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My husband left me for the United States 5 years ago and I can’t stop being intimate with my driver

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I’m in a pickle. My husband and I have been married for six years, but he has spent the last five years abroad. A year after we married, he received a scholarship to study abroad for his Masters degree. I had just given birth to a newborn boy a few weeks before he left us. It was really uncomfortable for me. I didn’t want him to go, but everyone was supporting me and saying that this was a once-in-a-lifetime chance and that I shouldn’t ruin my husband’s dream. I gradually accepted it. My mom visited me until my child was a year old. My spouse was meant to be in the United States for a year. That was the length of the Masters program he was going to give.

Well, he found a decent job before completing his studies, and instead of returning home to us, he concentrated on his work there. The pay was excellent. He began sending us money every week. He informed me three years ago about his ambitions to construct a house so that I and the baby could stop paying rent and move into our own property. We purchased land in Kasoa with the assistance of his brother here in Ghana and began construction. He did a good job of sending money for each stage we reached until the house was finished. My spouse purchased a car for me and provided me with money to seek a driver. He has gone out of his way to make me feel at ease. I don’t have any money problems. We also attempt to video chat practically every day, and he chats with his son. But this is not what I expected. I’ve been missing him since he departed for another nation five years ago. When I ask him about his plans for our marriage, he always says he’s working hard and will come to see us soon.

Last year, he assured me that he was working on our paperwork so that we could join him there. I know dad did well by meeting all of our financial demands. But, up until now, it’s been one excuse after another. I’m not pleased with all. My driver and I started dating around two years ago. When I saw he could be trusted, I became more friends with him. He began staying over at my place. It’s only myself and my child here, and we needed a male around. Something led to another, and we did it for the first time on Friday night. We’d had a few beers and were in a good mood thanks to the movie we were watching. We’ve evolved into a married pair since that day. When his rent was due, he moved into my place. My brother paid me a visit one day and suspected it. I informed him that the driver was also assisting me with gardening and housework and that he was now residing in the house with me.

My brother has advised me to exercise caution if I am having an affair with him. I’ve denied it several times, but I know he knows and has decided to stop discussing it. My husband’s family, on the other hand, has abandoned me. They don’t come to see me where I am. I’m the one that tries to drop by every now and then. It’s not like they despise me. Everyone is just too preoccupied with their own life, and they’re very well-off, so they don’t really need me. I’ve terminated the driver I’m with more than three times. Giving him enough money to rent a respectable apartment. Every time I fire him, I tell myself I’m not going to call him back. I’m not going to do that again. That it will never happen again. But I’m the same person who asks him to return when I’m lonely and need a male to sleep with.

I eventually fired him and hired another driver. But he wasn’t as polished and well-mannered as him, so I let him go. Some may argue that I am ungrateful and that I am wrong to repay my husband in this manner. I honestly miss him every day, but he makes no attempt to return home. He has his green card and is free to visit us. He has never done anything like that. He never stops telling stories. My son has never met his father in person. It is always done through video calls. Despite this, he leaves early, claiming to be busy. I’ve complained to his family several times. There is nothing they can do about it. I began building my own house with my husband’s money over time. He is unaware of it, and neither is the driver. Only my brother is aware. For me, it’s a kind of backup plan. I’ve also purchased acreage and hired labourers. My brother manages it in my absence. He can remain with me, but he has a family to care for.

I’m not sure what the future holds for the driver, but I like him. He is currently enrolled in a weekend degree program with my assistance. He is a serious individual. Some may argue that he is with me because he needs my money. However, I am not a sugar mommy. He is older than me and survives on the wage I provide him. I’m 30, he’s 32. At this time, he wants me to divorce my husband and have a more serious relationship with him. My husband continues promising me as well, and I’m split between these two men and my circumstances. If my husband is no longer in the picture, I have enough money to take care of myself. I’m not sure what to do next.

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I slept with 300 people in a year – detractors call me ‘disgusting,’ but I feel powerful

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Knight had sex with both men and women, and she told the radio show that she met many of her sex partners using dating apps. She does, however, have a list of "regulars" on fast dial for when she feels like getting down and dirty.

An Australian lady who claims to have had sex with over 300 individuals in one year described the experience as “empowering.”

Annie Knight, 26, said on “The Kyle and Jackie O Show” that she even slept with five individuals in a single day during the wild, fun-filled year.

“I felt empowered afterwards,” the adoring Australian said. “Sex makes me happy. Its purpose is to make you feel wonderful.”

Knight had sex with both men and women, and she told the radio show that she met many of her sex partners using dating apps. She does, however, have a list of “regulars” on the fast dial for when she feels like getting down and dirty.

“The messier the sex, the better,” she said.

Knight, called “Australia’s most sexually active woman,” went on to state that nothing is off limits when it comes to experimenting in the bedroom, stating, “I’m down to try anything.”

However, not everyone is thrilled by Knight’s open love of sex, with one detractor calling her “disgusting.”

Knight, who maintains an OnlyFans account, was also sacked from her marketing position when her superiors discovered her lewd online behaviour.

The sex fanatic told “The Kyle and Jackie O Show” that her website has plenty of kinky stuff since she performs “pretty much everything” on video.

Knight recently made news after speaking out about being fired from a separate site.

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“I feel empowered afterwards,” the adoring Australian stated. “Sex makes me happy. Its purpose is to make you feel wonderful.”Annie Knight via Instagram

“The last thing I wanted to do was to get fired if someone found my OnlyFans,” she said on “SBS Insight” a few weeks ago.

“There was a list of three reasons why I was fired basically,” Knight explained, adding that she was “very upset and very angry” at her employer’s decision to fire her.

“They said I falsely advised that I had a side business, didn’t ask for permission from the company to run the side business and that I had online pornographic images of myself and crude language that was against company rules,” she went on to say.

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Knight, called “Australia’s most sexually active woman,” went on to state that nothing is off limits when it comes to experimenting in the bedroom, stating, “I’m down to try anything.”Annie Knight via Instagram
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Some unusual qualities men want in a woman

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Of course, some women are born with the ability to make a terrific first impression with little to no effort, while others must work a little more.

When it comes to women, what does a man want? To a significant extent, the solution is and will continue to be a mystery.

But it hasn’t prevented scientists from trying to solve the mystery of human attraction.

On the one hand, each man has his own tastes. Qualities and features that are desirable to one guy may not be appealing to another.

However, research has discovered that many men have one trait: they prefer to believe their initial impressions. And those early moments have a significant influence on their level of attraction to certain women.

Of course, some women are born with the ability to make a terrific first impression with little to no effort, while others must work a little more.

Here are five characteristics that men find particularly appealing in women, according to a study.

Natural-looking makeup, including eye makeup and lipstick

Some males remark that they prefer women who do not wear makeup because they appear more natural. However, according to a Zoosk poll, 139 of 1,200 women who applied eye makeup in their profile photo were more likely to receive responses from males. Men were also more likely to desire to meet a lady if her profile photo included lipstick.

Women who wear “darker” cosmetics, on the other hand, were less likely to be asked out. Even if men claim they prefer women who appear “natural,” this implies you may wear “natural” cosmetics and still attract guys.

Also, fellas, it’s quite OK to remark that your girl looks great with winged eyeliner and red lipstick.

The ideal waist-to-hip ratio

This choice is based on health and fertility rather than appearance.

“Evidence also shows that waist-to-hip ratio is a strong indicator of a woman’s oestrogen levels, risk of obesity, and susceptibility to major diseases such as diabetes, ovarian cancer, and heart disease,” according to the study.

Dressing in red clothes

The colour red represents passion. It’s no surprise that males find it appealing. In a research conducted by psychologists at the University of Rochester, men were given images of various women with framed borders of either red or white and were asked how attractive they thought the ladies were.

They were then given an identical photo with the ladies dressed in either red or blue and asked how much they would spend on a date with that woman. Women who were framed in red or wore red were more likely to be considered seductive and beautiful, and males were more likely to want to spend money on a date.

A kind attitude

A pleasant demeanour always goes a long way. Researchers from the Society for Personality and Social Psychology discovered that a woman’s responsiveness to men’s needs and desires boosted her attraction to males.

A higher-pitched voice

According to studies, women prefer males with deeper voices. For males, the reverse is usually true, since some feel “[higher] voices signal reproductive fitness, femininity, and smaller body size.”

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I introduced her to fraud but she scammed me and married my Canadian-based friend

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I introduced her to fraud but she scammed me and married my Canadian-based friend

I used to do fraud. Someone introduced it to my buddy, who then introduced it to me. The game has different stages. We were at the bottom of the game’s ladder, so we didn’t make much money, but the risk involved was excellent. Aside from the danger, you must labour every day in order to earn GHC500 every week.

We slept very little because our clients were all over the world, and because of the time difference, we had to stay awake in order to communicate with them. I had a major hit one day. I received GHC7,000 from a bargain and immediately purchased an iPhone for my girlfriend, Cynthia. She was aware that I was involved in fraud, yet she was uninterested. She became interested in the business when I gave her the iPhone and told her how I obtained it.

So when I had a customer who claimed to be a girl, Cynthia was the one who spoke to them. She was the one who set up the video calls. We were still struggling. We halted operations since the money was not flowing as promised.

Life was difficult for two jobless lovers. I couldn’t help her. I couldn’t help myself, so we relied on the generosity of friends who were succeeding in the game.

Ernest, a buddy of mine from Canada, came over one day, and we were all hanging around. Cynthia later informed me, “Your friend likes me.” He was licking his lips and staring at me in some way. Let’s go get some money from him. Tell him I’m not your girlfriend. Allow him to take me so we may obtain money from him.”

Ernest was formerly a player in the game. He went outdoors after getting money. I warned Cynthia Ernest that she might catch the hint, but she was so enthusiastic about collecting money that we gave it a shot. “Don’t let him sleep with you,” was the lone caution. Never.”

She brought me GHC 500 a week later. “He gave me 1,000 GHC.” “That’s your cut,” she explained.

Ernest was hiding the affair because he was afraid I would be upset if I found out he was seeing my sister. He was even concealing it from the team, but we were aware of what was going on.

He was here for a month, and we earned a lot of money.

He was still sending money after he left. Cynthia gave me my portion. I got a job and advised her not to see Ernest anymore. She didn’t give up. It escalated into a brawl, in which I threatened to let the cat out of the bag. “If you try it, you’ll go to jail,” she said. You know I’m familiar with all of your previous transactions. How much money can you offer me to get me to quit seeing Ernest?”

Cynthia is currently in Canada with Ernest, where they are having the time of their life. I tear up when I see their images. When I see these videos on Instagram, I want to kick them in the video.

Ernest finally understands reality. Cynthia, I believe, informed him in a way that she wouldn’t be held responsible, saying something like, “He gave me to you so we could get money from you, but I fell for you because you’re a good person.” That sort of thing.

I must confess, they had the final laugh. Cynthia informed me the last time I spoke with her, “If you stop being bitter, I will send you something small every month.” You don’t have to hate me since I don’t hate you.”

I bowed my head and kicked the bitterness out of my heart because money is money.

That girl is the only honest scammer there is. She maintained her promise. She occasionally sends me money. She’s gradually rebuilding the bridge between me and my old friend Ernest. She duped me, but I can’t really complain. I still have feelings for her but in a different manner. I adore her as someone who looks after me.

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