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My husband left me for the United States 5 years ago and I can’t stop being intimate with my driver

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I’m in a pickle. My husband and I have been married for six years, but he has spent the last five years abroad. A year after we married, he received a scholarship to study abroad for his Masters degree. I had just given birth to a newborn boy a few weeks before he left us. It was really uncomfortable for me. I didn’t want him to go, but everyone was supporting me and saying that this was a once-in-a-lifetime chance and that I shouldn’t ruin my husband’s dream. I gradually accepted it. My mom visited me until my child was a year old. My spouse was meant to be in the United States for a year. That was the length of the Masters program he was going to give.

Well, he found a decent job before completing his studies, and instead of returning home to us, he concentrated on his work there. The pay was excellent. He began sending us money every week. He informed me three years ago about his ambitions to construct a house so that I and the baby could stop paying rent and move into our own property. We purchased land in Kasoa with the assistance of his brother here in Ghana and began construction. He did a good job of sending money for each stage we reached until the house was finished. My spouse purchased a car for me and provided me with money to seek a driver. He has gone out of his way to make me feel at ease. I don’t have any money problems. We also attempt to video chat practically every day, and he chats with his son. But this is not what I expected. I’ve been missing him since he departed for another nation five years ago. When I ask him about his plans for our marriage, he always says he’s working hard and will come to see us soon.

Last year, he assured me that he was working on our paperwork so that we could join him there. I know dad did well by meeting all of our financial demands. But, up until now, it’s been one excuse after another. I’m not pleased with all. My driver and I started dating around two years ago. When I saw he could be trusted, I became more friends with him. He began staying over at my place. It’s only myself and my child here, and we needed a male around. Something led to another, and we did it for the first time on Friday night. We’d had a few beers and were in a good mood thanks to the movie we were watching. We’ve evolved into a married pair since that day. When his rent was due, he moved into my place. My brother paid me a visit one day and suspected it. I informed him that the driver was also assisting me with gardening and housework and that he was now residing in the house with me.

My brother has advised me to exercise caution if I am having an affair with him. I’ve denied it several times, but I know he knows and has decided to stop discussing it. My husband’s family, on the other hand, has abandoned me. They don’t come to see me where I am. I’m the one that tries to drop by every now and then. It’s not like they despise me. Everyone is just too preoccupied with their own life, and they’re very well-off, so they don’t really need me. I’ve terminated the driver I’m with more than three times. Giving him enough money to rent a respectable apartment. Every time I fire him, I tell myself I’m not going to call him back. I’m not going to do that again. That it will never happen again. But I’m the same person who asks him to return when I’m lonely and need a male to sleep with.

I eventually fired him and hired another driver. But he wasn’t as polished and well-mannered as him, so I let him go. Some may argue that I am ungrateful and that I am wrong to repay my husband in this manner. I honestly miss him every day, but he makes no attempt to return home. He has his green card and is free to visit us. He has never done anything like that. He never stops telling stories. My son has never met his father in person. It is always done through video calls. Despite this, he leaves early, claiming to be busy. I’ve complained to his family several times. There is nothing they can do about it. I began building my own house with my husband’s money over time. He is unaware of it, and neither is the driver. Only my brother is aware. For me, it’s a kind of backup plan. I’ve also purchased acreage and hired labourers. My brother manages it in my absence. He can remain with me, but he has a family to care for.

I’m not sure what the future holds for the driver, but I like him. He is currently enrolled in a weekend degree program with my assistance. He is a serious individual. Some may argue that he is with me because he needs my money. However, I am not a sugar mommy. He is older than me and survives on the wage I provide him. I’m 30, he’s 32. At this time, he wants me to divorce my husband and have a more serious relationship with him. My husband continues promising me as well, and I’m split between these two men and my circumstances. If my husband is no longer in the picture, I have enough money to take care of myself. I’m not sure what to do next.

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I introduced her to fraud but she scammed me and married my Canadian-based friend

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I introduced her to fraud but she scammed me and married my Canadian-based friend

I used to do fraud. Someone introduced it to my buddy, who then introduced it to me. The game has different stages. We were at the bottom of the game’s ladder, so we didn’t make much money, but the risk involved was excellent. Aside from the danger, you must labour every day in order to earn GHC500 every week.

We slept very little because our clients were all over the world, and because of the time difference, we had to stay awake in order to communicate with them. I had a major hit one day. I received GHC7,000 from a bargain and immediately purchased an iPhone for my girlfriend, Cynthia. She was aware that I was involved in fraud, yet she was uninterested. She became interested in the business when I gave her the iPhone and told her how I obtained it.

So when I had a customer who claimed to be a girl, Cynthia was the one who spoke to them. She was the one who set up the video calls. We were still struggling. We halted operations since the money was not flowing as promised.

Life was difficult for two jobless lovers. I couldn’t help her. I couldn’t help myself, so we relied on the generosity of friends who were succeeding in the game.

Ernest, a buddy of mine from Canada, came over one day, and we were all hanging around. Cynthia later informed me, “Your friend likes me.” He was licking his lips and staring at me in some way. Let’s go get some money from him. Tell him I’m not your girlfriend. Allow him to take me so we may obtain money from him.”

Ernest was formerly a player in the game. He went outdoors after getting money. I warned Cynthia Ernest that she might catch the hint, but she was so enthusiastic about collecting money that we gave it a shot. “Don’t let him sleep with you,” was the lone caution. Never.”

She brought me GHC 500 a week later. “He gave me 1,000 GHC.” “That’s your cut,” she explained.

Ernest was hiding the affair because he was afraid I would be upset if I found out he was seeing my sister. He was even concealing it from the team, but we were aware of what was going on.

He was here for a month, and we earned a lot of money.

He was still sending money after he left. Cynthia gave me my portion. I got a job and advised her not to see Ernest anymore. She didn’t give up. It escalated into a brawl, in which I threatened to let the cat out of the bag. “If you try it, you’ll go to jail,” she said. You know I’m familiar with all of your previous transactions. How much money can you offer me to get me to quit seeing Ernest?”

Cynthia is currently in Canada with Ernest, where they are having the time of their life. I tear up when I see their images. When I see these videos on Instagram, I want to kick them in the video.

Ernest finally understands reality. Cynthia, I believe, informed him in a way that she wouldn’t be held responsible, saying something like, “He gave me to you so we could get money from you, but I fell for you because you’re a good person.” That sort of thing.

I must confess, they had the final laugh. Cynthia informed me the last time I spoke with her, “If you stop being bitter, I will send you something small every month.” You don’t have to hate me since I don’t hate you.”

I bowed my head and kicked the bitterness out of my heart because money is money.

That girl is the only honest scammer there is. She maintained her promise. She occasionally sends me money. She’s gradually rebuilding the bridge between me and my old friend Ernest. She duped me, but I can’t really complain. I still have feelings for her but in a different manner. I adore her as someone who looks after me.

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I adore my husband, but I also love my boss

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I adore my husband, but I also love my boss

My spouse is fantastic. He’s a wonderful father to our children, and I adore him.

Everything went well till I saw my Boss for the first time lately. I had just recently begun working at my new workplace, therefore, I had never met the Boss in person. He was smitten with me from the moment he saw me. He knows I’m married and is fine with it.

He treats me like a lady and pays all of my bills. He pays for stuff I don’t even realise I need. I enjoy spending time with him. He makes me feel incredibly protected, and with him, the world may disappear for all I care.

He is not married and, in his own words, is eager to “be here” for me.

We are yet to have shuperu, but he kissed me last night before we split ways, and I’ve been craving his kiss all day. Not only have I been thinking about his kiss, but also about what it would be like to lay in bed with him and yield to his wishes.

I tell him how much it pains me to do this to my husband, and he says, “Don’t worry. Everything will be well. He can’t be harmed by what he doesn’t know.”

He has a knack of getting under my skin emotionally. Only my husband has been able to reach me in the same manner that my employer has, and it makes me want to keep him—keep him and keep my husband.

My spouse just refers to him as my Boss. If he finds out, he would undoubtedly break down and break up with me, therefore I’ve learnt not to leave any evidence. I’m in a state of confusion right now. Confused because my husband needs to hurt me or treat me horribly in order for me to fall in love with someone else, but in this situation, everything is perfect between us, but I still long for someone new.

I desperately need my job, therefore I don’t want to offend my employer. This is the only job I’ve ever had that pays above and above my expectations. I simply cannot afford to lose it. Aside from that, I want my employer and I need my husband. I wish there was a way for the two to coexist.

The gravity of the situation is that, since meeting my employer, shuperu with my spouse has become a responsibility for me. I make myself available to him, but I don’t feel anything. It’s similar to the fable of the brook and the stone. What effect may the stream have on the stone? Nothing. He’s doing it, and I’m thinking about my employer. I am aware that I require assistance.

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Woman sues boyfriend for abandoning her after funding his extravagant lifestyle

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Woman sues boyfriend for abandoning her after funding his extravagant lifestyle

A heartbroken lady has hauled her lover, Hassan Umar, to a Kano magistrates’ court for having dumped her after spending N900,000 on him.

In court, the woman’s counsel said that the defendant claimed he was in love with his client and that they had agreed to marry.

However, after spending the money on him, Umar abandoned her and stopped seeing her.

The defendant, on the other hand, pled not guilty to the accusations, explaining that it was merely a relationship that did not survive the test of time.

Following the reading of the charges, the Magistrate requested that both sides produce their witnesses for the next postponed session.

Addressing journalists after the court sitting, the woman said:

“I doubt he didn’t charm me. Whatever he asked me I did it instantly. I cooked different types of food for him, including chicken, meat, and even two rams.

“I spent over N900,000 on him. But from there, he started showing me as if he didn’t care. Later he stopped coming to me.”

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