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I’m married with three kids but the physique of a guy at the gym is driving me nuts

Hi. I require assistance. I’m a 34-year-old married lady with three kids. I’ve always been a fitness fanatic, and I was in good condition and health-conscious before having children. I acquired a lot of weight after having three children. People are even more surprised when they see me today than they were when they saw me in my wedding photos. It began to have an impact on my self-esteem, so I resolved to take action. I signed up for a gym membership in my neighbourhood. My spouse initially had no objections to it. He knows who I am, and I was going to work out before everyone in the house got up. I began exercising two years ago. My latest child was 6 months old. Initially, I planned to do my own thing and go when the time was up, but this guy volunteered to assist me. He was one of the instructors. You had to pay for his assistance if you needed it.
For whatever reason, he was putting me through the repetitions for free. He was also a married man. We were getting near the point when I realized his motives were not in our best interests of both of us. I was also starting to have feelings for him. He was attractive and fit, and it was difficult to have him so near to me all the time. Later, we agreed that we would avoid each other for our benefit, and he would not train me again. Even so, it was challenging. Later, I stopped seeing him at the gym and discovered that he had travelled to another nation to compete in a foreign bodybuilding competition. I was a little disappointed that he didn’t tell me, but I knew it was for the best. I persisted, and I can now report that I have dropped a significant amount of weight. My husband believes that my present weight is sufficient and that I should stop attending, but I am trying hard to recover the shape I had before our marriage.
The trainer returned to Ghana in August, and we have been meeting at various locations outside the gym. He and his wife split, and I had no idea. He has stated his feelings for me, stating that he can’t get me out of his head. I’m married with children, I realize it’s not appropriate for us to meet in these areas, and I haven’t been to the gym in over two weeks. But I play with myself a lot, and I always think of him when I do. My spouse tries, but he fails to satisfy me, even though I have never informed him about it. He also has no idea that when I’m alone, I play with myself. I’ve been exchanging photos with the bodybuilder, and I have no idea what I’m doing to myself. We’re both dying for each other at this point, and it only takes one slip to bring us down.
I wanted us to relocate, but where we are is ideal for us, and my spouse will not understand why I want us to do so. If I tell him, he’ll be confused and assume I’ve already cheated. I’ve asked the guy to leave me alone, but every time I do, he presses harder. He continues to send me photos and videos of himself, and I find it impossible to look away. I’ve blocked him twice, but he continually calls from a new number. It will be difficult to change my phone number. All of my customers are aware of it, and even if I change it, I am certain to run into him in the neighbourhood. Please tell me how you would approach this if you were in my shoes. It’s not like I despise him. It’s simply that I’m terrified of how I’ll feel in his presence. And he knows I’m resisting him, so he’s taken advantage of that. Please, any suggestions?
Source: Anonymous Confessions
Relationship
I introduced her to fraud but she scammed me and married my Canadian-based friend

I used to do fraud. Someone introduced it to my buddy, who then introduced it to me. The game has different stages. We were at the bottom of the game’s ladder, so we didn’t make much money, but the risk involved was excellent. Aside from the danger, you must labour every day in order to earn GHC500 every week.
We slept very little because our clients were all over the world, and because of the time difference, we had to stay awake in order to communicate with them. I had a major hit one day. I received GHC7,000 from a bargain and immediately purchased an iPhone for my girlfriend, Cynthia. She was aware that I was involved in fraud, yet she was uninterested. She became interested in the business when I gave her the iPhone and told her how I obtained it.
So when I had a customer who claimed to be a girl, Cynthia was the one who spoke to them. She was the one who set up the video calls. We were still struggling. We halted operations since the money was not flowing as promised.
Life was difficult for two jobless lovers. I couldn’t help her. I couldn’t help myself, so we relied on the generosity of friends who were succeeding in the game.
Ernest, a buddy of mine from Canada, came over one day, and we were all hanging around. Cynthia later informed me, “Your friend likes me.” He was licking his lips and staring at me in some way. Let’s go get some money from him. Tell him I’m not your girlfriend. Allow him to take me so we may obtain money from him.”
Ernest was formerly a player in the game. He went outdoors after getting money. I warned Cynthia Ernest that she might catch the hint, but she was so enthusiastic about collecting money that we gave it a shot. “Don’t let him sleep with you,” was the lone caution. Never.”
She brought me GHC 500 a week later. “He gave me 1,000 GHC.” “That’s your cut,” she explained.
Ernest was hiding the affair because he was afraid I would be upset if I found out he was seeing my sister. He was even concealing it from the team, but we were aware of what was going on.
He was here for a month, and we earned a lot of money.
He was still sending money after he left. Cynthia gave me my portion. I got a job and advised her not to see Ernest anymore. She didn’t give up. It escalated into a brawl, in which I threatened to let the cat out of the bag. “If you try it, you’ll go to jail,” she said. You know I’m familiar with all of your previous transactions. How much money can you offer me to get me to quit seeing Ernest?”
Cynthia is currently in Canada with Ernest, where they are having the time of their life. I tear up when I see their images. When I see these videos on Instagram, I want to kick them in the video.
Ernest finally understands reality. Cynthia, I believe, informed him in a way that she wouldn’t be held responsible, saying something like, “He gave me to you so we could get money from you, but I fell for you because you’re a good person.” That sort of thing.
I must confess, they had the final laugh. Cynthia informed me the last time I spoke with her, “If you stop being bitter, I will send you something small every month.” You don’t have to hate me since I don’t hate you.”
I bowed my head and kicked the bitterness out of my heart because money is money.
That girl is the only honest scammer there is. She maintained her promise. She occasionally sends me money. She’s gradually rebuilding the bridge between me and my old friend Ernest. She duped me, but I can’t really complain. I still have feelings for her but in a different manner. I adore her as someone who looks after me.
Relationship
I adore my husband, but I also love my boss

My spouse is fantastic. He’s a wonderful father to our children, and I adore him.
Everything went well till I saw my Boss for the first time lately. I had just recently begun working at my new workplace, therefore, I had never met the Boss in person. He was smitten with me from the moment he saw me. He knows I’m married and is fine with it.
He treats me like a lady and pays all of my bills. He pays for stuff I don’t even realise I need. I enjoy spending time with him. He makes me feel incredibly protected, and with him, the world may disappear for all I care.
He is not married and, in his own words, is eager to “be here” for me.
We are yet to have shuperu, but he kissed me last night before we split ways, and I’ve been craving his kiss all day. Not only have I been thinking about his kiss, but also about what it would be like to lay in bed with him and yield to his wishes.
I tell him how much it pains me to do this to my husband, and he says, “Don’t worry. Everything will be well. He can’t be harmed by what he doesn’t know.”
He has a knack of getting under my skin emotionally. Only my husband has been able to reach me in the same manner that my employer has, and it makes me want to keep him—keep him and keep my husband.
My spouse just refers to him as my Boss. If he finds out, he would undoubtedly break down and break up with me, therefore I’ve learnt not to leave any evidence. I’m in a state of confusion right now. Confused because my husband needs to hurt me or treat me horribly in order for me to fall in love with someone else, but in this situation, everything is perfect between us, but I still long for someone new.
I desperately need my job, therefore I don’t want to offend my employer. This is the only job I’ve ever had that pays above and above my expectations. I simply cannot afford to lose it. Aside from that, I want my employer and I need my husband. I wish there was a way for the two to coexist.
The gravity of the situation is that, since meeting my employer, shuperu with my spouse has become a responsibility for me. I make myself available to him, but I don’t feel anything. It’s similar to the fable of the brook and the stone. What effect may the stream have on the stone? Nothing. He’s doing it, and I’m thinking about my employer. I am aware that I require assistance.
Relationship
Woman sues boyfriend for abandoning her after funding his extravagant lifestyle

A heartbroken lady has hauled her lover, Hassan Umar, to a Kano magistrates’ court for having dumped her after spending N900,000 on him.
In court, the woman’s counsel said that the defendant claimed he was in love with his client and that they had agreed to marry.
However, after spending the money on him, Umar abandoned her and stopped seeing her.
The defendant, on the other hand, pled not guilty to the accusations, explaining that it was merely a relationship that did not survive the test of time.
Following the reading of the charges, the Magistrate requested that both sides produce their witnesses for the next postponed session.
Addressing journalists after the court sitting, the woman said:
“I doubt he didn’t charm me. Whatever he asked me I did it instantly. I cooked different types of food for him, including chicken, meat, and even two rams.
“I spent over N900,000 on him. But from there, he started showing me as if he didn’t care. Later he stopped coming to me.”
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