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How to Approach a Girl: 10 Tips to Overcome Fear and Make Women Want You



How to Approach a Girl: 10 Tips to Overcome Fear and Make Women Want You

It’s not tough to learn how to successfully approach any female you desire. Sure, it might be intimidating, but with our help, you can learn how to approach women.

Walking up to a female you’ve never talked to before is like diving into cold water. It makes you feel uneasy. Your heart begins to beat faster than you can keep up with, and each step you take brings your stomach closer to your mouth. But, as a male, one of the most crucial things to understand in the dating scene is how to approach a girl.

We’re not going to make it any more tough than you currently think. Yes, chatting to a female you’ve never met before is difficult.

However, if you know how to do it without looking to be scooping her up, you’ll realise how simple the entire game may be.

How to approach a woman you don’t know

Glance at her

Look at her every now and then to let her know you’re attempting to get her attention. Be stealthy and discrete, and always glance aside when she catches your gaze.

You’ll pique her interest, forcing her to peek at you every now and again to see if you’re still observing her.

Make eye contact

Look at her and then away shyly every time she looks at you. Continue to stare at her now and then, locking your eyes for a fraction of a second before looking away.

You’re already attracting sexual attention by doing this. However, if she does not reciprocate here, she is most likely not interested in you. When learning how to approach a female, making eye contact is a must.

Appear bashful and awkward

Look at her from time to time and use your body language to appear preoccupied and unable to focus on the talk if you’re with your buddies. By doing so, you’re letting her know that she’s on your mind and that you’re too preoccupied to pay attention to your buddies. That’s the kind of subtle flattery that draws ladies!

Smile at her

Make one or two brief eye contact exchanges each minute, no more. When you’re feeling brave, make a little smile from the corner of your mouth for a second and let her see it. Don’t offer her a wide grin, though, because it’s weird. At this point, a nasty broad grin will scare any female away.

When learning how to approach a girl, wait for the right moment

Sometimes all you have to do is wait for the girl to offer you the opportunity to speak with her. If she’s actually interested and wants to chat with you, she’ll make it easy for you to approach her.

Gesticulate that you want to talk to her

To grab her attention, use the appropriate movements. This is difficult, but as long as you get the idea over, it will work if done confidently.

The challenge – she’s with a group of girls

If she’s with a group of pals, you have two options for approaching her. First, you may boldly approach her with your attention fixated on her. Walk right into the herd, but just glance at her. If you glance at anybody else, your envious buddies may come after you if they think you’re talking to them.

“Hey… I apologise for interrupting you, but can I chat with you for a moment? I really wouldn’t be able to leave this location without getting to know you… “

Ask if you can buy her a drink

This may work really effectively at a bar if you’ve previously established chemistry and piqued her curiosity. Buy her the same drink she’s already drinking and request that the waiter bring it to her.

The server would probably say something cheesy and pompous like, “The gentleman sitting over there would like to offer you this drink.”

If there are two girls in a group

Walk directly up to a group of two females while looking at the one you like. If the female is also interested in you, her companion will go discreetly with an explanation.

Even if the friend decides to stay, introduce yourself and use a sentence similar to the third point. Include the girl’s friend in your chat this time, and make her feel good about herself as well. Remember to maintain your attention on the female you like.

Keep these conversation moves in mind, and you’ll be OK. If you want to make sure it works every time, start by creating suspense and mystery with your glances and eye contact. You’ll always manage to impress the female before ever approaching her.

Make yourself presentable

This is where you remove any “extraneous variables” that may or may not effect the outcome of your strategy. Wear proper clothing, take care to hygiene, and top it off with a personal flair indicating that you’re an intriguing person to make an excellent first impression.


I introduced her to fraud but she scammed me and married my Canadian-based friend




I introduced her to fraud but she scammed me and married my Canadian-based friend

I used to do fraud. Someone introduced it to my buddy, who then introduced it to me. The game has different stages. We were at the bottom of the game’s ladder, so we didn’t make much money, but the risk involved was excellent. Aside from the danger, you must labour every day in order to earn GHC500 every week.

We slept very little because our clients were all over the world, and because of the time difference, we had to stay awake in order to communicate with them. I had a major hit one day. I received GHC7,000 from a bargain and immediately purchased an iPhone for my girlfriend, Cynthia. She was aware that I was involved in fraud, yet she was uninterested. She became interested in the business when I gave her the iPhone and told her how I obtained it.

So when I had a customer who claimed to be a girl, Cynthia was the one who spoke to them. She was the one who set up the video calls. We were still struggling. We halted operations since the money was not flowing as promised.

Life was difficult for two jobless lovers. I couldn’t help her. I couldn’t help myself, so we relied on the generosity of friends who were succeeding in the game.

Ernest, a buddy of mine from Canada, came over one day, and we were all hanging around. Cynthia later informed me, “Your friend likes me.” He was licking his lips and staring at me in some way. Let’s go get some money from him. Tell him I’m not your girlfriend. Allow him to take me so we may obtain money from him.”

Ernest was formerly a player in the game. He went outdoors after getting money. I warned Cynthia Ernest that she might catch the hint, but she was so enthusiastic about collecting money that we gave it a shot. “Don’t let him sleep with you,” was the lone caution. Never.”

She brought me GHC 500 a week later. “He gave me 1,000 GHC.” “That’s your cut,” she explained.

Ernest was hiding the affair because he was afraid I would be upset if I found out he was seeing my sister. He was even concealing it from the team, but we were aware of what was going on.

He was here for a month, and we earned a lot of money.

He was still sending money after he left. Cynthia gave me my portion. I got a job and advised her not to see Ernest anymore. She didn’t give up. It escalated into a brawl, in which I threatened to let the cat out of the bag. “If you try it, you’ll go to jail,” she said. You know I’m familiar with all of your previous transactions. How much money can you offer me to get me to quit seeing Ernest?”

Cynthia is currently in Canada with Ernest, where they are having the time of their life. I tear up when I see their images. When I see these videos on Instagram, I want to kick them in the video.

Ernest finally understands reality. Cynthia, I believe, informed him in a way that she wouldn’t be held responsible, saying something like, “He gave me to you so we could get money from you, but I fell for you because you’re a good person.” That sort of thing.

I must confess, they had the final laugh. Cynthia informed me the last time I spoke with her, “If you stop being bitter, I will send you something small every month.” You don’t have to hate me since I don’t hate you.”

I bowed my head and kicked the bitterness out of my heart because money is money.

That girl is the only honest scammer there is. She maintained her promise. She occasionally sends me money. She’s gradually rebuilding the bridge between me and my old friend Ernest. She duped me, but I can’t really complain. I still have feelings for her but in a different manner. I adore her as someone who looks after me.

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I adore my husband, but I also love my boss




I adore my husband, but I also love my boss

My spouse is fantastic. He’s a wonderful father to our children, and I adore him.

Everything went well till I saw my Boss for the first time lately. I had just recently begun working at my new workplace, therefore, I had never met the Boss in person. He was smitten with me from the moment he saw me. He knows I’m married and is fine with it.

He treats me like a lady and pays all of my bills. He pays for stuff I don’t even realise I need. I enjoy spending time with him. He makes me feel incredibly protected, and with him, the world may disappear for all I care.

He is not married and, in his own words, is eager to “be here” for me.

We are yet to have shuperu, but he kissed me last night before we split ways, and I’ve been craving his kiss all day. Not only have I been thinking about his kiss, but also about what it would be like to lay in bed with him and yield to his wishes.

I tell him how much it pains me to do this to my husband, and he says, “Don’t worry. Everything will be well. He can’t be harmed by what he doesn’t know.”

He has a knack of getting under my skin emotionally. Only my husband has been able to reach me in the same manner that my employer has, and it makes me want to keep him—keep him and keep my husband.

My spouse just refers to him as my Boss. If he finds out, he would undoubtedly break down and break up with me, therefore I’ve learnt not to leave any evidence. I’m in a state of confusion right now. Confused because my husband needs to hurt me or treat me horribly in order for me to fall in love with someone else, but in this situation, everything is perfect between us, but I still long for someone new.

I desperately need my job, therefore I don’t want to offend my employer. This is the only job I’ve ever had that pays above and above my expectations. I simply cannot afford to lose it. Aside from that, I want my employer and I need my husband. I wish there was a way for the two to coexist.

The gravity of the situation is that, since meeting my employer, shuperu with my spouse has become a responsibility for me. I make myself available to him, but I don’t feel anything. It’s similar to the fable of the brook and the stone. What effect may the stream have on the stone? Nothing. He’s doing it, and I’m thinking about my employer. I am aware that I require assistance.

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Woman sues boyfriend for abandoning her after funding his extravagant lifestyle




Woman sues boyfriend for abandoning her after funding his extravagant lifestyle

A heartbroken lady has hauled her lover, Hassan Umar, to a Kano magistrates’ court for having dumped her after spending N900,000 on him.

In court, the woman’s counsel said that the defendant claimed he was in love with his client and that they had agreed to marry.

However, after spending the money on him, Umar abandoned her and stopped seeing her.

The defendant, on the other hand, pled not guilty to the accusations, explaining that it was merely a relationship that did not survive the test of time.

Following the reading of the charges, the Magistrate requested that both sides produce their witnesses for the next postponed session.

Addressing journalists after the court sitting, the woman said:

“I doubt he didn’t charm me. Whatever he asked me I did it instantly. I cooked different types of food for him, including chicken, meat, and even two rams.

“I spent over N900,000 on him. But from there, he started showing me as if he didn’t care. Later he stopped coming to me.”

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