I’m in a circumstance I’ve never experienced before, and I need your advice. I’ve been dating this girl for three years, and we’re really close. We’ve been friends for a long time before this, and our friendship has been great thus far. The only problem is that she mentioned last year that we should spice up our bed game a little and she proposed anal. I was stunned, folks. I had no idea there were females who like doing that. Some guys enjoy it, but I’m not one of them. It’s not natural, and it irritates me greatly. I told her I didn’t do that. Because of this, she became enraged with me. I adore this girl so much that I promised her I would do it only once. It seemed strange to me, but she enjoyed it.
Another time when I was knacking her, she took my joystick and tried to stick it in her buttocks. We instantly halted the lovemaking because I lost interest and softened. Later, I sat her down and asked her if there was anything in her background that caused her to like anal, and that’s when she told me about a certain guy who was doing that to her when she was in her teens. I don’t have the money for counselling or anything like that, so I’ve been trying to talk to her and advise her myself. Her thoughts must return home. I informed her that we had come to a long distance to split up because of this problem. I don’t have time to break up with her after years of friendship and three years of dating. The girl is now behaving inappropriately. Her perspective has shifted. She’s just annoying me right now.
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I’m curious if she’s worth fighting for. Every now and again, I give in to her wishes and we do her behind in this manner. After that, she acts normally with me, and we are delighted, but if we do conventional s*x without the anal, she becomes bored. I spoke with one of my close friends. He is the only one who is aware. He’s informed me that if I can’t get her a therapist, I should just let her leave. But I adore her, and this is the one weakness I’ve discovered in her. I’m curious if this girl is worth battling for. Is it better to let her go or not?