During my school days, I used to say that men in uniform are my type. It started as a joke with my friends, and then it became an obsession. I was so much into them, especially the soldiers that I was even turning down other guys’ proposals.
I remember there was this particular guy who liked me. I somehow felt like he was too calm and gentle for me. Instead of letting him know from the beginning that I wasn’t interested, I played around with him until he realized I wasn’t serious about him and then he stopped worrying me. I did similar things to other guys hoping to get a military guy.
I was so into them that I started going through my 4000+ Facebook friends to see if I could see any guy in a military uniform. I wasn’t a nurse, but I joined Facebook nurse groups because I got to know that those guys liked nurses.
It was in one of the nurse groups that I started chatting with this man. He was well built and tall, my type p3p33p3. I posted my picture in the group and he commented that I was cute. I didn’t wait for him to send me a message in my inbox, I went straight ahead and messaged him.
He was very responsive and we exchanged our whatsapp contacts and started chatting there. Within a few days, we were doing s*x video calls. Sometimes he will tell me he is tired or bored and I will entertain him by giving him free show. I will twerk on the screen for him to be m*sturbating to it.
I couldn’t wait anymore, I was in a hurry to meet him, but we were in different regions. After some weeks, I couldn’t wait anymore. The video calls we were doing was making me more hungry to meet him.
But one of them seemed different. He wasn’t talking about s*x or anything. This guy was encouraging me to rewrite my papers so I can further my education to the tertiary level. I was 20 years and I didn’t have any plans of continuing my education.
We were chatting for lonh without him talking about s*x. I was even shocked but I somehow thought he was genuine because of that. I was the one who suggested we meet. He was also in a different region but he was closer than the first guy.
He sent me enough money for transport and I trusted him. We really had fun that weekend. He took me out and bought things for me. We also had s*x. He told me he loves me and we started dating from there.
I will cook over the week and bring it to him during the weekend. Then he also started acting someway. Around that time too I got to know I was pregnant. He told me he was not ready to be a father because he is busy and moves often so it will worry him.
He told me he knows someone who can abort the baby. I told him no. Hmmm so now I have a six month old baby. His father sends me money once a while but that is all he has been doing for me. I got one police officer who started dating me somewhere last month but after having s*x for some weeks, he just ghosted me like that. After what I have been through with these men, I don’t think I will ever date a man in uniform again.
I gathered some money on my own and went over to see him. It was a weekend and he had me to himself the whole weekend. I went to cook for him and then he asked me to do his laundry for him. His dirty things were a lot and I washed all, including his boxer shorts.
When I was done, my fingers were even hurting. As for the s*x, we did it for many rounds throughout the weekend. When I was returning home, this guy didn’t even give me ghc1 as transport home. Meanwhile, I had spent more than ghc100 in and out. He told me he will send me something when I get home safely.
When I got home, he started acting funny and he stopped replying my messages. Later I realised he has blocked me. I cried for the whole week and even posted the story in the nurse group. Through my story, other guys messaged me and started chatting with me.
Source: Anonymous Confessions
