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My wife’s friend who’s playing a ‘peacemaker’ role has fallen in love with me

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It all started as a joke. Now I’m in a state of disarray. Allow me to explain. My wife and I were having major marital troubles. We were always quarrelling. It was either that or divorce, and I was considering it at one time. I was there one day when I received a message from her close friend. It was a recording of my disagreement with my wife, as well as some really hurtful things I said to her. My wife clipped the tape and took out the part where she had attacked me and called me silly and irresponsible. All of the parts where she stated that she regretted accepting my proposal and that I was a plague on her were cut out. Her companion was trying to play the role of mediator. She was not unpleasant when discussing the subject, and she did not take sides. She informed me that she was aware that there are two sides to every story and that once my wife provided her with the audio, she wanted to hear my side.

I did not even realise I was being videotaped and I was really angry. But her buddy and I talked for hours, and she urged me to pretend I didn’t know about the tape in order for her to continue sending them in the future. My friend and I started talking about stuff that married people shouldn’t talk about. I’ve realised that clinical psychologists, counsellors, and therapists are just stuffed with book knowledge. Most of them act worse in real life. You let me continue narrating so you understand what I’m saying. My wife’s acquaintance is a licenced psychologist who does not practise. She is also married. Initially, she seemed to be instructing me on how to treat and deal with women, but our regular chats shifted to something else. This lady began telling me about her marriage.

Her spouse was weak in bed, and she couldn’t stop acting. The way my wife was also acting, I was usually on the phone with her buddy. She also enjoys travelling. She invited me to a three-day excursion to the Central Region during my leave. It was a group trip, and we went to tourist attractions and such. We did it the evening of the second day before returning to Accra the next day. I wish I hadn’t, but I was simply intoxicated and in a good mood and didn’t take it seriously. But she has fallen for me. When we got home, I begged her to stay away because what we did was terrible. The wording of this sentence is a little different than the one used in the video. I erased her number from my phone and began concentrating on my wife. But she remained the grumpy, rude lady who kept pushing me away.

Her buddy has also advised me that my wife is cheating on me and that we should keep doing what we’re doing. I initially assumed she was attempting to re-capture my attention, but she has forwarded multiple vns to me and screenshotted talks between my wife and her. According to the chats, she has been cheating on me for over a year. She admitted in the vns that the man can take care of her and that he has been sending her a lot of money. My wife has also insulted me in front of her friend. Everything is in the vn. We’ve been married for five years and have two children. What transpired between her and her friend was an error. I don’t want to get close to her again. She is a hazardous companion. But now my wife is cheating on me and treating me badly since she has married a wealthy man. I don’t know what to do. I require some solutions.

Source: Anonymous Confessions

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I introduced her to fraud but she scammed me and married my Canadian-based friend

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I introduced her to fraud but she scammed me and married my Canadian-based friend

I used to do fraud. Someone introduced it to my buddy, who then introduced it to me. The game has different stages. We were at the bottom of the game’s ladder, so we didn’t make much money, but the risk involved was excellent. Aside from the danger, you must labour every day in order to earn GHC500 every week.

We slept very little because our clients were all over the world, and because of the time difference, we had to stay awake in order to communicate with them. I had a major hit one day. I received GHC7,000 from a bargain and immediately purchased an iPhone for my girlfriend, Cynthia. She was aware that I was involved in fraud, yet she was uninterested. She became interested in the business when I gave her the iPhone and told her how I obtained it.

So when I had a customer who claimed to be a girl, Cynthia was the one who spoke to them. She was the one who set up the video calls. We were still struggling. We halted operations since the money was not flowing as promised.

Life was difficult for two jobless lovers. I couldn’t help her. I couldn’t help myself, so we relied on the generosity of friends who were succeeding in the game.

Ernest, a buddy of mine from Canada, came over one day, and we were all hanging around. Cynthia later informed me, “Your friend likes me.” He was licking his lips and staring at me in some way. Let’s go get some money from him. Tell him I’m not your girlfriend. Allow him to take me so we may obtain money from him.”

Ernest was formerly a player in the game. He went outdoors after getting money. I warned Cynthia Ernest that she might catch the hint, but she was so enthusiastic about collecting money that we gave it a shot. “Don’t let him sleep with you,” was the lone caution. Never.”

She brought me GHC 500 a week later. “He gave me 1,000 GHC.” “That’s your cut,” she explained.

Ernest was hiding the affair because he was afraid I would be upset if I found out he was seeing my sister. He was even concealing it from the team, but we were aware of what was going on.

He was here for a month, and we earned a lot of money.

He was still sending money after he left. Cynthia gave me my portion. I got a job and advised her not to see Ernest anymore. She didn’t give up. It escalated into a brawl, in which I threatened to let the cat out of the bag. “If you try it, you’ll go to jail,” she said. You know I’m familiar with all of your previous transactions. How much money can you offer me to get me to quit seeing Ernest?”

Cynthia is currently in Canada with Ernest, where they are having the time of their life. I tear up when I see their images. When I see these videos on Instagram, I want to kick them in the video.

Ernest finally understands reality. Cynthia, I believe, informed him in a way that she wouldn’t be held responsible, saying something like, “He gave me to you so we could get money from you, but I fell for you because you’re a good person.” That sort of thing.

I must confess, they had the final laugh. Cynthia informed me the last time I spoke with her, “If you stop being bitter, I will send you something small every month.” You don’t have to hate me since I don’t hate you.”

I bowed my head and kicked the bitterness out of my heart because money is money.

That girl is the only honest scammer there is. She maintained her promise. She occasionally sends me money. She’s gradually rebuilding the bridge between me and my old friend Ernest. She duped me, but I can’t really complain. I still have feelings for her but in a different manner. I adore her as someone who looks after me.

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I adore my husband, but I also love my boss

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I adore my husband, but I also love my boss

My spouse is fantastic. He’s a wonderful father to our children, and I adore him.

Everything went well till I saw my Boss for the first time lately. I had just recently begun working at my new workplace, therefore, I had never met the Boss in person. He was smitten with me from the moment he saw me. He knows I’m married and is fine with it.

He treats me like a lady and pays all of my bills. He pays for stuff I don’t even realise I need. I enjoy spending time with him. He makes me feel incredibly protected, and with him, the world may disappear for all I care.

He is not married and, in his own words, is eager to “be here” for me.

We are yet to have shuperu, but he kissed me last night before we split ways, and I’ve been craving his kiss all day. Not only have I been thinking about his kiss, but also about what it would be like to lay in bed with him and yield to his wishes.

I tell him how much it pains me to do this to my husband, and he says, “Don’t worry. Everything will be well. He can’t be harmed by what he doesn’t know.”

He has a knack of getting under my skin emotionally. Only my husband has been able to reach me in the same manner that my employer has, and it makes me want to keep him—keep him and keep my husband.

My spouse just refers to him as my Boss. If he finds out, he would undoubtedly break down and break up with me, therefore I’ve learnt not to leave any evidence. I’m in a state of confusion right now. Confused because my husband needs to hurt me or treat me horribly in order for me to fall in love with someone else, but in this situation, everything is perfect between us, but I still long for someone new.

I desperately need my job, therefore I don’t want to offend my employer. This is the only job I’ve ever had that pays above and above my expectations. I simply cannot afford to lose it. Aside from that, I want my employer and I need my husband. I wish there was a way for the two to coexist.

The gravity of the situation is that, since meeting my employer, shuperu with my spouse has become a responsibility for me. I make myself available to him, but I don’t feel anything. It’s similar to the fable of the brook and the stone. What effect may the stream have on the stone? Nothing. He’s doing it, and I’m thinking about my employer. I am aware that I require assistance.

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Woman sues boyfriend for abandoning her after funding his extravagant lifestyle

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Woman sues boyfriend for abandoning her after funding his extravagant lifestyle

A heartbroken lady has hauled her lover, Hassan Umar, to a Kano magistrates’ court for having dumped her after spending N900,000 on him.

In court, the woman’s counsel said that the defendant claimed he was in love with his client and that they had agreed to marry.

However, after spending the money on him, Umar abandoned her and stopped seeing her.

The defendant, on the other hand, pled not guilty to the accusations, explaining that it was merely a relationship that did not survive the test of time.

Following the reading of the charges, the Magistrate requested that both sides produce their witnesses for the next postponed session.

Addressing journalists after the court sitting, the woman said:

“I doubt he didn’t charm me. Whatever he asked me I did it instantly. I cooked different types of food for him, including chicken, meat, and even two rams.

“I spent over N900,000 on him. But from there, he started showing me as if he didn’t care. Later he stopped coming to me.”

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