Relationship
My wife is so wild to the extent of canning me the day I refused to get intimate with her

When I first got married, I had no idea it would be so tough for me. I always assumed it would be easy since I took the advice and married my best friend. I’m starting to think that wasn’t the best decision. At this time, she requires the care of a psychiatric facility.
I never imagined our sex life would be one of the things I had to cope with. People claim, “Once you’re married, your body is for your partner, so unfettered access,” yet this is far from free. My wife has forced me to do some strange activities that are damaging my mental health.
We enjoyed a memorable honeymoon after getting married. We both lacked sexual experience, so the first day was a disaster. We were almost finished within 2 minutes, and the fun and joking quickly turned to panic. In all, sex is an important aspect of marriage, right? And how would we enjoy marriage if we had kept ourselves for this long and it was this bad?
We were too ashamed to seek counsel, so we resorted to sex videos on YouTube, self-help books, and, thankfully or sadly, porn (mainly for varied methods, etc), but here is where things went wrong. We were really proficient at it for a time, but my wife was never completely happy. She was not pleased when we introduced oral sex. We began to take greater chances, such as doing it in the vehicle at the beach, but we were still unhappy.
She eventually asked me to choke her, as we had seen in the films we had viewed, and she would have died if it hadn’t been for heavenly mercy. I believe I choked her too hard, causing her to pass out. It wasn’t my fault since she continued urging me to choke her harder and harder till she was gone before I realised it. I panicked and threw water on her, and as she awoke, I confronted her about the crap we were doing.
I told her we were going too far, and she agreed, so she suggested we try role-playing, where we both pretended to be strangers who happened to be horny and in need of some pleasure.
I won’t lie, it was pleasant. My wife’s imagination is usually so crazy that I never knew whether I’d be a cop apprehending a gorgeous criminal who broke into our bedroom or a houseboy whose madam caught him stealing food, but it kept me looking forward to our sexcapades.
Her wild side has been out of control this month, bordering on feral. When I went home one night, she was dressed like an SHS student. I realised from away that I was going to be a teacher or a headmaster or something along those lines, so I adapted quickly. She didn’t take long to bring me her schoolwork and ask me to grade it while sitting on my lap. I loved where it was heading until she insisted on lashing me as punishment for the questions she answered incorrectly.
She became agitated when I told her no. It became uncomfortably close. She went and got a real cane and began beating me with it, telling me that I should lash her the same way. I was perplexed and wondered whether we were still acting, but she kept striking me and the caning was so terrible that I snatched it from her and lashed her hard. Even though she was weeping, she leapt on me and we had sex right away. She later informed me that it was the finest sex she’d ever had.
For me, it’s not the same. It was a perplexing experience, and I don’t believe I need to cane my wife like an animal to turn her on. This is getting out of hand, and I need to take charge before it’s too late. I believe she is upset and requires assistance, but I don’t know how to tell her because she appears to be enjoying our activities, which is one of the ways we interact as a couple.
What can I do to assist in this situation? Is it possible that I’m overreacting to something normal? Is this something usual, and am I the one making the most of it? I’d want to hear your thoughts because this might make or ruin my marriage. Help.
Source: MX24
Relationship
I introduced her to fraud but she scammed me and married my Canadian-based friend

I used to do fraud. Someone introduced it to my buddy, who then introduced it to me. The game has different stages. We were at the bottom of the game’s ladder, so we didn’t make much money, but the risk involved was excellent. Aside from the danger, you must labour every day in order to earn GHC500 every week.
We slept very little because our clients were all over the world, and because of the time difference, we had to stay awake in order to communicate with them. I had a major hit one day. I received GHC7,000 from a bargain and immediately purchased an iPhone for my girlfriend, Cynthia. She was aware that I was involved in fraud, yet she was uninterested. She became interested in the business when I gave her the iPhone and told her how I obtained it.
So when I had a customer who claimed to be a girl, Cynthia was the one who spoke to them. She was the one who set up the video calls. We were still struggling. We halted operations since the money was not flowing as promised.
Life was difficult for two jobless lovers. I couldn’t help her. I couldn’t help myself, so we relied on the generosity of friends who were succeeding in the game.
Ernest, a buddy of mine from Canada, came over one day, and we were all hanging around. Cynthia later informed me, “Your friend likes me.” He was licking his lips and staring at me in some way. Let’s go get some money from him. Tell him I’m not your girlfriend. Allow him to take me so we may obtain money from him.”
Ernest was formerly a player in the game. He went outdoors after getting money. I warned Cynthia Ernest that she might catch the hint, but she was so enthusiastic about collecting money that we gave it a shot. “Don’t let him sleep with you,” was the lone caution. Never.”
She brought me GHC 500 a week later. “He gave me 1,000 GHC.” “That’s your cut,” she explained.
Ernest was hiding the affair because he was afraid I would be upset if I found out he was seeing my sister. He was even concealing it from the team, but we were aware of what was going on.
He was here for a month, and we earned a lot of money.
He was still sending money after he left. Cynthia gave me my portion. I got a job and advised her not to see Ernest anymore. She didn’t give up. It escalated into a brawl, in which I threatened to let the cat out of the bag. “If you try it, you’ll go to jail,” she said. You know I’m familiar with all of your previous transactions. How much money can you offer me to get me to quit seeing Ernest?”
Cynthia is currently in Canada with Ernest, where they are having the time of their life. I tear up when I see their images. When I see these videos on Instagram, I want to kick them in the video.
Ernest finally understands reality. Cynthia, I believe, informed him in a way that she wouldn’t be held responsible, saying something like, “He gave me to you so we could get money from you, but I fell for you because you’re a good person.” That sort of thing.
I must confess, they had the final laugh. Cynthia informed me the last time I spoke with her, “If you stop being bitter, I will send you something small every month.” You don’t have to hate me since I don’t hate you.”
I bowed my head and kicked the bitterness out of my heart because money is money.
That girl is the only honest scammer there is. She maintained her promise. She occasionally sends me money. She’s gradually rebuilding the bridge between me and my old friend Ernest. She duped me, but I can’t really complain. I still have feelings for her but in a different manner. I adore her as someone who looks after me.
Relationship
I adore my husband, but I also love my boss

My spouse is fantastic. He’s a wonderful father to our children, and I adore him.
Everything went well till I saw my Boss for the first time lately. I had just recently begun working at my new workplace, therefore, I had never met the Boss in person. He was smitten with me from the moment he saw me. He knows I’m married and is fine with it.
He treats me like a lady and pays all of my bills. He pays for stuff I don’t even realise I need. I enjoy spending time with him. He makes me feel incredibly protected, and with him, the world may disappear for all I care.
He is not married and, in his own words, is eager to “be here” for me.
We are yet to have shuperu, but he kissed me last night before we split ways, and I’ve been craving his kiss all day. Not only have I been thinking about his kiss, but also about what it would be like to lay in bed with him and yield to his wishes.
I tell him how much it pains me to do this to my husband, and he says, “Don’t worry. Everything will be well. He can’t be harmed by what he doesn’t know.”
He has a knack of getting under my skin emotionally. Only my husband has been able to reach me in the same manner that my employer has, and it makes me want to keep him—keep him and keep my husband.
My spouse just refers to him as my Boss. If he finds out, he would undoubtedly break down and break up with me, therefore I’ve learnt not to leave any evidence. I’m in a state of confusion right now. Confused because my husband needs to hurt me or treat me horribly in order for me to fall in love with someone else, but in this situation, everything is perfect between us, but I still long for someone new.
I desperately need my job, therefore I don’t want to offend my employer. This is the only job I’ve ever had that pays above and above my expectations. I simply cannot afford to lose it. Aside from that, I want my employer and I need my husband. I wish there was a way for the two to coexist.
The gravity of the situation is that, since meeting my employer, shuperu with my spouse has become a responsibility for me. I make myself available to him, but I don’t feel anything. It’s similar to the fable of the brook and the stone. What effect may the stream have on the stone? Nothing. He’s doing it, and I’m thinking about my employer. I am aware that I require assistance.
Relationship
Woman sues boyfriend for abandoning her after funding his extravagant lifestyle

A heartbroken lady has hauled her lover, Hassan Umar, to a Kano magistrates’ court for having dumped her after spending N900,000 on him.
In court, the woman’s counsel said that the defendant claimed he was in love with his client and that they had agreed to marry.
However, after spending the money on him, Umar abandoned her and stopped seeing her.
The defendant, on the other hand, pled not guilty to the accusations, explaining that it was merely a relationship that did not survive the test of time.
Following the reading of the charges, the Magistrate requested that both sides produce their witnesses for the next postponed session.
Addressing journalists after the court sitting, the woman said:
“I doubt he didn’t charm me. Whatever he asked me I did it instantly. I cooked different types of food for him, including chicken, meat, and even two rams.
“I spent over N900,000 on him. But from there, he started showing me as if he didn’t care. Later he stopped coming to me.”
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