When I first got married, I had no idea it would be so tough for me. I always assumed it would be easy since I took the advice and married my best friend. I’m starting to think that wasn’t the best decision. At this time, she requires the care of a psychiatric facility.
I never imagined our sex life would be one of the things I had to cope with. People claim, “Once you’re married, your body is for your partner, so unfettered access,” yet this is far from free. My wife has forced me to do some strange activities that are damaging my mental health.
We enjoyed a memorable honeymoon after getting married. We both lacked sexual experience, so the first day was a disaster. We were almost finished within 2 minutes, and the fun and joking quickly turned to panic. In all, sex is an important aspect of marriage, right? And how would we enjoy marriage if we had kept ourselves for this long and it was this bad?
We were too ashamed to seek counsel, so we resorted to sex videos on YouTube, self-help books, and, thankfully or sadly, porn (mainly for varied methods, etc), but here is where things went wrong. We were really proficient at it for a time, but my wife was never completely happy. She was not pleased when we introduced oral sex. We began to take greater chances, such as doing it in the vehicle at the beach, but we were still unhappy.
She eventually asked me to choke her, as we had seen in the films we had viewed, and she would have died if it hadn’t been for heavenly mercy. I believe I choked her too hard, causing her to pass out. It wasn’t my fault since she continued urging me to choke her harder and harder till she was gone before I realised it. I panicked and threw water on her, and as she awoke, I confronted her about the crap we were doing.
I told her we were going too far, and she agreed, so she suggested we try role-playing, where we both pretended to be strangers who happened to be horny and in need of some pleasure.
I won’t lie, it was pleasant. My wife’s imagination is usually so crazy that I never knew whether I’d be a cop apprehending a gorgeous criminal who broke into our bedroom or a houseboy whose madam caught him stealing food, but it kept me looking forward to our sexcapades.
Her wild side has been out of control this month, bordering on feral. When I went home one night, she was dressed like an SHS student. I realised from away that I was going to be a teacher or a headmaster or something along those lines, so I adapted quickly. She didn’t take long to bring me her schoolwork and ask me to grade it while sitting on my lap. I loved where it was heading until she insisted on lashing me as punishment for the questions she answered incorrectly.
She became agitated when I told her no. It became uncomfortably close. She went and got a real cane and began beating me with it, telling me that I should lash her the same way. I was perplexed and wondered whether we were still acting, but she kept striking me and the caning was so terrible that I snatched it from her and lashed her hard. Even though she was weeping, she leapt on me and we had sex right away. She later informed me that it was the finest sex she’d ever had.
For me, it’s not the same. It was a perplexing experience, and I don’t believe I need to cane my wife like an animal to turn her on. This is getting out of hand, and I need to take charge before it’s too late. I believe she is upset and requires assistance, but I don’t know how to tell her because she appears to be enjoying our activities, which is one of the ways we interact as a couple.
What can I do to assist in this situation? Is it possible that I’m overreacting to something normal? Is this something usual, and am I the one making the most of it? I’d want to hear your thoughts because this might make or ruin my marriage. Help.
Source: MX24