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I think I like her but her first question scares me

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I met this beautiful lady last two weeks when I was going to work, I could see she was new in the neighbourhood. Although I don’t know a lot of people within the area, I can make out a new face if I should see one. I stopped and talked to her. She was with her younger sister.

We were both in a hurry so I requested for her contact which she gladly gave to me. I called her the next day at work and we had a good conversation. It was like we’ve known each other for decades because the vibe was there. She sounded nice and lively.

We spoke about her family and she told me how intelligent she was but didn’t get anyone to sponsor her tertiary education.

It was a good conversation but sad as well, especially when she spoke about her late dad and how her previous boyfriend used and dumped her. She’s actually a church girl so I was cool. I liked her from the start because I believe that to have a good relationship, it doesn’t matter the duration you have known the person.

Some people can be friends for 5,10 years and still break up when they start dating because your partner will only let you see what she wants you to know about her when you’re dating. She can choose to hide her bad stuff.

I proposed to her, but she initially declined because she said most guys use her and dwell on the fact that she’s vulnerable. They come pretending to be like good people and later use her so she wanted to get her own shop, start work, and then start a new relationship.

I convinced her that I was serious and she eventually gave in. I called her yesternight and you know when love is new, you would be talking and laughing as if you’re getting married next week. But one question she asked which shocked me was that if I’m in a relationship with a lady and I am to find out she’s pregnant what would I do?

I initially thought she was asking that if I am to impregnate her, would I take responsibility? I foolishly said yes because obviously if I get a lady pregnant, I need to take responsibility for the pregnancy, but I was very far from right. She said no, she meant if she is pregnant from her previous relationship, what would I do?

I was shocked for a moment because I didn’t expect that. She had initially told me she had broken up with her ex about 6 months ago.

The truth started coming out. I told her as per tradition, a lady can’t see another guy when she’s pregnant not to talk of seks. She said her brezzt have been heavy lately and her nippols have been hard. Before I forget, she had complained of pains in the abdomen and she told me she had fibroid growing up so it was possible it was coming back.

I asked her if she was pregnant but she said she tested last four days and it was negative. What made it more serious was when she told me we could still have seks so the baby looks like me. She also said she told her mum she isn’t seeing her body well and her mom asked her if she’s pregnant and she said it could be possible and her mom asked her if she knew the one who’s responsible and she said yes.

She said she doesn’t want to have anything doing with her previous guy so she would tell her mum I’m responsible although she’s saying she isn’t pregnant. I don’t believe her especially when I changed the topic along the line and asked her when she last had seks and she said it was about 6 weeks ago.

She claims she had her menses last month but also said it’s possible for you to menstruate in your first month even when you’re pregnant. I told her to be honest with me but she said she isn’t pregnant, but I don’t trust her.

She said she’s even a good person to tell me because she could have hidden it from me the moment we had seks and told me I was responsible for the pregnancy. I thanked her for that, but how can I just take responsibility for a pregnancy I know nothing about?

I said I would talk to a doctor friend of mine who could help run tests on her but deep down I don’t know anyone. She said she was going to do the test again today but if it’s negative we should forget about it. What if she lies to me about the results?

There’s more but I’m saying a lot, so let me end here. I’m really confused and don’t know what to do. What if she’s actually pregnant, what do I do? Also, I would like to know if there is a health worker and can help me run a test to see if the pain in her abdomen is because of the fibroid or she’s actually pregnant.

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I slept with 300 people in a year – detractors call me ‘disgusting,’ but I feel powerful

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Knight had sex with both men and women, and she told the radio show that she met many of her sex partners using dating apps. She does, however, have a list of "regulars" on fast dial for when she feels like getting down and dirty.

An Australian lady who claims to have had sex with over 300 individuals in one year described the experience as “empowering.”

Annie Knight, 26, said on “The Kyle and Jackie O Show” that she even slept with five individuals in a single day during the wild, fun-filled year.

“I felt empowered afterwards,” the adoring Australian said. “Sex makes me happy. Its purpose is to make you feel wonderful.”

Knight had sex with both men and women, and she told the radio show that she met many of her sex partners using dating apps. She does, however, have a list of “regulars” on the fast dial for when she feels like getting down and dirty.

“The messier the sex, the better,” she said.

Knight, called “Australia’s most sexually active woman,” went on to state that nothing is off limits when it comes to experimenting in the bedroom, stating, “I’m down to try anything.”

However, not everyone is thrilled by Knight’s open love of sex, with one detractor calling her “disgusting.”

Knight, who maintains an OnlyFans account, was also sacked from her marketing position when her superiors discovered her lewd online behaviour.

The sex fanatic told “The Kyle and Jackie O Show” that her website has plenty of kinky stuff since she performs “pretty much everything” on video.

Knight recently made news after speaking out about being fired from a separate site.

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“I feel empowered afterwards,” the adoring Australian stated. “Sex makes me happy. Its purpose is to make you feel wonderful.”Annie Knight via Instagram

“The last thing I wanted to do was to get fired if someone found my OnlyFans,” she said on “SBS Insight” a few weeks ago.

“There was a list of three reasons why I was fired basically,” Knight explained, adding that she was “very upset and very angry” at her employer’s decision to fire her.

“They said I falsely advised that I had a side business, didn’t ask for permission from the company to run the side business and that I had online pornographic images of myself and crude language that was against company rules,” she went on to say.

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Knight, called “Australia’s most sexually active woman,” went on to state that nothing is off limits when it comes to experimenting in the bedroom, stating, “I’m down to try anything.”Annie Knight via Instagram
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Some unusual qualities men want in a woman

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Of course, some women are born with the ability to make a terrific first impression with little to no effort, while others must work a little more.

When it comes to women, what does a man want? To a significant extent, the solution is and will continue to be a mystery.

But it hasn’t prevented scientists from trying to solve the mystery of human attraction.

On the one hand, each man has his own tastes. Qualities and features that are desirable to one guy may not be appealing to another.

However, research has discovered that many men have one trait: they prefer to believe their initial impressions. And those early moments have a significant influence on their level of attraction to certain women.

Of course, some women are born with the ability to make a terrific first impression with little to no effort, while others must work a little more.

Here are five characteristics that men find particularly appealing in women, according to a study.

Natural-looking makeup, including eye makeup and lipstick

Some males remark that they prefer women who do not wear makeup because they appear more natural. However, according to a Zoosk poll, 139 of 1,200 women who applied eye makeup in their profile photo were more likely to receive responses from males. Men were also more likely to desire to meet a lady if her profile photo included lipstick.

Women who wear “darker” cosmetics, on the other hand, were less likely to be asked out. Even if men claim they prefer women who appear “natural,” this implies you may wear “natural” cosmetics and still attract guys.

Also, fellas, it’s quite OK to remark that your girl looks great with winged eyeliner and red lipstick.

The ideal waist-to-hip ratio

This choice is based on health and fertility rather than appearance.

“Evidence also shows that waist-to-hip ratio is a strong indicator of a woman’s oestrogen levels, risk of obesity, and susceptibility to major diseases such as diabetes, ovarian cancer, and heart disease,” according to the study.

Dressing in red clothes

The colour red represents passion. It’s no surprise that males find it appealing. In a research conducted by psychologists at the University of Rochester, men were given images of various women with framed borders of either red or white and were asked how attractive they thought the ladies were.

They were then given an identical photo with the ladies dressed in either red or blue and asked how much they would spend on a date with that woman. Women who were framed in red or wore red were more likely to be considered seductive and beautiful, and males were more likely to want to spend money on a date.

A kind attitude

A pleasant demeanour always goes a long way. Researchers from the Society for Personality and Social Psychology discovered that a woman’s responsiveness to men’s needs and desires boosted her attraction to males.

A higher-pitched voice

According to studies, women prefer males with deeper voices. For males, the reverse is usually true, since some feel “[higher] voices signal reproductive fitness, femininity, and smaller body size.”

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I introduced her to fraud but she scammed me and married my Canadian-based friend

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I introduced her to fraud but she scammed me and married my Canadian-based friend

I used to do fraud. Someone introduced it to my buddy, who then introduced it to me. The game has different stages. We were at the bottom of the game’s ladder, so we didn’t make much money, but the risk involved was excellent. Aside from the danger, you must labour every day in order to earn GHC500 every week.

We slept very little because our clients were all over the world, and because of the time difference, we had to stay awake in order to communicate with them. I had a major hit one day. I received GHC7,000 from a bargain and immediately purchased an iPhone for my girlfriend, Cynthia. She was aware that I was involved in fraud, yet she was uninterested. She became interested in the business when I gave her the iPhone and told her how I obtained it.

So when I had a customer who claimed to be a girl, Cynthia was the one who spoke to them. She was the one who set up the video calls. We were still struggling. We halted operations since the money was not flowing as promised.

Life was difficult for two jobless lovers. I couldn’t help her. I couldn’t help myself, so we relied on the generosity of friends who were succeeding in the game.

Ernest, a buddy of mine from Canada, came over one day, and we were all hanging around. Cynthia later informed me, “Your friend likes me.” He was licking his lips and staring at me in some way. Let’s go get some money from him. Tell him I’m not your girlfriend. Allow him to take me so we may obtain money from him.”

Ernest was formerly a player in the game. He went outdoors after getting money. I warned Cynthia Ernest that she might catch the hint, but she was so enthusiastic about collecting money that we gave it a shot. “Don’t let him sleep with you,” was the lone caution. Never.”

She brought me GHC 500 a week later. “He gave me 1,000 GHC.” “That’s your cut,” she explained.

Ernest was hiding the affair because he was afraid I would be upset if I found out he was seeing my sister. He was even concealing it from the team, but we were aware of what was going on.

He was here for a month, and we earned a lot of money.

He was still sending money after he left. Cynthia gave me my portion. I got a job and advised her not to see Ernest anymore. She didn’t give up. It escalated into a brawl, in which I threatened to let the cat out of the bag. “If you try it, you’ll go to jail,” she said. You know I’m familiar with all of your previous transactions. How much money can you offer me to get me to quit seeing Ernest?”

Cynthia is currently in Canada with Ernest, where they are having the time of their life. I tear up when I see their images. When I see these videos on Instagram, I want to kick them in the video.

Ernest finally understands reality. Cynthia, I believe, informed him in a way that she wouldn’t be held responsible, saying something like, “He gave me to you so we could get money from you, but I fell for you because you’re a good person.” That sort of thing.

I must confess, they had the final laugh. Cynthia informed me the last time I spoke with her, “If you stop being bitter, I will send you something small every month.” You don’t have to hate me since I don’t hate you.”

I bowed my head and kicked the bitterness out of my heart because money is money.

That girl is the only honest scammer there is. She maintained her promise. She occasionally sends me money. She’s gradually rebuilding the bridge between me and my old friend Ernest. She duped me, but I can’t really complain. I still have feelings for her but in a different manner. I adore her as someone who looks after me.

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