Relationship
My in-laws have decided to sell my child’s paternity right to prevent me from using it to acquire a visa to Europe

My fiancée is in Europe and I am in Ghana, but I see her frequently because of my profession, and despite the ups and downs that have caused us to lose hope, we have always been there for each other. We’ve all experienced long-distance relationships and their challenges.
I went to see her in Europe in August after she informed me she was pregnant. We were overjoyed and pleased since we had always wanted to have a family, but in the blink of an eye, my entire world was about to come crashing down.
When my fiancée’s parents found out she was pregnant, they advised her to get an abortion. She declined multiple times, but their reasoning was that she should work now that she had a job and help them finish their house-building project in Ghana. They also asked her to keep assisting them financially. At the time, she was 23 years old, pregnant, and still living with her parents.
They requested she stay and not rent, but rather pay them some type of home rent each month and contribute to bills. However, once we realized she was pregnant, she quietly moved into her own apartment. Because my fiancée declined to have the baby aborted, we talked to various elders about talking to her parents and convincing them that we are ready to keep the baby and establish a family.
Her parents agreed on the condition that before she gave birth, we do a minor marriage ritual to maintain the family’s honour. I performed the “knocking” as they requested since I was completely committed to her from the start. We were simply waiting for her to finish school so we could married, which she did this August.
However, we subsequently discovered that they accepted the knocking things simply to save face for their family members in GH. Their true purpose was to plot how to sell my child’s paternity to another guy so that he could obtain legal paperwork to reside in Europe in exchange for money for their own selfish gain. This would imply that my child bears the person’s name and that the fellow is responsible for representing my child as the father everywhere in Europe as far as he signs as the father whether it be at school, hospital or elsewhere.
Unfortunately for me, my work permit has barred me from returning to Europe because my firm is relocating its headquarters. I pleaded and begged, but they will not allow us to marry or allow me to sign as the father because if I do, I will be granted permanent residency and permission. But this is the same person I’ve been with for three years, and both families know about it, so don’t I get to be with my future family?
My fiancée is just 4 months old and unwell, and her family doesn’t seem to care; all they want is someone to sign in place of the father so that they can collect the money. Currently, this entire document is dealing with troubles with her parents, and the stress they are putting us through is slowly killing her. I’m not sure why they’ve become so bitter; they’ve known my family for almost 20 years, and every time I visited, I brought them costly presents, and they treated me like one of their own. They were proud to announce me as their future in-law to everyone who came by, and they even cooked and dined with me with excitement and happiness whenever I visited.
Everything was well until she became pregnant, and her parents were the worst and did the most. This is something I could never have anticipated. I’m at a loss for what to do now; if I should enable them to sell my paternity of the kid so that my girlfriend may have peace of mind about giving birth while still getting my child back but without the right to be a father in Europe. Or do I refuse to allow them to do so and instead push my lady to come and give birth in Ghana so that I may sign as the father and move away with my new family somewhere without her father’s permission? What are our options?
Source: Broken pen
Relationship
I introduced her to fraud but she scammed me and married my Canadian-based friend

I used to do fraud. Someone introduced it to my buddy, who then introduced it to me. The game has different stages. We were at the bottom of the game’s ladder, so we didn’t make much money, but the risk involved was excellent. Aside from the danger, you must labour every day in order to earn GHC500 every week.
We slept very little because our clients were all over the world, and because of the time difference, we had to stay awake in order to communicate with them. I had a major hit one day. I received GHC7,000 from a bargain and immediately purchased an iPhone for my girlfriend, Cynthia. She was aware that I was involved in fraud, yet she was uninterested. She became interested in the business when I gave her the iPhone and told her how I obtained it.
So when I had a customer who claimed to be a girl, Cynthia was the one who spoke to them. She was the one who set up the video calls. We were still struggling. We halted operations since the money was not flowing as promised.
Life was difficult for two jobless lovers. I couldn’t help her. I couldn’t help myself, so we relied on the generosity of friends who were succeeding in the game.
Ernest, a buddy of mine from Canada, came over one day, and we were all hanging around. Cynthia later informed me, “Your friend likes me.” He was licking his lips and staring at me in some way. Let’s go get some money from him. Tell him I’m not your girlfriend. Allow him to take me so we may obtain money from him.”
Ernest was formerly a player in the game. He went outdoors after getting money. I warned Cynthia Ernest that she might catch the hint, but she was so enthusiastic about collecting money that we gave it a shot. “Don’t let him sleep with you,” was the lone caution. Never.”
She brought me GHC 500 a week later. “He gave me 1,000 GHC.” “That’s your cut,” she explained.
Ernest was hiding the affair because he was afraid I would be upset if I found out he was seeing my sister. He was even concealing it from the team, but we were aware of what was going on.
He was here for a month, and we earned a lot of money.
He was still sending money after he left. Cynthia gave me my portion. I got a job and advised her not to see Ernest anymore. She didn’t give up. It escalated into a brawl, in which I threatened to let the cat out of the bag. “If you try it, you’ll go to jail,” she said. You know I’m familiar with all of your previous transactions. How much money can you offer me to get me to quit seeing Ernest?”
Cynthia is currently in Canada with Ernest, where they are having the time of their life. I tear up when I see their images. When I see these videos on Instagram, I want to kick them in the video.
Ernest finally understands reality. Cynthia, I believe, informed him in a way that she wouldn’t be held responsible, saying something like, “He gave me to you so we could get money from you, but I fell for you because you’re a good person.” That sort of thing.
I must confess, they had the final laugh. Cynthia informed me the last time I spoke with her, “If you stop being bitter, I will send you something small every month.” You don’t have to hate me since I don’t hate you.”
I bowed my head and kicked the bitterness out of my heart because money is money.
That girl is the only honest scammer there is. She maintained her promise. She occasionally sends me money. She’s gradually rebuilding the bridge between me and my old friend Ernest. She duped me, but I can’t really complain. I still have feelings for her but in a different manner. I adore her as someone who looks after me.
Relationship
I adore my husband, but I also love my boss

My spouse is fantastic. He’s a wonderful father to our children, and I adore him.
Everything went well till I saw my Boss for the first time lately. I had just recently begun working at my new workplace, therefore, I had never met the Boss in person. He was smitten with me from the moment he saw me. He knows I’m married and is fine with it.
He treats me like a lady and pays all of my bills. He pays for stuff I don’t even realise I need. I enjoy spending time with him. He makes me feel incredibly protected, and with him, the world may disappear for all I care.
He is not married and, in his own words, is eager to “be here” for me.
We are yet to have shuperu, but he kissed me last night before we split ways, and I’ve been craving his kiss all day. Not only have I been thinking about his kiss, but also about what it would be like to lay in bed with him and yield to his wishes.
I tell him how much it pains me to do this to my husband, and he says, “Don’t worry. Everything will be well. He can’t be harmed by what he doesn’t know.”
He has a knack of getting under my skin emotionally. Only my husband has been able to reach me in the same manner that my employer has, and it makes me want to keep him—keep him and keep my husband.
My spouse just refers to him as my Boss. If he finds out, he would undoubtedly break down and break up with me, therefore I’ve learnt not to leave any evidence. I’m in a state of confusion right now. Confused because my husband needs to hurt me or treat me horribly in order for me to fall in love with someone else, but in this situation, everything is perfect between us, but I still long for someone new.
I desperately need my job, therefore I don’t want to offend my employer. This is the only job I’ve ever had that pays above and above my expectations. I simply cannot afford to lose it. Aside from that, I want my employer and I need my husband. I wish there was a way for the two to coexist.
The gravity of the situation is that, since meeting my employer, shuperu with my spouse has become a responsibility for me. I make myself available to him, but I don’t feel anything. It’s similar to the fable of the brook and the stone. What effect may the stream have on the stone? Nothing. He’s doing it, and I’m thinking about my employer. I am aware that I require assistance.
Relationship
Woman sues boyfriend for abandoning her after funding his extravagant lifestyle

A heartbroken lady has hauled her lover, Hassan Umar, to a Kano magistrates’ court for having dumped her after spending N900,000 on him.
In court, the woman’s counsel said that the defendant claimed he was in love with his client and that they had agreed to marry.
However, after spending the money on him, Umar abandoned her and stopped seeing her.
The defendant, on the other hand, pled not guilty to the accusations, explaining that it was merely a relationship that did not survive the test of time.
Following the reading of the charges, the Magistrate requested that both sides produce their witnesses for the next postponed session.
Addressing journalists after the court sitting, the woman said:
“I doubt he didn’t charm me. Whatever he asked me I did it instantly. I cooked different types of food for him, including chicken, meat, and even two rams.
“I spent over N900,000 on him. But from there, he started showing me as if he didn’t care. Later he stopped coming to me.”
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