Don’t get taken in by a guy who isn’t ready to commit to you. Women are said to be tough to understand. We, on the other hand, disagree. Men are undoubtedly more difficult to read, what with all the contradictory signals. Here are some tell-tale symptoms that he isn’t all that interested in you.
He refuses to define the relationship
Are you in a relationship? Do you have a partner? Whether it’s easy or sophisticated if the person you’re dating is avoiding having the conversation and defining the relationship, despite your repeated attempts… So it’s clear that he’s trying to avoid the commitment that comes with labels.
He’s shady about you using his phone
Sure, it may be because he values his privacy, but he would be honest about it and not appear guilty about it. Another reason he’s suspicious of you searching through his phone is that he may still be active on dating apps, or there may be regular flirtatious texts with ladies. Or he may still have an entire collection of photos of his ex. Yes, this does occur.
He doesn’t know who your best friend is
This is such a simple concept. If he likes you and anticipates a future with you, he won’t forget the name of your best buddy. If he does, he was most likely tuning you out most of the time, which is not a good indication.
You haven’t met his close friends
Another red flag is that he hasn’t introduced you to his ‘bros’. And the only plausible explanation in this scenario is that all of his best friends do not reside in the same city as you. Even if he hasn’t told you anything about them or made arrangements to make you meet them in the future… He’s probably not going to be here for long.
He only calls you when he wants to meet
He never calls to see how your day went or messages you to say he misses you. No, he only contacts you when he wants to make a “scene” or “hang out.” He’s even hesitant to call it a date at times because, well, labels. What does this mean, ladies?
He doesn’t show up for non-date things
Like that time you asked him to your friend’s birthday party, or that art show, or even that event you were really looking forward to… He often avoids group activities and is usually busy when you wish to meet him.
You’re reading this
You spotted the title and quickly clicked. That deed says more than we ever could. Even if the indicators haven’t been evident, if you have a terrible feeling about something (even if you don’t know why), you should follow your instincts.
