Relationship
I’m two months pregnant and don’t know whether to give it to the married or single man

Please keep my identity hidden and anonymous. For the past two years, I’ve been having an affair with my friend’s husband. I used to visit them frequently, and this man would send me money even when I had never asked for it. Then he started emailing me photographs of his stuff. Those items do not move me in the same way. I tried to ignore him, but I couldn’t resist his appeal. I was single at the time, and he seemed quite persuasive. I was renting a single room in a family home that was packed with people. As you may know, everywhere there are a lot of people who spread rumours. Everyone was interested in everyone else’s business. There was no personal space. If you try to stay in your lane, people will treat you as antisocial and snooty. He witnessed the scenario the first time he came to see me at my apartment, and just a few weeks later, he rented a chamber and hall self contain for me. In addition, I was the only one in the house.
He has equipped the room and cared for me for the previous two years. I work as a waitress at a pub. The compensation isn’t great, but I don’t mind because he sends me money every week. I know deep down that I don’t love him, and I know it’s wrong. Although his wife is not my best friend, we are acquainted. Her late mother was friends with my mother, and as a result, we are normal friends. I also purchase treats for their three children whenever I visit, so they like me a lot. This man has been coming to my house for the past two years, lying to his wife the entire time. He even went so far as to inform his wife about a work-related vacation and have a colleague buddy lie on his behalf. He stayed with me for a week.
I was startled when I became pregnant for the first time. It surprised me because my safe period calculation has never failed me before. I’ve dated a number of men in the past, and the safe period has always worked for me. I didn’t spend any time. I was not prepared to have a child at the age of 26. He handed me money, and I went to get it. This year, a frequent customer at the bar where I work began to become close to me, and despite the fact that we were not in a relationship, he invited me over to his house one Saturday to watch a movie, and we ended up becoming intimate and doing it twice.
After that, I assumed we were dating and that he would pursue me, but he stopped communicating with me. When he walks into the bar, he talks to me as if nothing has occurred. I understood as well, so I didn’t push it. I’m two months pregnant as I speak. The married guy is the child’s father, but I want to give the child to the man who comes to the bar. I do not want to end this one.
The first one I tried terrified me since I bled for a long time and believed I was going to die. I vowed to myself that I would never do it again. I’m wondering if I should tell the other guy I’m pregnant and it’s his child. At the very least, he is unmarried, and even if he does not date me, he will send me money for the kid’s care and claim the child as his. Giving this child to the married man, on the other hand, would cause a lot of difficulties with his wife, and everyone will know that he has been shagging me on the low.
Which of these men, please, should bear responsibility for my pregnancy? It could just as well have been the man from the pub, so it’s not like he’s innocent and I’m trying to harm him. Please assist me. No insults, please.
Source: Anonymous Confessions
Relationship
I introduced her to fraud but she scammed me and married my Canadian-based friend

I used to do fraud. Someone introduced it to my buddy, who then introduced it to me. The game has different stages. We were at the bottom of the game’s ladder, so we didn’t make much money, but the risk involved was excellent. Aside from the danger, you must labour every day in order to earn GHC500 every week.
We slept very little because our clients were all over the world, and because of the time difference, we had to stay awake in order to communicate with them. I had a major hit one day. I received GHC7,000 from a bargain and immediately purchased an iPhone for my girlfriend, Cynthia. She was aware that I was involved in fraud, yet she was uninterested. She became interested in the business when I gave her the iPhone and told her how I obtained it.
So when I had a customer who claimed to be a girl, Cynthia was the one who spoke to them. She was the one who set up the video calls. We were still struggling. We halted operations since the money was not flowing as promised.
Life was difficult for two jobless lovers. I couldn’t help her. I couldn’t help myself, so we relied on the generosity of friends who were succeeding in the game.
Ernest, a buddy of mine from Canada, came over one day, and we were all hanging around. Cynthia later informed me, “Your friend likes me.” He was licking his lips and staring at me in some way. Let’s go get some money from him. Tell him I’m not your girlfriend. Allow him to take me so we may obtain money from him.”
Ernest was formerly a player in the game. He went outdoors after getting money. I warned Cynthia Ernest that she might catch the hint, but she was so enthusiastic about collecting money that we gave it a shot. “Don’t let him sleep with you,” was the lone caution. Never.”
She brought me GHC 500 a week later. “He gave me 1,000 GHC.” “That’s your cut,” she explained.
Ernest was hiding the affair because he was afraid I would be upset if I found out he was seeing my sister. He was even concealing it from the team, but we were aware of what was going on.
He was here for a month, and we earned a lot of money.
He was still sending money after he left. Cynthia gave me my portion. I got a job and advised her not to see Ernest anymore. She didn’t give up. It escalated into a brawl, in which I threatened to let the cat out of the bag. “If you try it, you’ll go to jail,” she said. You know I’m familiar with all of your previous transactions. How much money can you offer me to get me to quit seeing Ernest?”
Cynthia is currently in Canada with Ernest, where they are having the time of their life. I tear up when I see their images. When I see these videos on Instagram, I want to kick them in the video.
Ernest finally understands reality. Cynthia, I believe, informed him in a way that she wouldn’t be held responsible, saying something like, “He gave me to you so we could get money from you, but I fell for you because you’re a good person.” That sort of thing.
I must confess, they had the final laugh. Cynthia informed me the last time I spoke with her, “If you stop being bitter, I will send you something small every month.” You don’t have to hate me since I don’t hate you.”
I bowed my head and kicked the bitterness out of my heart because money is money.
That girl is the only honest scammer there is. She maintained her promise. She occasionally sends me money. She’s gradually rebuilding the bridge between me and my old friend Ernest. She duped me, but I can’t really complain. I still have feelings for her but in a different manner. I adore her as someone who looks after me.
Relationship
I adore my husband, but I also love my boss

My spouse is fantastic. He’s a wonderful father to our children, and I adore him.
Everything went well till I saw my Boss for the first time lately. I had just recently begun working at my new workplace, therefore, I had never met the Boss in person. He was smitten with me from the moment he saw me. He knows I’m married and is fine with it.
He treats me like a lady and pays all of my bills. He pays for stuff I don’t even realise I need. I enjoy spending time with him. He makes me feel incredibly protected, and with him, the world may disappear for all I care.
He is not married and, in his own words, is eager to “be here” for me.
We are yet to have shuperu, but he kissed me last night before we split ways, and I’ve been craving his kiss all day. Not only have I been thinking about his kiss, but also about what it would be like to lay in bed with him and yield to his wishes.
I tell him how much it pains me to do this to my husband, and he says, “Don’t worry. Everything will be well. He can’t be harmed by what he doesn’t know.”
He has a knack of getting under my skin emotionally. Only my husband has been able to reach me in the same manner that my employer has, and it makes me want to keep him—keep him and keep my husband.
My spouse just refers to him as my Boss. If he finds out, he would undoubtedly break down and break up with me, therefore I’ve learnt not to leave any evidence. I’m in a state of confusion right now. Confused because my husband needs to hurt me or treat me horribly in order for me to fall in love with someone else, but in this situation, everything is perfect between us, but I still long for someone new.
I desperately need my job, therefore I don’t want to offend my employer. This is the only job I’ve ever had that pays above and above my expectations. I simply cannot afford to lose it. Aside from that, I want my employer and I need my husband. I wish there was a way for the two to coexist.
The gravity of the situation is that, since meeting my employer, shuperu with my spouse has become a responsibility for me. I make myself available to him, but I don’t feel anything. It’s similar to the fable of the brook and the stone. What effect may the stream have on the stone? Nothing. He’s doing it, and I’m thinking about my employer. I am aware that I require assistance.
Relationship
Woman sues boyfriend for abandoning her after funding his extravagant lifestyle

A heartbroken lady has hauled her lover, Hassan Umar, to a Kano magistrates’ court for having dumped her after spending N900,000 on him.
In court, the woman’s counsel said that the defendant claimed he was in love with his client and that they had agreed to marry.
However, after spending the money on him, Umar abandoned her and stopped seeing her.
The defendant, on the other hand, pled not guilty to the accusations, explaining that it was merely a relationship that did not survive the test of time.
Following the reading of the charges, the Magistrate requested that both sides produce their witnesses for the next postponed session.
Addressing journalists after the court sitting, the woman said:
“I doubt he didn’t charm me. Whatever he asked me I did it instantly. I cooked different types of food for him, including chicken, meat, and even two rams.
“I spent over N900,000 on him. But from there, he started showing me as if he didn’t care. Later he stopped coming to me.”
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