I once overheard her mention that she misses the person she was speaking with. Usually, the other person does all of the talking, and she laughs.

I don’t want to do anything that would harm my kid or the unborn child. I conducted a DNA test on my son without her knowing, and he is mine. I’m not sure about the unborn child. I’m not sure what she did with her famous classmate. The guy is rumoured to be a womanizer, but I know she loves him and not me. I’m attempting to use my intellect rather than my emotions because if I use my emotions, I may become aggressive with her, something I have promised myself I will never do. One of her classmates enjoys cocktail making and mixing drinks at gatherings. I lied to my wife about wanting his contact information to send to a friend who needs his services, and she gave me the information. I’d like to question him about my wife’s relationship with the person during their school days, or if he knows anything today. I believe he will be more open because he is a man like me. Am I making the correct choice?

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I introduced her to fraud but she scammed me and married my Canadian-based friend

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I introduced her to fraud but she scammed me and married my Canadian-based friend

I used to do fraud. Someone introduced it to my buddy, who then introduced it to me. The game has different stages. We were at the bottom of the game’s ladder, so we didn’t make much money, but the risk involved was excellent. Aside from the danger, you must labour every day in order to earn GHC500 every week.

We slept very little because our clients were all over the world, and because of the time difference, we had to stay awake in order to communicate with them. I had a major hit one day. I received GHC7,000 from a bargain and immediately purchased an iPhone for my girlfriend, Cynthia. She was aware that I was involved in fraud, yet she was uninterested. She became interested in the business when I gave her the iPhone and told her how I obtained it.

So when I had a customer who claimed to be a girl, Cynthia was the one who spoke to them. She was the one who set up the video calls. We were still struggling. We halted operations since the money was not flowing as promised.

Life was difficult for two jobless lovers. I couldn’t help her. I couldn’t help myself, so we relied on the generosity of friends who were succeeding in the game.

Ernest, a buddy of mine from Canada, came over one day, and we were all hanging around. Cynthia later informed me, “Your friend likes me.” He was licking his lips and staring at me in some way. Let’s go get some money from him. Tell him I’m not your girlfriend. Allow him to take me so we may obtain money from him.”

Ernest was formerly a player in the game. He went outdoors after getting money. I warned Cynthia Ernest that she might catch the hint, but she was so enthusiastic about collecting money that we gave it a shot. “Don’t let him sleep with you,” was the lone caution. Never.”

She brought me GHC 500 a week later. “He gave me 1,000 GHC.” “That’s your cut,” she explained.

Ernest was hiding the affair because he was afraid I would be upset if I found out he was seeing my sister. He was even concealing it from the team, but we were aware of what was going on.

He was here for a month, and we earned a lot of money.

He was still sending money after he left. Cynthia gave me my portion. I got a job and advised her not to see Ernest anymore. She didn’t give up. It escalated into a brawl, in which I threatened to let the cat out of the bag. “If you try it, you’ll go to jail,” she said. You know I’m familiar with all of your previous transactions. How much money can you offer me to get me to quit seeing Ernest?”

Cynthia is currently in Canada with Ernest, where they are having the time of their life. I tear up when I see their images. When I see these videos on Instagram, I want to kick them in the video.

Ernest finally understands reality. Cynthia, I believe, informed him in a way that she wouldn’t be held responsible, saying something like, “He gave me to you so we could get money from you, but I fell for you because you’re a good person.” That sort of thing.

I must confess, they had the final laugh. Cynthia informed me the last time I spoke with her, “If you stop being bitter, I will send you something small every month.” You don’t have to hate me since I don’t hate you.”

I bowed my head and kicked the bitterness out of my heart because money is money.

That girl is the only honest scammer there is. She maintained her promise. She occasionally sends me money. She’s gradually rebuilding the bridge between me and my old friend Ernest. She duped me, but I can’t really complain. I still have feelings for her but in a different manner. I adore her as someone who looks after me.

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I adore my husband, but I also love my boss

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I adore my husband, but I also love my boss

My spouse is fantastic. He’s a wonderful father to our children, and I adore him.

Everything went well till I saw my Boss for the first time lately. I had just recently begun working at my new workplace, therefore, I had never met the Boss in person. He was smitten with me from the moment he saw me. He knows I’m married and is fine with it.

He treats me like a lady and pays all of my bills. He pays for stuff I don’t even realise I need. I enjoy spending time with him. He makes me feel incredibly protected, and with him, the world may disappear for all I care.

He is not married and, in his own words, is eager to “be here” for me.

We are yet to have shuperu, but he kissed me last night before we split ways, and I’ve been craving his kiss all day. Not only have I been thinking about his kiss, but also about what it would be like to lay in bed with him and yield to his wishes.

I tell him how much it pains me to do this to my husband, and he says, “Don’t worry. Everything will be well. He can’t be harmed by what he doesn’t know.”

He has a knack of getting under my skin emotionally. Only my husband has been able to reach me in the same manner that my employer has, and it makes me want to keep him—keep him and keep my husband.

My spouse just refers to him as my Boss. If he finds out, he would undoubtedly break down and break up with me, therefore I’ve learnt not to leave any evidence. I’m in a state of confusion right now. Confused because my husband needs to hurt me or treat me horribly in order for me to fall in love with someone else, but in this situation, everything is perfect between us, but I still long for someone new.

I desperately need my job, therefore I don’t want to offend my employer. This is the only job I’ve ever had that pays above and above my expectations. I simply cannot afford to lose it. Aside from that, I want my employer and I need my husband. I wish there was a way for the two to coexist.

The gravity of the situation is that, since meeting my employer, shuperu with my spouse has become a responsibility for me. I make myself available to him, but I don’t feel anything. It’s similar to the fable of the brook and the stone. What effect may the stream have on the stone? Nothing. He’s doing it, and I’m thinking about my employer. I am aware that I require assistance.

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Woman sues boyfriend for abandoning her after funding his extravagant lifestyle

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Woman sues boyfriend for abandoning her after funding his extravagant lifestyle

A heartbroken lady has hauled her lover, Hassan Umar, to a Kano magistrates’ court for having dumped her after spending N900,000 on him.

In court, the woman’s counsel said that the defendant claimed he was in love with his client and that they had agreed to marry.

However, after spending the money on him, Umar abandoned her and stopped seeing her.

The defendant, on the other hand, pled not guilty to the accusations, explaining that it was merely a relationship that did not survive the test of time.

Following the reading of the charges, the Magistrate requested that both sides produce their witnesses for the next postponed session.

Addressing journalists after the court sitting, the woman said:

“I doubt he didn’t charm me. Whatever he asked me I did it instantly. I cooked different types of food for him, including chicken, meat, and even two rams.

“I spent over N900,000 on him. But from there, he started showing me as if he didn’t care. Later he stopped coming to me.”

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